PR Today: Purvi: Teetering on the edge - Page 8

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

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Janhvi, I think most of us fit the criteria 😉😛.

The more the merrier! 😆

Dear Archana,

I forgive you this time - it is the second time, the first being when you wrote in defence of Archana after she slapped the living daylights out of Purvi, and you did exactly the same thing as now after watching the episode - but remember that it is the last time I will do so! One more infraction and you are out of the Three Musketeers!😉

@red. That was me, and seriously, I am glad you have finally understood where I was coming from. I was so exasperated by your APP effort yesterday that I had to take 10 deep breaths before I started writing a response, and even so it was much stronger than my usual stuff. By writing this now , you have saved me the effort of putting together a more detailed rebuttal on that other thread, starting with the point that Ovi is far too clever to tell Purvi that Archana had been separated from her family for 18 years because of Purvi. I do thank you for that!😉

The thing is, Archana, if you insist on playing devil's advocate and trying to see all sides of a problem, you end up going round in circles and undermining your own beliefs. When the situation is grave, you have to decide where you stand. I have praised Purvi warmly in many of my posts when she had begun to be a bit demonstrative and to reciprocate Arjun's love to some extent. But that does not mean that I am going to cry all over her as she skewers him for the sake of others, even if it is for her mother.

@redYou have got it spot on. In fact, she looks like an undertaker's assistant - they have to have suitably sad faced at all times so as not to upset the clients - except that they would not cry in public!

She cannot even make an attempt to be happy for his sake, she has to parade all her doom and gloom for public consumption. If I had been a guest, I would have wondered about this lachrymose bride-to-be, and if Arjun had been the normal fiance, he would have taken it seriously amiss. All in all, it is a fine display of self-indulgence.

And of course in the precap she surpasses herself.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: archverma10

Ok...so I caved in and decided to go ahead and watch online though I was resisting strongly earlier. Several things:

1) JHANVi my dear sambandh...All I can say is i would have loved to become family.

However that being said..thats about all I can say about that. You would think I would learn by now...but I guess I have a little too much of the romantic and desperate "jump the gun" tendency than I thought.

Well so here goes...something I used to say so often and quite freely during the good old Ovi engagement/MU days so to speak::::Shyamala you are right. You nd Jyothi have my full permission to promptly read me the riot act the next time I ever digress and try to make sense of Miss Mahaanta's actions ever again. I have also thoroughly learned a sound lesson this time: next time I will watch the episode before I write a post and not based on the written update unless it is in defense of my ladla.

Sorry JHANVi but the heart on my Arjun's face...coupled with the enthusiasm and joy of DK,..as well as the childish pleasure of Arjun's face is more than this mothers heart can bear. Truly. No...even if they have their happily ever after...I will not be able to forgive her for this. And Jyothi no...Punni is not going to be aybodys saving grace. Let's not forget todays SBS of the Mehndi ceremony...which we haven't seen yet. No...we have to brace ourselves for the worst.

I have a strong feeling this is going to go right up until the Mandap. And the joke is on us. Here we were speculating, based on that stupid article, that Arjun/Purvi might run away from their respective enforced mandaps (Archana and Manav style) to marry each other. Well this is certainly what you can call a twist. Instead we have this foolish girl fleeing from her own happy ending and the love of her life for the sake of a relationship that doesn't really even exist. I have no doubts that Ovi is not going to keep her side of things either. Her words will hold no sway with Savita who stands the most to lose if ARMAN were to reunite.

The only thing I have to say in my defense is that it was easier to attempt a justification without actually seeing the episode and precap. I should have known better. Rithvik is a damn good actor...and Arjun's vulnerability and fear is so plain to see that it is like twisting a knife into ur heart. Purvi could not even muster up a decent smile for DKs friends...and until their dance she hardly even smiles at Arjun either. I know she is sad and torn but then again: it does seem to be all about her and her emotions and feelings doesn't it??

After seeing the precap..I will not even bother to describe my emotions at that point because for once i am at a loss for words to do so.

You asked me to watch the precap and tell you if I would forgive her for what she is about to do to him. Well here is your answer: God only forgive her because I sure as hell won't. The fact is he is going to be totally shattered by this and along with him so am I.

Dear Shyamala Ji,

Ok, I am back.. I dont know if I can express what I feel after watching it...Had to shed a few tears, not ashamed to say... for our dear boy and a little for purvi, too actually...

They both looked gorgeous, a handsome prince and a beautiful princess like... What a pair !! They look so well suited to each other, it will be a crime not to be together, don't you think? DK was just awesome, so happy, thinks his bahu will make house "swarg like"..
And, Arjun, bless his heart, looks so happy, content, loving, concerned, ever watchful of her, just stole my heart all over again today !! Both the dances were beautiful in their own way. The ease of DK - Purvi with each other was so beautiful to see.
Arjun-Purvi's dance gladdens you on one end, but also causes immense sadness in your heart for things that may come on them. Purvi was beautiful there, her expressions were flawless, on the other side, Arjun was no less, his fleeting expressions of puzzlement, concern was there to see. the kiss on the forehead was...very touching..Her monologue sounded more like a farewell speech, as though her mind was made up.. so, why the charade of this party, making a fool of DK and Arjun?
Not judging, just thinking..why was she crying all over the party, raining on Arjun's parade some..hmm..not nice of her.. at all.

