Desperate Astha??!! - Really??!!! - Think Again!! - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
#21
Aastha is a strong and a patient woman and she knows what she wants. And it's not as if she's running after a stranger... that's her HUSBAND.

What i like about this show is in one side we have Anjali a woman who does whatever her husband asks her to do, by this she lost her parents, children...for what ????? what is she gaining in this ???? And she's trying to pass the wrong message to her daughter...to become your husband's slave...

And then in another side we have Kalindi also a woman who respects his husband but also fights for her right and respect and that's what kind of education she thought to her daughter, to fight for your rights ...

So who's happy a vocal woman like Kalindi or a doormat like Anjali ???

So why can't Aastha be expressive about her feelings ??? And that to with her husband...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@kareena05: kalindi & anjali's case r different ,kalindi didnt tolerate abuse ,she broke her marriage & married avdhoot who respects her & loves her equally ,she earns my respect

anjali is out of limit ,she is a bad example of mother as well as daughter ,who makes her parents to leave old house ????it was disgusting

now astha is not acting like kalindi ,kalindi doesnt face abuse from avdhoot ,astha faced abuse ,many times ,she faced insult & harassment & ill treats since SR till the hearing atleast ,till swati died shlokie did not use to talk to her nicely without some retorting ,now he is all of a sudden a gentleman which is weird somehow

now the point is we object that astha should not say ILU 100000 TIMES WHEN SHLOKIE USED TO ABUSE HER

yes ,she can hear ilu from her husband ,but that husband has to do it himself ( remember he used to abuse her not soo long before ) ,atleast she earned that & deserves that shlokie says ILU TO HER without her pushing ,she did sooo much for him ,she sticked to him thick & thin ,he himself should come forward & should say that ,why astha has to remind him ,push him ,didnt she do enough already ??? didnt she assure sjhlokie that she does love him & wont leave him ????,now it should be shlokie who should do without astha's pushing

astha is feeling insecure thats why she is pushing ,she is chasing a dream ,she wants the diary shlokie that w as for swati for herself now ,nothing wrong with that ,but its shlokie who has to do it ,astha has done enough ,why she has to push him for that ????also astha should give shlokie some time or space so that he himself can come forward ,i say she should support shlokie ,thats it ,not pushing now ,shlokie himself will come around if he wants to say ILU

he easily said to swati infront of everyone " i m ur shlokie ,swati" ,so atleast he can say " i m ur shlokie ,astha " easily without push ,astha should wait little more ,since she waited this long
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Posted: 11 years ago
#23
Need to clear one thing... there is nothing wrong in a girl proposing or being forward in love... I personally love that...

The problem is... when someone irrespective of their gender keeps begging/nagging for love for the other person to reciprocate their feelings... its disrespectful to that person in love... its disrespectful to love itself... Love is given freely r8?? then shlok is supposed to reciprocate the feeling naturally... and being married does not change that
At least that's how I see it! Sorry for the rambling..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bingyy

@kareena05: kalindi & anjali's case r different ,kalindi didnt tolerate abuse ,she broke her marriage & married avdhoot who respects her & loves her equally ,she earns my respect

anjali is out of limit ,she is a bad example of mother as well as daughter ,who makes her parents to leave old house ????it was disgusting

now astha is not acting like kalindi ,kalindi doesnt face abuse from avdhoot ,astha faced abuse ,many times ,she faced insult & harassment & ill treats since SR till the hearing atleast ,till swati died shlokie did not use to talk to her nicely without some retorting ,now he is all of a sudden a gentleman which is weird somehow

now the point is we object that astha should not say ILU 100000 TIMES WHEN SHLOKIE USED TO ABUSE HER

yes ,she can hear ilu from her husband ,but that husband has to do it himself ( remember he used to abuse her not soo long before ) ,atleast she earned that & deserves that shlokie says ILU TO HER without her pushing ,she did sooo much for him ,she sticked to him thick & thin ,he himself should come forward & should say that ,why astha has to remind him ,push him ,didnt she do enough already ??? didnt she assure sjhlokie that she does love him & wont leave him ????,now it should be shlokie who should do without astha's pushing

astha is feeling insecure thats why she is pushing ,she is chasing a dream ,she wants the diary shlokie that w as for swati for herself now ,nothing wrong with that ,but its shlokie who has to do it ,astha has done enough ,why she has to push him for that ????also astha should give shlokie some time or space so that he himself can come forward ,i say she should support shlokie ,thats it ,not pushing now ,shlokie himself will come around if he wants to say ILU

he easily said to swati infront of everyone " i m ur shlokie ,swati" ,so atleast he can say " i m ur shlokie ,astha " easily without push ,astha should wait little more ,since she waited this long

The difference between Kalindi and Aastha her daughter is the experience. Before marring Avdhoot Kalindi too went through abuse and didn't see any change and came out of her marriage. Aastha is learning with each experience coming her way, she was patient to see if Shlok was going to change if he was a real abuser, then with time she got to know the real Shlok (who is nothing like his dad)...
But i do agree with u about Aastha running after Shlok and pressuring him to say ILU to her, she need to back off. But there's nothing wrong if she feels to say ILU to her husband.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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