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Posted: 13 years ago
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Naava ,Tanya and Rashi dears its very hard for any son to punish their mother infact very hard for any child to punish their mother..

There is saying

Maata,Pitha,Guru,Devam meaning the order of nature of importance given by God is
mother,father,teacher,God.
God himself had placed mother above himself as he sees the world through her eyes and the child that comes out of the womb of the mother is directly related to him.The Almighty is giving birth to us through our mother.so truly there is this heavenly connection.
So any child especially son could not bring it upon himself to ever hate his mother no matter what.
And I totally understood Manav's plight today..I always knew the guy would be broken into pieces..
I told you dears that Manav always loved Archu and look today how he confessed that he has never ever moved on.I could always make out that.
I feel really sad for this man.If betrayal is something u get for loving your mother then I would pray and wish no living being gets that.
I still feel Arman are responsible in a way for this mess..
Hiten was fabulous today..He showed that emotions of completely broken down through betrayal which was fantastic..
Hiten stole the show no doubt 👏.I am so waiting to see now more of Manav/Hiten scenes now..
I am stated why I am thankful to Ekta but my anger and sadness is to show a mother reason of destruction in a son's life is very hard to comprehend even in reel life.Damn..
Wonderful acting by Ushaji,Mrilani,Anki and everyone today..

@Tanya the love of a son for his mother is for eternity and no matter what it can never erased.No son has the guts to punish his mother or even think of it.He would rather punish himself and that is what Manav is doing.I can totally understand Manav there.
Come on Tanya re u need give him at least this leeway..This is too unfair on him...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Supporting crime is more punishable than the maker of the crime..Useless idiot Damo needs to be the one to be punished first for seeing all the pain of Manav and deliberately hiding the facts even after knowing it for so long..
Manav needs to show his anger towards that useless Damo also.
But somewhere I also felt that Damo's justification that he did not want a mother to fall in her son's eyes made sense but this hiding truth and coming out the way it has made Savita fall even worse than before.
To hell with Damo and his useless justification.
Manav needs to tell this man on the face that you are equally guilty and you are no way escaping here.

Manav is very unlucky to have unsupportive parents with no unity in between them whereas Archu is way lucky in that sense.

I found this entire truth coming out scenario baffling..I mean on end Arjun-Ovi marriage reception and other Savita's truth...😕..Does Ekta even know that Purvi for the major sacrifice she did has no impact in reality.paradox of the situation is beyond reality to say the least.
And in all this mess poor Arjun was like "what the hell..." expression 😆..He must be wondering what the hell I am doing here in this family..
Last 24 hours has been nightmare for both the Guru-student duo unfortunately.

One more thing Manav had a selective memory loss..I believe he too wanted to take away the kids to canada..Wonder what was that all the blame on Savita washing your hands clean there...😕..He was too at fault there and Archu too at fault for agreeing to do everything under the sun..😕

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Naava ,Tanya and Rashi dears its very hard for any son to punish their mother infact very hard for any child to punish their mother..


There is saying

Maata,Pitha,Guru,Devam meaning the order of nature of importance given by God is
mother,father,teacher,God.
God himself had placed mother above himself as he sees the world through her eyes and the child that comes out of the womb of the mother is directly related to him.The Almighty is giving birth to us through our mother.so truly there is this heavenly connection.
So any child especially son could not bring it upon himself to ever hate his mother no matter what.
And I totally understood Manav's plight today..I always knew the guy would be broken into pieces..
I told you dears that Manav always loved Archu and look today how he confessed that he has never ever moved on.I could always make out that.
I feel really sad for this man.If betrayal is something u get for loving your mother then I would pray and wish no living being gets that.
I still feel Arman are responsible in a way for this mess..
Hiten was fabulous today..He showed that emotions of completely broken down through betrayal which was fantastic..
Hiten stole the show no doubt 👏.I am so waiting to see now more of Manav/Hiten scenes now..
I am stated why I am thankful to Ekta but my anger and sadness is to show a mother reason of destruction in a son's life is very hard to comprehend even in reel life.Damn..
Wonderful acting by Ushaji,Mrilani,Anki and everyone today..

You are right Jai .I don't feel angry at Manav if he says that he will punish himself by keeping away from my mother .He loves Savita more than anyone in this world .The bond that Savita and Manav share can never be erased .Manav started working from the age of 15 for Savita , he gave all his money to her ..
He even divorced Archana so that he could give Sachin to Savita ... He was marrying Shravani for Savita .
Even when he left Savita for a few days it was so that she would accept Archana and have a good life with Archana taking good care of his mother ...whatever Manav has ever done in his life is mostly to please his mother .He is a broken man today because the most important person in his life cheated him ...
I feel sorry for him .This should not happen to anyone .
But I am happy for Archana today .I wanted Archana also to have children who would love her the way Manav loves Savita .Archu had Purvi of course but now she also has Teju now .I am so happy that Teju told Savita to watch it before insulting her mother ...Clap
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Naava ,Tanya and Rashi dears its very hard for any son to punish their mother infact very hard for any child to punish their mother..


