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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: vgiri
Varsha..
Yes I know what Ovi asked for was selfish but all she wants to do is want to work on her marriage with Arjun...

Ovi has been working so hard on this relationship for a long time (from birth prob.)

Now working so hard to make Arjun to "Love" her again by asking her mother to send Purvi far away 😡 Can she not leave that Purvi girl alone..

So did Purvi ...Did she not use all saam , daam, dand and bhed to convince Arjun into accepting her deal?? Was she any different?? 😳 Pyaar ka vaasta, Purvi wanted living with Unchaai instead of dying for love...So be it...😆

I get the msg that a group, Clique - link thinkers who does not like Ovi with passion is formed...Msg is loud and clear...😛

I am just giving you some things to think of.

I explained how the whole thing could have been avoided...Also after sacrificing Arjun-love for Mommy dearest Archana's happiness than why yearn for the same love??? Now he belongs to another woman...Dont pretend to sacrifice but she is not ready to let go...Caressing picture of another woman's husband is not a sanskari thing na...😆

Another woman Ovi is using the same tricks as some of you called to keep her marriage.. As they say everything is fair in Love and War...And we have both Love & War 😉😆 I agree instead of making sure to send Purvi away, Ovi should think of how she can move away with arjun out of the country...Much simpler solution...

I also know the comeback to that is She could not with Arjun so she is taking Archana and Purvi route..Ovi is using the same Saam daam dand bhed trick 😳...May be its in Ovi's genes which she inherited from her mother Archana who did the same maniplation with two women Shravni and Madhuri...Also Purvi inherited a behavior she learned living with Archana in how to say No but dil maange more 😉😛 all in the name of Mahantaa and tyaag 🤢

Abt leaving Purvi girl alone not sure why? As No one left Ovi and Deshmukhs alone after Arjun breaking up with Ovi...Sulo, Archana, Purvi and Arjun all were harassing Manav and deshmukhs abt Arjun-Purvi's engagement, wedding. Supporting purvi on kidnapping court case, Kanyadaan etc...I can go on and on abt cruel it was on Ovi a heartbroken young girl after Arjun conviniently ditched her 😡 Do u see Manav, Teju, Sachu, Savita harassing Archana to make send Purvi to timbaktoo 😉😆 NO right 😛

Trust me I know Purvi's pain too...i am not pathar dil...But she also put this Arjun-Ovi marriage thingie in motion so now she must lie in the bed she created-laid...

My 2 cents worth...Take it or leave it...As I am not here to convince any one..😃

Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago

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vgiri

@vgiri

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Varsha.. Have a GREAT Friday night..

Plz understand that I am not defending any of your points.. I just felt that her request to Archana for sending Purvi far away was VERY cheap and low at this juncture..

My 2 cents worth...Take it or leave it...As I am not here to convince any one..😃

Thathasthu 👍🏼 (this emoticon is like showing my hand to bless u)

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: vgiri
Varsha.. Have a GREAT Friday night..
Plz understand that I am not defending any of your points.. I just felt that her request to Archana for sending Purvi far away was VERY cheap and low at this juncture..

My 2 cents worth...Take it or leave it...As I am not here to convince any one..😃

Thathasthu 👍🏼 (this emoticon is like showing my hand to bless u)

My Guess I am much elder to you so I say Tathastu and Khush raho!!!! 😃 Have a great wknd dear..I am planning to PR or no PR 😆

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: vgiri
Varsha.. Have a GREAT Friday night..
Plz understand that I am not defending any of your points.. I just felt that her request to Archana for sending Purvi far away was VERY cheap and low at this juncture..

My 2 cents worth...Take it or leave it...As I am not here to convince any one..😃

Thathasthu 👍🏼 (this emoticon is like showing my hand to bless u)

Vilasini, I felt Ovi was very practical today….she being at 19 understood perfectly what was the case of her present problem in life and sh tried to solve it by removing that problem. Extremely analytical for a 19 yr old who could identify the problem and can figure out a solution. Rather Archana was the one to fail to understand the gravity of the situation both her kids are. If I was Archana, I could definitely talk with DK in sending Ovi/Arjun away from India and in the interim get Purvi moving by diverting her mind with a job and then arranging her marriage preferably away from Mumbai….and of course, Sulo as usual didn't help..

