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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 14 years ago

#131

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Fine. I will not say anything more about this now

Arre no no , u keep giving ur opinions . Dont mind me , Im just talking out to myself . Actually Im not debating vebating or arguing , have JUST seen episode and am voicing out my thoughts to MYSELF . They will be unpopular only . Dont mind dear , u carry on . For WHATEVER reason she decided to give child ...temporarily or forever , iit was WRONG in my opinion . She needs a bloody excuse , bas . [ Again this is to myself .}

No i'm done with giving my opinion. I guess today my opinion is the unpopular one Kools, not yours. Everyone is bashing Archana and Manav. Even though their decision was wrong, they came across as weak to me, rather than unconcerned or bad parents.

What I liked was that Archana subconsciously tried to make amends for her mistake on her own. She recognised that Varsha has greater right as the 'paalne wali' (same as we had discussed earlier) and yet she didn't want to give up her baby cos of her love for it. Here she could have said- let baby and Varsha both stay here. But she didn't do that. She sort of accepted it ws her fault, her incompetence more than Varsha's mistake and that she was the one who had to seek a solution, not Varsha. So she stepped down from her pride and said, okay, I will adjust- I will win my baby and bring him back. She didn't go on record saying- no he is my baby and he stays with me no matter what. If she had done that, I would have given her one tight slap saying ab yaad raha hai he is your baby and you don't want to give him to varsha? Baby has toh got used to varsha na? What about him?

Her decision may have been wrong, but the factors she took into consideration--- Soham's comfort- that he shouldn't be subjected to such rapid changes in his environment, accepting that Varsha was the better caretaker (not mother- cos I don't feel that), and herself making amends for this situation, along with the fact that she did not give up the baby forever was right. I rather felt she was trying to work up on the mistakes she had made so far.

Oops, again I wrote too mcuh. I guess I can never be speechless. Anyways, that's really too much I've written and debated.

Edited by nikitagmc - 14 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

#132

What I liked was that Archana subconsciously tried to make amends for her mistake on her own.

OR subconsciously wanted to give it back to Varsha and hence was looking for an excuse .

THATS the way I saw it . niks its all HOW one sees it . As I see it , this character ALWAYS wanted to give her baby to Varsha . Even the miscarried one she promised away before first trimester . Somewhere it is in her mind that Varshu needs a baby and I will supply one for her , so what if its mine . Manav and Deshmukhs have Sachu as waaris . I can afford to do this sacrifice .

By constantly giving it to varsha she can NEVER win him back . He will simply go on getting more used to Varsha .

I was extremely disappointed by ARMAN today . Galat Baat is one thing and weakness is another . The former was personified by archana and the latter by Manav .

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#133

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
What I liked was that Archana subconsciously tried to make amends for her mistake on her own.

OR subconsciously wanted to give it back to Varsha and hence was looking for an excuse .

THATS the way I saw it . niks its all HOW one sees it . As I see it , this character ALWAYS wanted to give her baby to Varsha . Even the miscarried one she promised away before first trimester . Somewhere it is in her mind that Varshu needs a baby and I will supply one for her , so what if its mine . Manav and Deshmukhs have Sachu as waaris . I can afford to do this sacrifice .

By constantly giving it to varsha she can NEVER win him back . He will simply go on getting more used to Varsha .

I was extremely disappointed by ARMAN today . Galat Baat is one thing and weakness is another . The former was personified by archana and the latter by Manav .

That is why I didn't say it was a right decision. Galat tha, agreed and accepted. But the factors she had considered were right, I felt.

Yeah, agree to disagree again.

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Preeti

@-Preeti-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#134

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

THATS the way I saw it . niks its all HOW one sees it . As I see it , this character ALWAYS wanted to give her baby to Varsha . Even the miscarried one she promised away before first trimester . Somewhere it is in her mind that Varshu needs a baby and I will supply one for her , so what if its mine . Manav and Deshmukhs have Sachu as waaris . I can afford to do this sacrifice .

I agree on this. It was always decided that Archana gives her child to Varsha. I say why not ask for Vaishu's Child? She didnt have a proper future too for that kid at that moment with divorce in hand. Or Adopt a child. That would have been much better. Why did Archana had to give her child to her? That too after all the melodrama that happened before leap.

Agreed Varsha needs a child. But then giving away Soham was a wrong decision. Archana thinks that she has Sachchu and so she can live by him. But what about Manav? Savita aai and Baba? Does she ever think about them? They too crave to play and live with Soham, Manavs child. But no Archana just wanna see Varsha's pain and refuse to watch out the pain in Manav, Savita Aai and Baba.