There is saying

Maata,Pitha,Guru,Devam meaning the order of nature of importance given by God is
mother,father,teacher,God.
God himself had placed mother above himself as he sees the world through her eyes and the child that comes out of the womb of the mother is directly related to him.The Almighty is giving birth to us through our mother.so truly there is this heavenly connection.
So any child especially son could not bring it upon himself to ever hate his mother no matter what.
And I totally understood Manav's plight today..I always knew the guy would be broken into pieces..
I told you dears that Manav always loved Archu and look today how he confessed that he has never ever moved on.I could always make out that.
I feel really sad for this man.If betrayal is something u get for loving your mother then I would pray and wish no living being gets that.
I still feel Arman are responsible in a way for this mess..
Hiten was fabulous today..He showed that emotions of completely broken down through betrayal which was fantastic..
Hiten stole the show no doubt 👏.I am so waiting to see now more of Manav/Hiten scenes now..
I am stated why I am thankful to Ekta but my anger and sadness is to show a mother reason of destruction in a son's life is very hard to comprehend even in reel life.Damn..
Wonderful acting by Ushaji,Mrilani,Anki and everyone today..

@Tanya the love of a son for his mother is for eternity and no matter what it can never erased.No son has the guts to punish his mother or even think of it.He would rather punish himself and that is what Manav is doing.I can totally understand Manav there.
Come on Tanya re u need give him at least this leeway..This is too unfair on him...


Jai, i want to say something as a mother. I am a mother to both a son and a daughter. Mother's and daughters are like shared souls...even if their personalities are totally different. Mother's and daughters are so much a part of one another they sometimes get confused who is the mother and who is the daughter..😊.they mix up their roles they act for each other in funny ways...many mother daughters don't even understand it but they know there is a mixture of each other in themselves. This is seen really clearly in Archu/Purvi...but also if you look carefully at Arch/Ovi/Tej

Mothers and their sons however, and fathers and their daughters have a far different interaction. Sons fall in love with their mothers, and daughters with their fathers...It's supposed to be this because tha't s how the child's healthy response to a future spouse is developed. When it goes awry the children suffer. This is why Punni is screwed up, and why Purvi needs Manav.

Manav was totally betrayed by his mother in that role. It isn't about him punishing or not punishing his mother... Any mother who would do this to her son is not a mother. I am not letting ARMAN off the hook, but a mother who would scheme and produce false documents, (illegal ones too), who would do everything possible to prevent her son from having happiness in a future, so that she can keep him her son and not grow him to be a man with a wife...must suffer punishment not from the son but from Above. ( now i sound like Damo 😆 )

The responsibility of a father to model the husband his daughter will one day marry and for a mother to groom the son for his wife is so great, that purposeful abuse of that role must carry the harshest judgement don't you think? I am not talking about good intentions that end in disaster bc someone didn't know how or what to do. I am talking about mothers and fathers who abuse their role on purpose for their own gain. It must be a harsh judgement from above don't you think?

Manav is the victim..he's heartbroken, and broken because his mother loved herself more than her son. You are right. Manav can't punish his mother...he's punishing himself because his mother is like God as you said... BUT he must separate from her because she gives him all the wrong things, things that hurt and destroy him.. For survival. For the only way he can relate in a healthy manner to his wife. It's the only way he can truly grow up finally
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

You are right Jai .I don't feel angry at Manav if he says that he will punish himself by keeping away from my mother .He loves Savita more than anyone in this world .The bond that Savita and Manav share can never be erased .Manav started working from the age of 15 for Savita , he gave all his money to her ..
He even divorced Archana so that he could give Sachin to Savita ... He was marrying Shravani for Savita .
Even when he left Savita for a few days it was so that she would accept Archana and have a good life with Archana taking good care of his mother ...whatever Manav has ever done in his life is mostly to please his mother .He is a broken man today because the most important person in his life cheated him ...
I feel sorry for him .This should not happen to anyone .
But I am happy for Archana today .I wanted Archana also to have children who would love her the way Manav loves Savita .Archu had Purvi of course but now she also has Teju now .I am so happy that Teju told Savita to watch it before insulting her mother ...👏


Tanya you said this so beautifully. I love what you said and how you said it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: naava


Jai, i want to say something as a mother. I am a mother to both a son and a daughter. Mother's and daughters are like shared souls...even if their personalities are totally different. Mother's and daughters are so much a part of one another they sometimes get confused who is the mother and who is the daughter..😊.they mix up their roles they act for each other in funny ways...many mother daughters don't even understand it but they know there is a mixture of each other in themselves. This is seen really clearly in Archu/Purvi...but also if you look carefully at Arch/Ovi/Tej

Mothers and their sons however, and fathers and their daughters have a far different interaction. Sons fall in love with their mothers, and daughters with their fathers...It's supposed to be this because tha't s how the child's healthy response to a future spouse is developed. When it goes awry the children suffer. This is why Punni is screwed up, and why Purvi needs Manav.

