You're Gonna Hear Me Roar: Ishita - Page 8

Originally posted by: Aeryn

@ paru_rox. You have only highlighted why it comes across as an ego battle

She was miffed (rightly so) that as a wife she wasn't taken into confidence. Her hurt lies there but is it justified for her to bargain a child's life for that? This is what she is doing... Shagun jailed=Adi being put in foster care... That sounds petty and revengeful. An action taken against her sauten...

When Toshi went to Madhu for her to drop the case - Ishita didn't hesitate at all. She came and said to Toshi she understands her pov and pain as a mother, she then went to Raman and told him clearly "let's drop the case, it isn't worth it anymore". Where was param ever shown remorseful then? Nowhere nah, so why does she needs it for Shagun? What would she gain by it anyway apart from personal satisfaction? A child's life is at stake here, that why I can't understand her...the Ishita I knew wasn't one to toy with a child well fare

We agree to disagree, it's ok ...no hard feelings, everyone is entitled to his view 😃

Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

In this case Adi has to be sent to a Disciplinarian or Detention Centre to teach him a lesson.

I think Adi's had falsely accused his father of abuse before when he was taken away from Raman.

Taking Adi away from Shagun is going to prove to be a good move for him and his future.

A child who is as angry and full of hatred for his father and is easily swayed by his manipulating mother needs to get some therapy to deal with both his parents and the society he will eventually enter.

Showing sympathy to Adi now and not showing him the right from wrong is going to mess him up more and ruin him and his future.

Originally posted by: paru_rox

As I said earlier Aeryn, I am only pointing out the reasons for Ishita's outrage here. I am not going into Adi's custody case since am not sure even the CV's will go there. So will cross that bridge when we come to it.

Again it's not ego in Ishita's case, it comes down to justice & remorse. What if Ishita's mother was killed/disabled, was she still supposed to let this just coz of Adi. I do not agree on this point.

And Shagun deserves shit if she is willing to dole it out. Would it kill her to apologize for the sake of her own son? If its really coming down to Adi, then why is his birth mother not considering things when Ishita is giving her a way out? Isn't that ego?

@ red -- Yup ...we agree on this point 😃 . Hard feelings over a fictional show is just not worth it.

Originally posted by: paru_rox

Yes Shagun's upbringing has impacted him adversely. He does things when instigated by her. But Adi is also a bully, mean, manipulative and a liar. He is also self centered and rude. What he did to Shravan was not instigated or planned by Shagun. He saw the wedding video and planned out it all by himself.

He needs guidance but also someone needs to shake him out of his arrogance and materialistic world. Here I feel both Raman and Shagun are not the right influence on him. Raman with his misguided OD love and Shagun with her manipulations.

PS -- am not commenting on his custody here. Just the kind of teen he is shown to be.