Kool's Commentary : Sep 14 PR - Page 4

Originally posted by: pp29

I agree! Although @bold - Ovi should have suggested them moving away. I thought it was highly selfish on her part that she should get to stay with her aai and baba and the rest of her happy extended family but poor Purvi should move away. If her husband is not able to get over his ex-lover, it is not Purvi's fault and nor is it her responsibility to now leave her aaji and whatever else she has, to move away for Ovi;s marriage sake. That is why I think, Ovi is simply utterly selfish. Wanting to make your marriage work is in your hands, not by dictating to other people what they should do instead to make your life easier. This is just my outlook and my POV, so no offense to anyone ! Although, I agree that they were being practical in thinking about moving though. :)😊

See at the present situation also she knew what the problem was i.e; Purvi😃

The solution to the problem i.e; removal of Purvi from the environment😃

And how does she goes in achieving it, - she goes to Archana, close the door and talk in private to tell Purvi to go somewhere else….👏👏

Wow…I sat there and admired her….amazing execution ….nothing really selfish, but amazing analytical power to me…👏👏

Now, why she didn't thinking of going away herself….I guess at 19 that hasn't developed….I could think of taking my hubby to a far away land on a pretext of work and having a mini-honeymoon😉….But if the Cvs keep her character true to nature…that will come in time😆😆…..

What mother Archana should now know. She should walk up to DK darling and say, send son and bahu to a nice place on the pretext of work for few months….pretext of work, because it will make Arjun relaxed, not put unnecessary pressure on his poor soul 😉and the change of environment with divert their attention and start the healing process….😃

Now, with the time I have, I will get Purvi to work and convince her to get married as Kool said to somewhere out of Mumbai….again change of environment and memories so that attention is diverted and healing can start easily😃.,…..and why I said a few months to pack Ovi/Arjun to say the Alps…to buy the time to marry Purvi off…..that is what I the mom could do……

But, of course, Cv will want drama and nothing of the sort with happen….😉

Originally posted by: Kalapi

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PP2'.Ovi is a character who at 19 has a clear vision in indentifying the problem, propose a solution and go about getting it. If I get her to interview for me, I would definitely hire her😆. Why, because at her age when most young see the world through a color glass, she sees it amazingly clear without the added baggage of high principles of scarifies etc. etc. etc. 😉

See at the present situation also she knew what the problem was i.e; Purvi😃

The solution to the problem i.e; removal of Purvi from the environment😃

And how does she goes in achieving it, - she goes to Archana, close the door and talk in private to tell Purvi to go somewhere else'.👏👏

Wow'I sat there and admired her'.amazing execution '.nothing really selfish, but amazing analytical power to me'👏👏

Now, why she didn't thinking of going away herself'.I guess at 19 that hasn't developed'.I could think of taking my hubby to a far away land on a pretext of work and having a mini-honeymoon😳😉😳'.But if the Cvs keep her character true to nature'that will come in time😆😆'..

What mother Archana should now know. She should walk up to DK darling and say, send son and bahu to a nice place on the pretext of work for few months'.pretext of work, because it will make Arjun relaxed, not put unnecessary pressure on his poor soul 😉and the change of environment with divert their attention and start the healing process'.😃

Now, with the time I have, I will get Purvi to work and convince her to get married as Kool said to somewhere out of Mumbai'.again change of environment and memories so that attention is diverted and healing can start easily😃.,'..and why I said a few months to pack Ovi/Arjun to say the Alps'to buy the time to marry Purvi off'..that is what I the mom could do''

But, of course, Cv will want drama and nothing of the sort with happen'.😉

Varsha, I wanted to response to you about the Chndramukhi part, but had to run out in a hurry...😃

To me Chandramukhi was a self realized soul who loved Devdas without wanting anything in return. Her love for him changed her from a mere courtesan to a yogi...Chattopadhyay modeled the story on Radha, Krishna and Mira...Mira being Chndramukhi who only love Devdas without any expectation...and her devotion was such that she looked after him unconditionally...Purvi as Chandramukhi...I don't think so...

On the other hand Paro was Dev's loved from childhood. The relationship was such that there loved and fought together like all kids who grow up. Paro's character was such that she had a healthy dose of pride for her beauty as well as self worth. So, when the time came for taking a decision and Dev behaved exactly as a rich kid who didn't have the gut to go again his dad for marriage (but had a healthy dose of male ego and then when it was too late, couldn't control himself), her pride kicks in and she gets married to a rich man. As married, she performs all her wifely duties but almost a sanyasini...she stopped taking care of herself, didn't dress up and in fact gave away all her jewelries to her daughter...but, she performed all wifely duties, as I far I can remember the actual stories...she cared for Devdas deeply, but never cross her boundaries...herself pride was very strong...Now, Purvi, can become Paro, it depends on how the Cvs develop the character...

Anyway, my worthless 2 cents...and what I remember of the story

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

kalapi i totally agree about chandramukhi ... she loved Devdas unconditionally . What a beautiful analysis .

taya said that she can see Purvi as a Paro .

I think what Varsha meant was Purvi as the other woman ...i don't know what she meant but i construed it that way . Purvi loves Arjun and remains unmarried and his lover .

But Archana wont allow her to remain unmarrried . Sulo had tried to get Archu married a number of times even before the divorce came thru ...once with Satish , once with Jaywant .

Archana will be instrumental in getting Purvi agree to remarrying .