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--Jenelle--

@--Jenelle--

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
So what do u suggest ...not to question husband ? I am not being sarcastic ..just plainly asking as im curious .

Kools dear🤗

She has all rights to question her husband. i'm just thinking that her suspicions will get the better of her and she may accuse Arjun of something which will be untrue and he'll get so angry that he'll just leave...

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

See jenelle this is what i feel .

it is better to question directly rather than hiring a private investigator or enquiring from neighbours as one often gets mirch masala feedback which is often wrong .

nothing wrong in a direct husband wife conversation in a bedroom .

why should she ignore vital things in her marraige for a brother she has not even seen and who may or may not be alive . She heard about him some days back . She can be curious about him , yes , but not this involved that she should ignore her own marraige .

This accusation of Arjun is puzzling .

Even i would be curious as hell if my husband would be seen playing detective in a mall with his ex gf . I would definetely ask him how come he met her there .

And Arjun had swung over the railings and run after Purvi professsing undying love and totally in denial , believing they both had made a sacrifice when in reality only he was sacrificed .

So what was he shocked about . He knows and she knows and Purvi knows about this love story so what was so surprising or so shocking as if it was an untruth or something .

His disgust at direct questioning will lead to her indirect misunderstandings now .

He will blame her for distrust then . This means this way or that way ..direct or indirect he will blame her only .

I would love someone like Teju asking him why is direct questioning not healthy in a marraige and why indirect evasiveness is . Saw that plenty from Archana in her so called love story with Manav where every thing was pushed under the rug and 'hidden' for good purposes .

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Alicia

@alicia.

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: jenelle05
hmmm... we'll see about that😉 😆

😆 He's only Purvi's one 😛

She may not accept him now but he will always be hers and hers only 😳

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NadaCinta

@NadaCinta

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Hi Kools

You're right that a wife should question the husband directly which is good as it clears the air of misunderstanding. In Ovi's case, before she questioned Arjun, the thing that was running in her mind was the words that Punni has cleverly put in her thoughts. That triggered her to question him. This sort of insecurity arises because Ovi is fully aware that Arjun does not love her. She only got him through emotionally blackmailing Purvi. She may even go to the extend of appointing a PI to chk on Arjun. She has already started to spot check on him by calling his secretary to find out if he's attending the meeting.

Arjun, although knowing the truth is still nice to Ovi. This insecurity of hers will not stop and its going to continue and it will become worse as and when she sees Arjun n Purvi,together. It might also lead her to a psychopathic stage.

This is only my personal opinion.

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
See jenelle this is what i feel .

it is better to question directly rather than hiring a private investigator or enquiring from neighbours as one often gets mirch masala feedback which is often wrong .

nothing wrong in a direct husband wife conversation in a bedroom .

why should she ignore vital things in her marraige for a brother she has not even seen and who may or may not be alive . She heard about him some days back . She can be curious about him , yes , but not this involved that she should ignore her own marraige .

This accusation of Arjun is puzzling .

Even i would be curious as hell if my husband would be seen playing detective in a mall with his ex gf . I would definetely ask him how come he met her there .

And Arjun had swung over the railings and run after Purvi professsing undying love and totally in denial , believing they both had made a sacrifice when in reality only he was sacrificed .

So what was he shocked about . He knows and she knows and Purvi knows about this love story so what was so surprising or so shocking as if it was an untruth or something .

His disgust at direct questioning will lead to her indirect misunderstandings now .

He will blame her for distrust then . This means this way or that way ..direct or indirect he will blame her only .

I would love someone like Teju asking him why is direct questioning not healthy in a marraige and why indirect evasiveness is . Saw that plenty from Archana in her so called love story with Manav where every thing was pushed under the rug and 'hidden' for good purposes .

Kool..yes she didn't beat around the bush and played detective...she was directly and wanted to know from the source himself, who is the husband. She never asked anyone else. Beside, there wasn't any big tamasha involved or a public show where neighbors saw her asking..I was surprised since all KAranjkar questioning involve slapping and is in full veiw of the family or public...she asked within the privacy of her home...she has absolute right to question her husband. If Arjun doesn't take it in the spirit it should be then he is at fault...my POV

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Well who couldn't be insecure of the things she went through…yes, she knows Arjun doesn't love her…but she is working to make him love her…nothing wrong in that too…besides, her calling the secretary only happened after she failed to reach Arjun multiple time…so that was natural too, in my POV

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pixienasrin

@pixienasrin

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

eggzactly...he will run away from her and fall into the arms of the queen f all distress Purvi...:P

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xodramalover

@xodramalover

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

That is a possibility. I think Arjun's and Ovi's relationship is already hanging on a thread. I think it will break soon.

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Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Ovi got Arjun by default.

As far as I am concerned Ovi had no right of questioning Arjun. This so called marriage of their is already weak.

Ovi got into this so she will have to face this as well.

Why blame Arjun for Ovi's insecure nature.

Ovi surely needs to get some sense.

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SudhaSangeet

@SudhaSangeet

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

ovi herself has asked for such insecure life dont we always say marry a person who loves you ratgjer than that person whom you love coz that means respecting other's feelings

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