OVI IS SELFISH AND DOESN'T DESERVE ARJUN! - Page 3

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

relax everyone ,,,,,,,,,,

,purvi selfish ,ovi selfish,arcana and arjun selfish,mnav and savita selfish ,who is not selfish??basically everyone selfish so why not they??everyone want to get their best life and happy life ...let it be guys ,its only a show ,,,why this hell bent??

if arjun purvi selfish then we all arvi fan and who want that they should be get married then they all r selfish so logically we all r selfish without few person so let it be enjoy arvi wedding may be coming up grand ceremony ,enjoy wedding ceremony..

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i think if she truly loves arjun ,she wud want him to be happy wit da person he really loves ...dts purvi,he like her as his friend frm childhood...she doesnt kno wt love is she is really confused abt love

Thank you all for your thoughts.

Overall I think Ovi needs to work on her attitude. She is a young girl who is very demanding. It seems as is she is ruling everyone in that home and that shouldn't be. She should have more respect for her elders. I understand that she is mad at Archanna for not being there all these years but that doesn't mean that You have to treat and speak to her like a pig. Even before she knew Archanna was her mother she use to speak to her bad. Not because you have a position or a title, means that you should ill treat others. If Savita was a good grandmother she would have instilled all these values in Ovi since she was a child.

Look at the difference between Teju and Ovi, Teju is more understanding and down to earth. I know that everyone is different and we can't accept everyone to act the same but Ovi can be better. She needs a good wiping. Manav wasn't very strict with her.

I don't understand how a father can stand there and watch his daughters talk bad about their mother. If they don't like her at least he could have taught them to be respectful to elders.

As for Purvi, I like the way she acted towards Arjun when he first went to Canada. He was too stuck up and stubborn. I'm not saying that it is bad to be rich or whatever but his attitude wasn't good. Purvi brought out the best in him. Purvi helped him to display the qualities that his mother had. Arjun's father was always the workaholic but his mother was very understanding and loving.

Personally I think Savita is not a good grandmother. No parent or grandparent should bring there children up with LIES. When the kids find out they will HATE her. It is as simple as that. Savita is selfish she only cares about her own happiness. She said this in one of the episodes... she said that she prefers to see her son sad than to see herself sad. WHAT KIND OF MOTHER IS THAT!

Ovi needs to to move on with her life. I understand what she is feeling. I know she is hurt but you can't dwell on the negatives all the time. Yes I agree that Ovi was very possessive for Arjun. Before they were together she was so obsessed over him and she got jealous whenever he talked to other girls. I think her attitude made Arjun wanted to say away from her or to just keep their relationship on a friend basis. Maybe if she wasn't so obsessive and possessive over him, he might have shown some interest in her. LET ME TELL YOU, GUYS HATE OBSESSIVE AND POSSESSIVE WOMEN. From the time you start checking up on what they are doing and getting mad because they talk to other girls they start running from you. Guys hate girls that nag at them all the time and I think Ovi is this kind of girl.

I agree that Arjun is a guy who is alll about business. His work is the most important thing for him. We all saw that nature in him from the very start. THAT IS WHY HE GOT ATTRACTED TO PURVI. She is like Arjun. She is business like. She is bold and strong like him. People like to be with others who share the same things they do. Arjun and Ovi wouldn't match. Ovi is this girly girly who wants to be all lovey dovey all the time. Arjun doesn't have time for that stuff. Arjun could never discuss work with her. They share nothing in common. On the other hand with Purvi they both work hand in hand. They are a great team!

I don't understand the mentality of some people. In reality if any one of us are put into Ovi's shoes, we would feel exactly as Ovi is feeling. Who wouldn't go emotional seeing/hearing about the other woman (Purvi) all day long? One needs distance to heal. Archana and company should keep everything Purvi-related away from Ovi and her family. Quote::::

Ovi need a man like Agit( lol )cause it seems like nothing is working so a couple of slaps from a man like Agit will put her back in her rite senses🤣

Laxmifan, although I agree with u, I don't agree that Archana doesn't care for her real daughters. She does. She thought this whole time that she wasn't allowed to contact them. I do agree with u when it comes to Purvi though. Purvi wasn't totally wrong though, cuz u have to admit that he was being inhumane and not thinking about how long those workers were in the company and what would happen to them if they lost their job. I understand Ovi was betrayed by Arjun, but u have to admit, she was forcing him to marry her from day 1. His heart never belonged to her, yet he was forced by Ovi, Manav, and DK to marry her. Think about it. If u were under so much pressure like Arjun was, maybe u would've agreed just to shut everyone up. As far as the engagement goes, yes I agree that he should've just said everything out in the open about his love for Purvi so that the engagement wouldn't have taken place and Ovi had high hopes. I also agree with u when it comes to Arjun's personality. This nice guy is not his personality and he's just behaving the way Purvi wants to be. Bottomline is that Arjun and Purvi shouldn't show their faces to the Deshmukh family and expect things cuz, although it was unintentionally, they have ruined their lives. As far as Savita goes, she's just an evil woman who only cares for herself.

Originally posted by: jonelle

Ovi need a man like Agit( lol )cause it seems like nothing is working so a couple of slaps from a man like Agit will put her back in her rite senses🤣

Ovi will never change. She is a selfish person and only thinks of herself. She always want and what does she back in return ... nothing. Money have Ovi the way she is and Arjun use to be so, now he is different...a down to earth person and now he knows and understand how the other side lives. as he has been through that. When Anch put the proposal to him, I was most upset with her, but look at the good it did him.

Originally posted by: jonelle

Ovi need a man like Agit( lol )cause it seems like nothing is working so a couple of slaps from a man like Agit will put her back in her rite senses🤣

What r u supporting? Rape and physical abuse to Ovi??? That is exactly what Ajit did to Vandu...Raped her day after day and abused her..