ovi deserves this? DT Note pg7

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

well in all this mess i m feeling bad for ovi's dead child.

No sympathy for psycho ovi. She is responsible 4 her condition. She messed up her life very badly and now blaming arjun and purvi. Simple solution file a divorce case. Bt ovi is roaming on street like chudail.

And what bakwas she was doing with archana. She made deal of her aayi and now dnt want her aayi to sleep peacefully when she is nt well.

And in her entire bhashan she was going on and on with arjun and purvi story. Dnt even remember that she lost her child.

Her tears r looking like melodrama. I thought only purvi is horrible mother bt ovi is 2 step ahead frm purvi. Purvi gave her daughter like a toy and ovi is dipressed coz of arjun-purvi nt for child.

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sashashyam

@sashashyam

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Dear Jonelle,.

Do look at my post above and see if you have an answer to my question about the different standards applied by large chunks of the forum to Ovi and to Soham. It really puzzles me.

I am no admirer of Ovi's, but my heart went out to her today. Plus, I would never call the death of a baby as overdue punishment for the mother. Would you not agree?

Lastly, if Arjun did not belong to Ovi, which is true, and she is to be blamed for grabbing him regardless, one could say the same of Purvi, who is widely given the sole rights to Arjun, but who sold him, in a terrible act of betrayal, on that hilltop. Does her having chosen her mother over Arjun make what she did to him acceptable? Not to me., it does not, and I can never forgive her for that. Nor would Pari, if she grows up and finds out what her mother did to her for whatever reason. And children are cruel and totally judgemental.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: jonelle
That's what you call a nice chunk of reality it was well overdue.
No sympathy from me cause Ovi wanted Arjun the toy at all cost so these are the consequences that come's with things that does not belongs to you Ovi 😉

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nelum

@manan_virika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

People seem to hate on Purvi for giving up her baby to Ovi. One question, why do people think Ovi is a good mother and Purvi is not?

Ovi drank through most of her pregnancy, while Purvi made sweaters for her child.

I agree Ovi started to love her child. But Purvi always loved her child even after she gave Pari up.

Purvi gave Pari up for Ovi or else she would have never done this, and she wanted Pari to be with her biological father.

If Ovi can be a good mother after her alcoholic phase then so can Purvi after her tyaag phase.

Overall, no mothers are bad so Ovi and Purvi should not be considered bad mothers. They are just confused human beings.

Edited by arshi_arvi - 12 years ago

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi
People seem to hate on Purvi for giving up her baby to Ovi. One question, why do people think Ovi is a good mother and Purvi is not?

Ovi drank through most of her pregnancy, while Purvi made sweaters for her child.

I agree Ovi started to love her child. But Purvi always loved her child even after she gave Pari up.

Purvi gave Pari up for Ovi or else she would have never done this, and she wanted Pari to be with her biological father.

If Ovi can be a good mother after her alcoholic phase then so can Purvi after her tyaag phase.

Overall, no mothers are bad so Ovi and Purvi should not be considered bad mothers. They are just confused human beings.

This is a good way of looking at it.

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JShiv

@JShiv

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: sashashyam
Dear Jonelle,.

Do look at my post above and see if you have an answer to my question about the different standards applied by large chunks of the forum to Ovi and to Soham. It really puzzles me.

I am no admirer of Ovi's, but my heart went out to her today. Plus, I would never call the death of a baby as overdue punishment for the mother. Would you not agree?

Lastly, if Arjun did not belong to Ovi, which is true, and she is to be blamed for grabbing him regardless, one could say the same of Purvi, who is widely given the sole rights to Arjun, but who sold him, in a terrible act of betrayal, on that hilltop. Does her having chosen her mother over Arjun make what she did to him acceptable? Not to me., it does not, and I can never forgive her for that. Nor would Pari, if she grows up and finds out what her mother did to her for whatever reason. And children are cruel and totally judgemental.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

I never said Ovi knowing the truth about her dead baby is overdue punishment. I never mention anything about the babies for a matter of fact. Of-course it would be well out of place for me to say good her baby died she deserved it... What i'm saying is she chose this life for herself this life that belongs to someone else and is only paying the price for doing so being cheated is a part of the consequences she cheated others and they are cheating her now. Its only fair to say what goes around comes around. Of course it was cruel of Purvi for not letting Arjun and Ovi know about their dead baby and i hope she gets punished severely for that and all the other things she did.

@Bold i don't have any answer to your question cause i'm not the one that applies the different standers to Ovi and Soham. I states my opinion the way i see things we all do and i stopped justifying Purvi immoralities a long time a go.So sorry that's all i can say about your question.

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: jonelle

I never said Ovi knowing the truth about her dead baby is overdue punishment. I never mention anything about the babies for a matter of fact. Of-course it would be well out of place for me to say good her baby died she deserved it... What i'm saying is she chose this life for herself this life that belongs to someone else and is only paying the price for doing so being cheated is a part of the consequences she cheated others and they are cheating her now. Its only fair to say what goes around comes around. Of course it was cruel of Purvi for not letting Arjun and Ovi know about their dead baby and i hope she gets punished severely for that and all the other things she did.