Was it just me, or did you feel that Ms. Punni was different today, after she saw them dancing. She looked happy for them, like accepted more so. Or is it just me..
I am ignoring damo's whatever it is.. dont care for it.

The Precap: Very very touching and sad, Arjun's words and expressions just pierce your heart like never before. Brought a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes..God, he sounded so desperate to convince her...

My heart is going to break on Monday...dont know how we will all take it then...

hahaha looks liks Jahnvi dear you have brought lot of members to the HRF group...I see lot of dears interested in it now..😆

Trish,

So nice to hear from you again, and it is always a pleasure when you like something I write. You are so right; I hang in there, but ever so often I have no idea WHY!

Yes, Purvi looked really lovely yesterday, and I think she should go on a hunger strike for a bumpless future in PR. 😉

Of course if she goes ahead and dumps Arjun, as I am almost sure she will, she has no future in PR as far as I am concerned, so that is perhaps a moot point for me!

Shyamala

Originally posted by: purethought

Dear Shyamala Ji,

Lovely analysis as always. And you are right on about my pleasure on seeing Purvi without the bump. She looks so much more normal and not like the alien she was always made out to look like amongst all the actresses in PR. For once, she looked normal and her natural beauty was on display for all to see. 😆 Bump-less Purvi is always a delight to see.

Not looking forward to her sacrificial mode, that is, if she actually goes ahead with it. It would be deceiving Arjun big time and there is no point of return for her if she does do it. I am not supporting Purvi if she hurts Arjun in such a manner.

And it would amount to a complete waste of time for all of us loyalists, who have been glued to PR, inspite of the very shoddy plotlines, intermittently, punched into the jackets of the portfolio of PR. 😆 I have been relieved these weeks, because I refuse to be a part of such heavy break-ups, or building up to break-ups. I salute you for being here all this while and writing the amazing analysis on episodes you always do.

Trish

Originally posted by: archverma10

🤢🤢 yes my dear JHANVi if it makes u feel better we will wait to lash out until she actually commits the deed. But I have to ask... If she does do this to him...can I then take a Danda to her?? In all fairness I did try to see her side of it...but against my ladla's pain and heartbreak, it is not enough justification...

Arch, you are granted full permission to take a danda or lathi if she does do anything terminally stupid like leaving him stranded at the mantap. I watched it again and I felt for your boy, especially when he said, "I will do anything for you", I hope that echoes in her mind and she stops herself from giving up on him.

I watched the entire epi and saw Ovi's transformation from yesterday's poor baby doll to screaming virago today. (Shruthi does it very convincingly, she switches effortlessly from one to the other) "Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned." She is definitely suffering from one or both of the above.

Dear Jyothi,

I am glad you watched the episode; if not, you would never have really understood the why of what I wrote in this post, and what I have been writing since, both here and on Archana's APP thread.

As for the hearts breaking, it will take a few days more, Jyothi, but we will get there. Get some Feviqwik ready to glue yours back together. We cannot waste our hearts over such substandard tripe.

@ red. Why should you not judge her? It was both thoughtless and self-centred of her to put up such a display of gloom, plus actual tears, all for public consumption. Any dispassionate outside observer would have instantly concluded that she was being forced into this marriage, and was weeping, covertly and overtly, for a lost lover.

@ blue. That is the whole point; WHY should he have to convince her of anything? It sounded so pathetic, that he is STILL not sure if she is going to stay with him all their lives! Then why get married at all, if he is to be permanently on edge about her bolting any fine day? She is not the Queen of Sheba, is she, and I am sure that King Solomon would not have taken any such nonsense even from her.

The problem is that our boy has no self-esteem where Purvi is concerned, and he is so ready to kowtow to any member of her family. If they had had a dog, he would have paid obeisance to the pooch as well! And because he loves his son so much, DK is also being dragged into this exercise willy nilly.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Ok, I am back.. I dont know if I can express what I feel after watching it...Had to shed a few tears, not ashamed to say... for our dear boy and a little for purvi, too actually...

They both looked gorgeous, a handsome prince and a beautiful princess like... What a pair !! They look so well suited to each other, it will be a crime not to be together, don't you think? DK was just awesome, so happy, thinks his bahu will make house "swarg like"..

And, Arjun, bless his heart, looks so happy, content, loving, concerned, ever watchful of her, just stole my heart all over again today !! Both the dances were beautiful in their own way. The ease of DK - Purvi with each other was so beautiful to see.

Arjun-Purvi's dance gladdens you on one end, but also causes immense sadness in your heart for things that may come on them. Purvi was beautiful there, her expressions were flawless, on the other side, Arjun was no less, his fleeting expressions of puzzlement, concern was there to see. the kiss on the forehead was...very touching..

Her speech sounded more like a farewell speech, as though her mind was made up.. so, why the charade of this party, making a fool of DK and Arjun?

Not judging, just thinking..why was she crying all over the party, raining on Arjun's parade some..hmm..not nice of her.. at all.

Was it just me, or did you feel that Ms. Punni was different today, after she saw them dancing. She looked happy for them, like accepted more so. Or is it just me..

I am ignoring damo's whatever it is.. dont care for it.

The Precap: Very very touching and sad, Arjun's words and expressions just pierce your heart like never before. Brought a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes..God, he sounded so desperate to convince her...

My heart is going to break on Monday...dont know how we will all take it then...

You know... We aren't going to get the actual heartbreak until later... cause we have to see the haldi and mehendi ceremonies. So my question is, WHEN will Purvi make up her mind and decision?