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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: shinaa

i was shocked to see a comment that manik is the bad guy and he will do this its nandini fault as she is not protesting.its like log rape hone ke bad bolte hain ladko ka khoon to garam hota hi hain wo to aisa karenge ladkiyon ko khudko sambhalna tha.



what exactly is "shocking" about this comment? Manik has been established as a kameena with anyone who isn't from his group since day1. Expecting him to go easy on his supposed enemies just doesn't make sense. But Nandini? She was a strong girl who took no one's shit but now she is obliging to everything he demands and not even trying to find any loophole to get out of his slavery. How is Manik at fault if he's doing the one thing he promised he would to her - make her life hell. Please don't start assuming that I support abuses but in context, Manik's fault isn't bigger than Nandini's.

And bringing in rape in every abuse argument is so easy. Rape is the ultimate show of power that man can wield over woman (or vice versa). Yahan rape ka kya kaam? Better argument would be about bullying since that's what we are talking about here.

Is he trying to rape her? No. Did he molest her? Not that I think of. Did he make her uncomfortable? Yes. Does he get physically abusive with her? Only some manhandling to make her bow. Rest she does with all her free will.

Rape is an inexcusable crime. But that's not what's happening here. It's harassment. When a woman is harassed by someone and she stays quiet about it, then she becomes an equal culprit. Why was she silent? Why didn't she speak up? Why no cries of protests? Why no plan to counter that act of harassment? Why give the man the chance to continue doing that shit?

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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: shinaa

you are comparing this with vampire diaries. Elena was equally damaged in tjat story its a completely different game altogether

elena was shown as a goody goody two shoes in the show...stefan was also damaged but was good guy compared to damon...am not going deep into tvd because it is crap and i regret watching it... my point was after every horrible thing damon did to elena she still fell in love with him...also in bof the main guy insulted the girl in front of the school (sorry i dont remeber their names) still she fell in love with him...
basically am trying to say is that its not just indian shows that shows the love hate concept where at first the guy insults a girl in every possible manner and suddenly falls for her...its shown in foreign shows too...that's all
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Catatonic_Cat



Like you I like hate stories as much as the other person because of the potential of story development but when things go overboard, someone has to say it. And not its not just a TV show, there are scientific research studies that show TV influences society, so people do get influenced. I have watched BOF as well as HYT and the lead girl does not wipe the shoe, she retaliates, see how different the treatment was, here the girl meekly wipes the shoe.
The premise of TVD is completely different, its about vampires, a vampire is not a tame person, they kill, when the blood lust happens, neither Damon or Stefan are normal. Stefan the supposedly good guy was also the Ripper. Manik is a human being not a vampire.

if we keep the vampire think out of tvd its just a typical teenage drama where everyone sleeps with everyone...what am saying is that in all the shows the good girl falls for the bad guy and to show the bad guy bad they will make him torture the girl. in BOF i think it all started when she refused to clean the shoe and here it all started with the punch.(i saw bof a long time ago so i dont remember every details correctly so correct me if am wrong). in ky2 if he asked her to clean it before the contract she would have never done it. i think in the korean movie 100 days with mr arrogant there are scenes similar to that (again i dont remember it properly).
also most of the shows nowadays have hate stories so to keep ahead of others they will make the bad guy worst than others. eg sadda haq i hated rd at the begining of the show because of his mcpness but as the story progressed he became my fav. now he realises his faults and genuinely said sorry to sanyu. it took 8-9 mnths for that to happen. ky2 is not even a month old.its an indian show it will only move like a snail.
also this is indian media they will show what sells the best. they dont care wants gud or bad for others...to an extent we ourself are responsible. all these shows are guilty pleasure. no matter how illogical and brainless it is we will still watch it.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Poor TM ki baja di yaar!! She was just puting her thoughts across us. "Freedom of speech" remember???If she finds it interesting that be it na,.. Why mock her! I doubt next time if she wants to make a post she will remember this and maybe stop herself! Thanks to u guys for fighting over here!

People who dont like the content or episode should discuss it there where they think others will agree to them and not where someone else is praising someone!! Just to be on a peaceful side.

This forum is peaceful, please keep it that way!! 😊

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