Ovi-Shruti-Ovi AT:Mod note Pg38&109 - Page 41

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

I am here twino...How was your day dear?

My babies are coming to stay with us tmrw until saturday...Wooo Hooo 😛

Poor Ovi yet again trying to give Purvi another chance with Pari... Not aware Purvi the python might bite her with poison and take Pari away from her...Thanks to Arjun and Onir the Loverboys & their help 😡

Originally posted by: pari87

Ovi's character has come miles from where she started.

From the spoilt, tantrum throwing teenager who was brought up in luxury and wanted everything at the tip of her isharas, has simply transformed into a beautiful, mature, and understanding young woman who has prioritized her life in the right way.

Kudos to her, after having been brought up with a motherly figure, with a father who was absent in wife's memories most of the time, a family that has never really warmed up to her ( Sulo, Archana, Teju, Damo), and a twin sister who cares more about the new step sister than her, a husband who is more into his ex-flame than giving it all to his family, a mother who has only sung praises of adopted daughter and never really cared for Ovi;s feelings, a father who ultimately failed to stand up for her in front of Purvi and Archana's pleas.

Through all these unsupportive people, she has grown all by herself, understood life, handled situations, worked through a humiliating marriage, gone from depression and drinking to a nurturing mother, all by herself. Only Savita has truly been there for her poti from day one.

She has adapted to a very different lifestyle in India, she has given up her career to work on her marriage and raise her daughter, she is single handedly managing Pari without househelp or even any help from husband, she is strong and understanding about her nemesis (Purvi's) loss of baby, she has put so much effort into letting bygones be bygones ( even though they clearly are not bygones for the hubby).She doesn't throw tantrums, she is calm and composed in face of tragedy, she is introspective on things she needs to apologize for, she has insight into her own weakness and works on it, she has immense respect for elder people and looks after father in law like a doll. She has her sanskaars in place, despite being from Canada ( as Ekta thinks people growing up abroad are not as sanskaari as people in india :P LOL)/

I am simply out of words to describe the personal growth this character has shown in this serial. All others have goen down the drain, but she is the only one who has been seeing a growth.

Today;s episode she looked lovely. Loved her understanding for the useless husband. She is so in love with this man, she is giving him her all, including blind faith and trust, despite having been cheated in the past. She is giving even her nemesis second chances ( when she asked purvi to change Pari's clothes despite the incidents that would make any mom wary to hand her kid to this lady) and overall just being a better person than both those two could ever manage to be.

IT is purvi who is unable to handle stress situations. Her way of handling them is either giving up whatever or whoever she can last minute, or running away, or swapping illegally, or lying and cheating...It is her who has no idea how to deal with life in the right way.

Ovi earlier could not deal with it, when she was committing suicide. but that time, I did not see Purvi concerned about her at all. She did not once ask Arjun to go and spend time with Ovi until she got better and to look after her instead of flirting in the rains. So now this concern truly boggles me.

It is Ovi who has come far from that suicidal tendencies, to handle life in the right manner. By prioritizing and by making mistakes ( drinking) but learning from them. She does not try to be God, or try to solve anybody's life and problems. She handles herself and her family and that is enough for any living human being.

It's not hard to see why so many of us love her. She is real, and she is the true star of a mucky twisted show for me.