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My take
No way is what Ovi did even comparable to what Purvi did ...leaving Arjun . No way is what Ovi did a betrayal . It cannot even be compared to make Purvi's actions look whiter and kosher in retrospect . Just as Romil was pounced upon to character assasinate Ovi , the one thing she was NOT , so Purvi's shameful unwed pregnancy could somehow be justified , Ovi leaving Arjun is being likened to Purvi leaving Arjun before the wedding .
When Purvi left Arjun , he was innocent . Eagerly awaiting a wedding . He was dumped for NO MISTAKE OF HIS .
When Ovi left Arjun he was GUILTY . He NEEDED to be left alone by the wife . It was due . He was left for a gross mistake of his that shattered the marraige .
To this it will be said by some that fine . Leave him then , but why the sex ? You are leaving him na , leave him without the sex and the possibility of a pregnancy .
To this i say ...may i know why we r jumping guns here ? Both Arjun and Ovi have not filed for divorce yet .
They are very much legally married . Arjun was BEGGING her NOT to leave . His love child did not give him even a momentary thought of a divorce . He even told his wife that look i have given Pari to Purvi . Come back now . THAT MUCH he wanted his marraige .
The wife listened thoughtfully and sadly . Had a make up sex session with him but ultimately decided she wanted some space as her marraige was going through a rough patch and told him so and moved out .
In which marraige this does NOT happen ? Is there a rule that there is no sex or a pregnancy between legally wedded couples while fighting ? Where , in which rule book ? Couples have rough fights during the day and make up sex during the night and pregnancies that can or not resurrect the marraige .
They r MARRIED .
They still have not even thought of a DIVORCE even after she has left for her space .
In Purvi's case , she was NOT MARRIED . SW said it right , her pregnancy is not respectable and will be regarded ILLEGITIMATE by court hence the hurried marraige to Onir for the veneer of respectability .
SW once commented and i agreed that though forcing Onir to follow her to Mumbai from Kolkata was wrong ,Onir was her husband . It was a husband wife matter . Exactly the same here . It was a husband wife moment . And if Ovi becomes pregnant from this night , she has a full right to , and the child will be LEGITIMATE .
Also , Ovi has no compulsion to tell Arjun of this as Arjun did NOT grieve his dead child once with her but ran instead to save the doctor who did this to Ovi . So if she decides that he cares only for babies made by him and Purvi and won't care about this one either , FULLY UNDERSTANDABLE . Arjun should find about his child by himself and really prove himself this time . Any wife would expect that .
Simply likening the sex and the leaving and the pregnancy to justify Purvi is exactly like likening her unwed pregnancy to Shravani . The reasons for the whole story in both the unwed pregnancies were vastly different .
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