Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
ok im really confused. everyone keeps on saying that purvi shud get rid of ungrateful deshmukhs from her life. y shud they be grateful to her? did she do something for them? other than falling for their daughter's fianc/best friend and creating a rift between deshmukhs and kirloskars, what exactly has she done? ok even if we believe the excuses purvi uses for the stupid decisions she makes, she sacrificed arjun for archana but it was teju who really united manav-archu, purvi left kolkata to hide her pregnancy (she decided to leave even before ovi had a screaming fit at that party as per flashback. ovi's behavior just gave her an opportune excuse), she came to mumbai knowing she was preggers with arjun's baby for ovi's bhalai, gave her baby to ovi without her knowledge for ovi's bhalai, asked onir to dispose of ovi's stillborn for ovi's bhalai. pls correct me if im wrong but all this to me seems like purvi has an unhealthy obsession with ovi. she hasnt done anything for any other deshmukh, so y exactly should they be grateful to her?
archana adopted her. manav or the other deshmukhs had no say in this. so y shud they not show preference for ovi over purvi? archana shows preference for purvi all the time.the deshmukhs love and cherish purvi. manav gave the same to ovi, purvi and teju despite having no connection with her birth or upbringing. in that context even if she did do something for them so what? she's their daughter- you dont do your family favors. its your responsibility to do what you can for them.
Deshmukhs have always given more preference to Purvi
Purvi herself lives in the K house knowing of ovi's disapproval of their living in the same house
Manav has done more than anyone would do for Purvi
Even someone like savita feels for Purvi deeply