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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

Ohkay ! Shiva is a hero of many fangirls out there.

But I cannot relate to this Shiva in my head. This isn't the hero I liked pre Sneha kaand. He continuously slapped a guy just because he hugged him and called him bhai or jija.. I am sorry, this isn't a trait of a hero for me. It gives me antagonist vibes.

I thought they would show one slap but of course they have to always exceed expectations. Also, why does he not recognise his own cousin? Regardless, who would act like that. Not to forget he is aware he has forgotten the past 9 years of his life. Shouldn't he be unsure about everything and trying to piece together things.

They've used his memory loss and mental health issues as an excuse to make his behaviour extremely rude, and now even violent, towards those he considers strangers. Who goes around name-calling, insulting and interrogating guests the way he did.

I'm also confused if he became so agitated with Raavi because it strained his mind or if that is just how he was with her before getting married. But then he was later shown to be completely alright with the idea of her being married to Dev. Not that it made him care enough to ask someone to bring her back home or at least feel guilty about how he behaved with her.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: anoniya

Shiva and Dhara's bond could have been beautiful if they did not make it so excessive. To show Dhara's importance in Shiva's life they made him not only constantly prioritise her over everyone else but also become insensitive to other's plight, like his mother's when changing his name (need not even mention Raavi). The kind of control and hold shown wouldn't have been healthy or acceptable even if Dhara always made the correct decision and led him down the right path.



I think most of us use to love Shiva Dhara bond pre leap and a little bit after leap too. But the moments he started to be violent, indifferent and aggressive with others for her and started to take insensitive decisions that were hurting someone else for his bhabhi were the moments we all started to disconnect with them.

There is nothing wrong to love your dever/bhabhi and make them your priority, but to harm others and to overlook other people's emotions for the sake of that one person is something inappropriate.

For Dhara, it was amazing what she did for the brothers. But after a point, they started to make that one commitment and decision as a base of insensitive sacrifices she directly or indirectly started to ask from the brothers. Even if not verbally but by her obsessions, body language , tears or indifference.

Dhara's sacrifice stands no where now as she has taken a lot more than that from all 3 brothers and their wives in return.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: manny136

ok in precap shivang has been blackmailing dhara for money lol it seems its been going on for a while lol he said she has to pay the electricity bill otherwise he will go and start to have a chat with raavi and some truth will come out and her home will be broken again lol


oh gosh what secret kaand is dhara hiding now lol

How did she have the money to pay for the blackmail?

If the truth would break Raavi's home, then it must be related to her, her parents or Shiva. Not sure how Dhara can be shown being the only one aware of it or why she is once again hiding important information.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: anoniya

How did she have the money to pay for the blackmail?

If the truth would break Raavi's home, then it must be related to her, her parents or Shiva. Not sure how Dhara can be shown being the only one aware of it or why she is once again hiding important information.

He said if truth cones out then Dhara happy family will shattered. May be Dhara did some kaand. Or some family secret. I don't think he meant raavi home.

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Posted: 2 years ago

After seeing the precap and finding that Bhabima is hiding something yet again for the zillionth time, how can kids grow up in such an environment. No wonder Chiku is lying a lot, manipulative and controlling his brothers just like how Shweta and Dhara do, manipulating others.

Why is there no mention of education, school, studies, projects, assignments for kids in this show i stead they are involved in every kaand Bjabima initiates and every raita she spreads around 😡

Please don’t tell me education is not needed for any of them and , they will become, successful like Kandya brothers😕

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: manny136

When the kids heard devta were leaving shesh talked about all his toys back home lol so other two wanted to go too and then rish told dev to get tickets for them too so they could tell their kids the truth and also tell the other two and return them to their parents lol she told dev to go ask for permission from the other twos parents lol

Couldn't they just tell them the truth before going or leave it to the other parents to explain things to their own kids (something which is long overdue). Why would they decide to take all 4 children with them to a different city and believe they can take care of them all alone alongside their daughter's treatment.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: anoniya

How did she have the money to pay for the blackmail?

If the truth would break Raavi's home, then it must be related to her, her parents or Shiva. Not sure how Dhara can be shown being the only one aware of it or why she is once again hiding important information.

@bold -hein? Have you watched the show from the beginning? Bhabima controls the money in that house and no one questions her on how much is coming in and how much of it is spent. She also has several secret FD’s which she uses from time to time only for her needs and things she wants yo get done.😕 No one can suspect that she has been dwindling the common store money because no one dare ask her for monthly acvount.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Lovely2021

He said if truth cones out then Dhara happy family will shattered. May be Dhara did some kaand. Or some family secret. I don't think he meant raavi home.

Ah, thank you. I got confused. Since he was threatening to tell Raavi I thought it would be something related to her.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: anoniya

Ah, thank you. I got confused. Since he was threatening to tell Raavi I thought it would be something related to her.


maybe it is about the whole family and if it came out the family will break again. Even raavi finding out is dangerous for dhara lol

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: mpks1

@bold -hein? Have you watched the show from the beginning? Bhabima controls the money in that house and no one questions her on how much is coming in and how much of it is spent. She also has several secret FD’s which she uses from time to time only for her needs and things she wants yo get done.😕 No one can suspect that she has been dwindling the common store money because no one dare ask her for monthly acvount.

I do apologise. I momentarily forgot about the never-ending outflow of cash which only ever dries up temporarily when needed for actual, urgent reasons by others.

I was thinking they must have been making a loss as Gautam was shown handling the store alone while being drunk and getting cheated by some customers. But the store's sales have never had any direct correlation to their savings or financial condition.

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