Must not forget to mention. ... Am Proud of Savita Aai. Y'day she gave such a mature behaviour. She wasnt the usual Savita Aai but a Woman, a Mother. She does understand Varsha's pain and love for Soham but then she does know that Soham needs Archana too. Satish too behaved maturely. He was right. This aint any sollution to the problem. Infact this is just gonna worsen it.

I dont get why does Manav agree to all that Archana says. Why not for once stand against her and tell her she is at mistake. She is playing with so many lives here and most importantly Soham n Varsha's life. 1st she gives the child to Varsha n then she feels bad and sad for herself that he doesnt recogonise her? How would he when you dont give him a chance to live with you? Sorry but i dont even pity Archana here. Its she who is responsible for all this.

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Shikha

@lunza

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Posted: 14 years ago

#135

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

And MANAV !🐷 Honestly , a 🐷 ! Archana , tum ise wapas Varsha ko nahi na dogi ? Arre r u a MAN or what ? ITS YOUR BABY ! Did she conceive it immaculately ? Ha ? That ONLY SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO DECIDE ?

WHO IS SHE ? Queen Victoria ? Why doesn't someone slap this woman ?

Savita was advocating THEIR CASE MORE than THEY THEMSELVEs ! And Manav was silencing her by saying Archana is RIGHT !

exactly my thoughts ... i was like "hellooo... sperm-egg fusion anyone? " ...
and well .. it is pretty obvious savita has protested before ... but what more that lady could have done? archu decided , manav sided , damo nodded ...

Edited by lunza - 14 years ago

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pixienasrin

@pixienasrin

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#136

I agree too...and I think both of Vinod's(and manjus) child are lucky to have a mother:)

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umayal

@LuvSSever

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#137

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
And then Kool Di, a special note,My friend said your posts were superb and she liked it a lot and she asked me to write that she too hates archu for what she is doing now and told me to write how much ever i could write against archu as she doesn't know that i am a archu fan.😳.
(And the credit of making my friends watch all this crap in PR goes to me. they aren't a PR viewer😃)

😊 Say Thanks to her umi . I appreciate that . So she likes my mean posts , huh ?😃

Ok di. I will Tell her for sure. Mean posts ??, Di, I too like and love your posts🤗. whatever you said about archu ,I agree. After post leap,I think she will be the most hated character.

But then its varsha where I could not agree. she is showing her mom's possiveness to the child which is not hers

These Cvs na.😡. They show everything what i wish to see in archu(the mom's possessiveness) in varsha and what I wish to see in ARMAN in Ajit-Vandu case after post leap.

Edited by umayal - 14 years ago

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umayal

@LuvSSever

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#138

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Di,I am waiting and will love it Di.
Thank you.🤗

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Shikha

@lunza

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#139

Originally posted by: umayal

Ok di. I will Tell her for sure. Mean posts ??, Di, I too like and love your posts🤗. whatever you said about archu ,I agree. After post leap,I think she will be the most hated character.

But then its varsha where I could not agree. she is showing her mom's possiveness to the child which is not hers

These Cvs na.😡. They show everything what i wish to see in archu(the mom's possessiveness) in varsha and what I wish to see in ARMAN in Ajit-Vandu case after post leap.

and what we want to see in manav .. they show it in satish 😆

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umayal

@LuvSSever

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#140

Originally posted by: nikitagmc
Kools, today Archana wanted to return Soham to Varsha NOT because Varsha was begging for her, but because she felt depressed and disappointed that she knew so little about her baby (even though I know it is majorly her fault), especially after Varsha taunted her.

She thought of Soham's betterment and didn't wish to hurt him or make him suffer cos of the temporary mother arrangement (same what we were saying). She wanted to stay with Soham very badly and yet didn't want him to suffer- she realised that this sudden separation from Varsha had not been taken well by the baby, so she said let Varsha take him, I will come and meet him everyday and when he grows familiar and comfortable with me, then I will take him away.

She didn't say that lets give the baby away to Varsha. She is still trying to make an attempt to make HERSELF worthy of the baby, make the baby trust her and accept her first. She hasn't admitted defeat STILL.

The decision is debatable, but somewhere the thought behind it touched me.

Hi Nikki.Nice Analysis on archu's state on yesterday's epi.
Yes You are right. and when i considered yesterday alone, she was good and ok, even i too felt a little for her. A good decision but when i think she was the one responsible for that state,then thats where i get anger at her.