Manav was totally betrayed by his mother in that role. It isn't about him punishing or not punishing his mother... Any mother who would do this to her son is not a mother. I am not letting ARMAN off the hook, but a mother who would scheme and produce false documents, (illegal ones too), who would do everything possible to prevent her son from having happiness in a future, so that she can keep him her son and not grow him to be a man with a wife...must suffer punishment not from the son but from Above. ( now i sound like Damo 😆 )

The responsibility of a father to model the husband his daughter will one day marry and for a mother to groom the son for his wife is so great, that purposeful abuse of that role must carry the harshest judgement don't you think? I am not talking about good intentions that end in disaster bc someone didn't know how or what to do. I am talking about mothers and fathers who abuse their role on purpose for their own gain. It must be a harsh judgement from above don't you think?

Manav is the victim..he's heartbroken, and broken because his mother loved herself more than her son. You are right. Manav can't punish his mother...he's punishing himself because his mother is like God as you said... BUT he must separate from her because she gives him all the wrong things, things that hurt and destroy him.. For survival. For the only way he can relate in a healthy manner to his wife. It's the only way he can truly grow up finally


Naava separation is not the solution to the problem..He needs to find a permanent solution..For this first he needs to hear out Savita in and out .She said I did it all for you..IT looks so senseless when heard but there are some hidden words behind it which needs to be deciphered.
I am not supporting Savita here..I dont want see now again Archu trying to do a patch up between Manav and Savita..Once again old cycle repeating again..This time it has to be Manav and Manav alone.He needs to sort himself and his mom.
No matter what Naava no child will be able to leave his mom/parents alone in this old age.Its a simple fact.God equally will not forgive that no matter how evil schemes or what not parents have done to you.
Manav needs to find a permanent fix to this issue..IF Savita and Archu staying in same house is a reason of destruction keep them in separate house.My point is be angry over Savita and even more on that useless idiot Damo but never leave them alone in the road.
IT should not be Archu doing the patch up job ,this time Manav should make sure he keeps Archu out of this (Archu will try to interfere ,should shut her down and ask her to take care of the kids and handle this himself) and he himself should take this responsibility of this.
Manav has share of mistakes that he cannot wash away all on Savita.Better sense that and arrive at a practical solution rather than some emotional one which later once again comes and hunts you back big time.Keeping Archu out of this (knowing how she will try to beg for forgiveness and insist on staying with Savita) is the biggest help he can do to himself.Learning from mistakes is something Arman never do and I am hoping this time they do.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Naava ,


@Tanya the love of a son for his mother is for eternity and no matter what it can never erased.No son has the guts to punish his mother or even think of it.He would rather punish himself and that is what Manav is doing.I can totally understand Manav there.
Come on Tanya re u need give him at least this leeway..This is too unfair on him...

Jai , I am not at all after him .I totally understand his state of mind When you spend all your life , all your life , only pleasing one person and in your 50s you come to know that she was cheating you and your children ...
It really is very sad .
Most definitely he is punishing himself by staying away from his mother .He said this himself .what Savita did to Manav was unforgivable .She did all this for her own happiness .He was right that she did this to control him ..
Savita's biggest problem was always that she wanted to control Manav and the fact that Manav fell in love with Archana was acceptable to her for some time but she never wants any woman to become more important than her ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Jai , I am not at all after him .I totally understand his state of mind When you spend all your life , all your life , only pleasing one person and in your 50s you come to know that she was cheating you and your children ...
It really is very sad .
Most definitely he is punishing himself by staying away from his mother .He said this himself .what Savita did to Manav was unforgivable .She did all this for her own happiness .He was right that she did this to control him ..
Savita's biggest problem was always that she wanted to control Manav and the fact that Manav fell in love with Archana was acceptable to her for some time but she never wants any woman to become more important than her ...


Unfortunately the possessiveness/insecurity for your child went in a wrong direction for Savita..Total destruction..Ideally Ekta should have left this Saas-Bahu crap when they re-united in 2011..Again churning it is hard to watch especially when a mother is shown a reason for destruction is too hard to comprehend even in reel life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think now Savita will be abandoned by everyone and then eventually she will start realizing her mistakes .Then Archana will most definitely help her to get her family and her son back but Savita must realize her mistakes first and feel sorry for hurting her son's family so much ..She had no right to do what she did to Manav and Archana .
But Manav loves his mother so much .He can never behappy if Savita is not a part of his life ...No matter how much he tries to hide his pain but Archana and Teju will see this and they will help mother and son to sort things out and get back together eventually
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I think now Savita will be abandoned by everyone and then eventually she will start realizing her mistakes .Then Archana will most definitely help her to get her family and her son back but Savita must realize her mistakes first and feel sorry for hurting her son's family so much ..She had no right to do what she did to Manav and Archana .

But Manav loves his mother so much .He can never behappy if Savita is not a part of his life ...No matter how much he tries to hide his pain but Archana and Teju will see this and they will help mother and son to sort things out and get back together eventually


I hope this senseless Saas - Bahu crap comes at an end at last..Viewers too need a break from this mess like Manav

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