Is Saumya right did she ruin Harman life?

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ashna

@ashna26

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Posted: 9 years ago

Now that Saumya knows she is kinner / intersex. Is she right did she ruin Harman life? I feel so sad for her? Also for intersex people? THey are human first, not things from other worlds. Why this discrimination. Will Harman stay with her or leave Saumay for ruining his life?

What is fair for Harman? So difficult subject? Harman seems to love Saumya the girl, will he love Saumya intersex. Will Saumya able to love Harman? I dont feel Saumya knows what love is yet? She feels she obligated more to Harman.

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Nish_A09

@zubeada

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Posted: 9 years ago

time will answer all those questions

and i hope they show soumya is lucky for harman not the otherwise

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Scrumptious

@Scrumptious

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Posted: 9 years ago

I don't think she ruined his life...as she herslef was not aware of her truth...😳 if she intentionally married him inspite of knowing that she's an intersex that would've been a fraud & here she wasn't aware if it...& As soon as she came to know...she revealed it to him so that he can decide wheather he will accept her or marry soneone else 😆 So I don't think so...& As far as harman accepting saumya is concerned he will accept her for sure one day... but right now he might feel shattered & hurt for some time then he will gradually start realizing somu's value & bring her back in his life...😛

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Namita

@Namita-M

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Posted: 9 years ago

Those are some loaded questions. The answers are in the show but hopefully, they will show it properly.

I do feel that if they had to show the intersex issue, they could have gone a totally different route. They are discriminated against. Marriage is the last thing, they need to be able to live in the society like normal people. Plus who are we to determine what is normal.

I don't care for the love story, I would have loved Soumya fight to live equally!

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anitarani

@anitarani

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Posted: 9 years ago

Poor thing, Saumya consciously did not hurt Harman...in fact her

nature is shown in such a way that she really cannot hurt anyone..

She herself did not know the truth...so..she is in more pain now.

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965319

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: _Namita_
Those are some loaded questions. The answers are in the show but hopefully, they will show it properly.
I do feel that if they had to show the intersex issue, they could have gone a totally different route. They are discriminated against. Marriage is the last thing, they need to be able to live in the society like normal people. Plus who are we to determine what is normal.

I don't care for the love story, I would have loved Soumya fight to live equally!

IKR,what was the need for marriage,they could have easily shown Saumya as someone who is aware of her condition and therefore avoids boys and Harman as someone who gets attracted to her initially not knowing her condition and then falls for her regardless of her condition.

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usha

@ushasri

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Posted: 9 years ago

soumya didnt do any mistake it is nimmi who didmistake

harman may not leave her but soumya herself might leave him

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alka2212

@alka2212

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Posted: 9 years ago

I don't think its her fault

She didn't know about herself

But its completely harman's decision to choose b/w accepting her or seperating from her

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Ishu

@Pani.Puri

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Posted: 9 years ago

I don't feel so that Somu and Harman are to be blamed anywhere in this whole fiasco . Somu never knew her own truth but when she came to know about her truth she did make a point to tell Harman about it (maha episode)