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jdronamraju

@jdronamraju

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

😊 Why bother with Arjun's feelings.. They are so mundane in the big picture of Ovi's happiness...Let us all pamper the barbie doll and get her what she wants...And then, as all problems are solved, they can shut down PR !!
Kalapi !! That is definitely a way to go..I am all for it now... 😊

Ps: I do agree on sulo though.. She was the limit...

Goodnite, guys..Have a good weekend...

Edited by jdronamraju - 13 years ago

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zonan

@zonan

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Ovi and Arjun is now married.
I think there is nothing wrong for Ovi being selfish to save her marriage.
I guess...

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: jdronamraju
😊 Why bother with Arjun's feelings.. They are so mundane in the big picture of Ovi's happiness...Let us all pamper the barbie doll and get her what she wants...And then, as all problems are solved, they can shut down PR !!
Kalapi !! That is definitely a way to go..I am all for it now... 😊

JD, don't you think in the present circumstance that all 3 needs to move on???

What could you do if you were Archana, under the present circumstance??

Curious, could you now, snatch Arjun from Ovi and give him back to Purvi…I am curious of your view point from Archana POV…or could you being Archana, ask Arjun to move away from Ovi...

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Ashlaika

@Ashlaika

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Ok... to the topic at hand... how low can u go - Agree with u... Ovi stoop to a new low today - IN MY OPINION!

Just a few points:

1. If we can claim that Archana should allow the "children" to work out their problems for themselves and the mess they created by NOT suggestion this marriage shud be annulled... then we have no right to expect Archana to talk to DK/Arjun about anything - including moving away to Canada. We cant have it for one and not the other.

2. If Ovi's obsession and "love" for Arjun is difficult for her to get over in the last 2/3 months after the split, and her behaviour is pardonable and given "time" for acceptance. Then why isnt the same benefit given to Arjun and Purvi?... it has only been 2 days maximum since the wedding... not 2 months. At the end of the day love is love, if that love lasted for 5 years or 5 months, it is still love. As they say - quality not quantity!

3. Ovi in my opinion was low. She went to ask her mother to send away a girl her mother considers a daughter just so that her husband can forget her... not giving her husband time or space as he ASKED. Also, not giving HERSELF time to show her husband than he can love and respect her.

4. Arjun said he loves Purvi. She knows this, and while some of us see the request as a great practical mind at work... I see it as cunningness and selfishness on her part to make the request. Anyway... my point now... If Arjun does not EVER love Ovi... and he does not love Purvi anymore, but falls for someone else... will she always continue to beg, bribe, plead, bargain and make deals to now KEEP Arjun? At the end of the day... its not the other woman... its the man. and from the inception - the man says HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.

With all that being said... I maintain that I think Ovi stooped to a new low today... for herself... and as ArMan's child and for all women who will never allow their self respect to be dictated by a man.

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SudhaSangeet

@SudhaSangeet

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

purvi you just die...
this will be ovi's next demand 🤢
when arjun will remember purvi, she will demand brain transplant of arun, when his heart will beat for purvi, ovi will demand heart transplant...🤣

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

The decision to fall in this by 'showing support to true love' has already been made by Archana . She showed such support that she took the risk of alienating her biological daughter by siding with her adopted daughter in this thirst of 'supporting sachcha pyaar'.'

Its too late now not to talk to DK about sending Ovi Arjun away for some months or anything . The deed has already been done ...both by the 3 silly young adults and Archana and Sulochana who opted to get involved although they could have stayed out .

Since Purvi consciouly opted out of a marraige , since Arjun consciously married Ovi and since Ovi consciouly accepted him inspite of knowing that he was heavily involved with another girl and since Arjun has opted to live like an Indian son with DK it now becomes mandatory for the elders to sit down and talk about what is in the best interests of the youngsters as the youngsters were very foolish and obviously don't have any idea of how serious an institution of marraige can be .

So yes ...they should talk to DK ASAP . Infact he should have a serious talk with his son . ARMAN should talk even with Arjun as a damad and then individually as a team with DK .

After that they should turn their energies to settling Purvi down ...by making a smart girl like her take up a job else where and slowly start looking for marraige proposals for her ...preferably outside Mumbai .

These r my 2 cents although i know nothing of that sort is gonna happen .😆

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