@Bold i don't have any answer to your question cause i'm not the one that applies the different standers to Ovi and Soham. I states my opinion the way i see things we all do and i stopped justifying Purvi immoralities a long time a go.So sorry that's all i can say about your question.

yes what goes around comes around. but the punishment should befit the crime. her crime was proposing the deal. she didn't deceive cheat or lie. she said what she wanted and in return offered purvi something that she thought was in her power to give. purvi accepted. its not that ovi planned to not accept archana in her life. the only one who was cheated was arjun and by both women. purvi knew what she was getting into. and just dessert for ovi would be if arjun left her after 1month anniversary. this situation is 200 times more punishment than she deserves. this fowl is way bigger than anything she ever did.

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

I like purvi more than i like ovi and i spent a lot of my time wanting an arvi reunion

When you try looking at things from ovis viewpoint and her ideas of the world you will see why we are defending her

Taali ek haath se nahiin bajti

Ovis baby didnt come out of nowhere , arjun was the father

Granted purvi had the courage to keep the illegitinate child against society

Her keeping the baby does not make her a good mother

Her giving the baby to another woman for her to raise makes her a bad mother

Arjun is the biological father is not an agreeable counterpoint

As shamayala aunty said , it is easy for everyone to see soham reformed but ovi is the bad one

It all narrows down to the same thing : discrimination against women

Just becausw ovi is a woman she is bad

Now as for purvi , i would sympathize her if she understood what she did

Purvi was strong until she got married

Her marriage has ruined her completely

Purvi is in a happy marriage

I dont see anything is lacking to her

I really admire the skills of PR writers

They made hate arjun ad purvi

I watch this show for ithvik now and i want justice to ovi

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pari87

@pari87

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
yes what goes around comes around. but the punishment should befit the crime. her crime was proposing the deal. she didn't deceive cheat or lie. she said what she wanted and in return offered purvi something that she thought was in her power to give. purvi accepted. its not that ovi planned to not accept archana in her life. the only one who was cheated was arjun and by both women. purvi knew what she was getting into. and just dessert for ovi would be if arjun left her after 1month anniversary. this situation is 200 times more punishment than she deserves. this fowl is way bigger than anything she ever did.

Teju dear, I don't know how Ovi cheated Purvi or Arjun. she put the deal forward, straight and honest, however wrong it was, I don't call it cheating. Cheating is what Arjun did, falling for another girl after having committed to be engaged to another. Purvi cheated by not speaking up the truth about their sexual intimacy. Purvi cheated by first not giving a fig for her mother when she was busy romancing Arjun and mother was going through trouble in married life because Purvi took Ovi's place, but suddenly her love jagoed and she thought deal acceptance is best way to give mother happiness. Purvi should have simply been upfrotn honest about this crazy deal to the family and figured out a solution. But even that time I gave her benfit of doubt for stupidity as I felt she has this huge burden of debt for being adopted and had to do something about it. I felt bad for her and had never wished for her to have unhappiness by giving up the man she loves. Clearly she did not love him enough. But In this whole deal, Ovi did not cheat. she was upfront. The lovers accepted. Proper business like transaction. So call Ovi ruthless for going after what she wants so desperately and being almost crazy about it, but I do not call her a cheater.

Ovi did not cheat Purvi by kidnapping her and sitting in mandap with Arjun falsely. That is what villains usually do. They aren't straightfaced about offering deals. She had offered deal to Archu and Purvi, and she was ready to committ suicide, so I don;t know how it is cheating. When acquisitions of a company take place, there is a deal put forward of buying out that company, the other company accepts and some employees get fired. Is that a dishonest deal? But if a partner of a company slyly overthrows his other partner and takes over company falsely, that is cheating. Ofcourse, this concept is beyond the realm of understanding of many people.

But it is futile to explain it on this forum. I can't even debate since the arguments are not even based in logic. So spare yourself the torture too :)

don't you know, Purvi and Arjun could not romance, teenagers did not get more rain sequences and shirt da button was suddenly stopped, so hey, Ovi is the villain and she deserves dead babies for taking away "visual stimulation" of chemistry between the good looking actors. Most laughable argument in my life so far.

Edited by pari87 - 12 years ago

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Tanzia Scott

@latanzia

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

No One not even the most hated person deserved this. No Matter what ovi did she did not deserved this.

There is a special place in hell for punni, this girl needs to reap what she is sowing.

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 12 years ago

#40

We can spend all our lives arguing Ovi vs Purvi
But the truth is
Ovi is a woman , I am a woman
I have done wrong things in life
Many , but I don't think I deserve to be punished with a stillborn
That is a whole different thing

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