Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #145 - Page 28

Originally posted by: majoni03

Yes that is how relationship should be. But ITV add unnecessary drama and misunderstanding between the couple for TRP..

Tanmi, but in PS’s case they are not even getting that. Strong Raavi, Raavi who stopped the engagement, Shiva-Raavi reunion is bringing them TRPs, not misunderstanding or mistrust. Leave that to all the other shows, shows growth and progression, I am sure audience will lap it up.
3rd angle track - failure

BhabiMa’s abortion track - though was heartbreaking- did not increase the TRPs dramatically like they expected.

BhabiMa’s plan to retrieve loan papers fell flat and the TRPs still the same.

So why not try to be different and why do they have to follow the same formula😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

Tanmi, but in PS’s case they are not even getting that. Strong Raavi, Raavi who stopped the engagement, Shiva-Raavi reunion is bringing them TRPs, not misunderstanding or mistrust. Leave that to all the other shows, shows growth and progression, I am sure audience will lap it up.
3rd angle track - failure

BhabiMa’s abortion track - though was heartbreaking- did not increase the TRPs dramatically like they expected.

BhabiMa’s plan to retrieve loan papers fell flat and the TRPs still the same.

So why not try to be different and why do they have to follow the same formula😕

Actually makers' bhaabi obsession needs to end. They need to understand that Bhaabi centric tracks are not bringing trps. Ps entered into the ormax list of most watched shows last week and last week was Shivi centric.but this week again they are back to bhaabi jaap. This is the reason they are not getting trps..Instead of showing Shiva's bhaabi obsession this week they could have shown him trying to understand Raavi's pov and make her understand his pov..

https://twitter.com/miyas_scribbles/status/1478331702397308940?s=20

Originally posted by: majoni03

I think we will never get Shiva Raavi's conversation like kathir mullai.. I have not watched the OG show. I know about them only through various posts here.. It seems they are very mature and sort out their problems through conversation without unnecessary drama. But Ps makers have established Shivi as tashan wala couple. Their fights will be always there. Dono ladenge bhi aur pyaar bhi karenge. Sometimes Shiva will be wrong and sometimes Raavi will be wrong. They are like typical ITV couple who misunderstand each other easily , villains will always try to separate them

This might look good on TV, in real life and in this cut throat stressful life marriages like Shiva-Raavi’s or Dev-Rishira’s will not even last a single day in middle class, upper middle class and higher societies😕

I don’t even want to talk about women in small towns/villages who go through such things on a daily basis and are mercilessly abandoned by their spouses, family and in-laws. My heart goes out to them. They are not even aware of a process called divorce, such is our society.

To glorify such things on TV and to show women going through such things and still stay in the marriage is appalling to see.
That is why I keep iterating conversation, understanding, trust and eventually love. Love/confession should always be the last one to happen especially in arranged marriages.

Originally posted by: Saakshi2k

https://twitter.com/miyas_scribbles/status/1478331702397308940?s=20

Ofcourse she would have died, there is no doubt about it. What would the Pandya parivar including Shiva, do? Shed some tears and move on like they did with Darshan Pandya.

Originally posted by: mpks1

My POV on Shiva-Raavi scenes from today.

If you are not married or not in a long time relationship, you have no idea how hurtful Shiva’s words can be to repeatedly say that if you are not a certain way, we will part ways, at the drop of a hat.

I have not experienced it personally because my marriage has been rock solid from the get go and both my husband and I worked towards it, but my sister has. To this date it haunts her.
Two things Shiva is doing at present - not trying to understand Raavi’s POV at all and has misunderstood her which is very clear. But that doesn’t give him the right to threaten especially the last dialogue when he says if their tuning is not right, he will not hesitate to move on.

He is doing the exact same thing what he thinks Raavi did to him. He is clearly making Raavi insecure and how much ever she tries will never be able to reach him until she speaks, behaves and thinks a certain way.

Raavi indeed came back for Dhara and profusely apologized for her behavior during Janmashtami, though she loves Dhara a lot, calls her idol, she has also called her out few times especially right after the marriage, in the haveli and even during the divorce kaand.
Raavi herself said today, all along she tried to live as per all other Pandya parivar members terms and expectations and now she wants to live in that house per her terms. What is wrong in feeling this way? This loan kaand, her trying to get Dev-Rishita in the middle of the night, almost getting killed for it has been a revelation for her. If only Shiva gave her a hint, would she have taken this drastic step?
Now after today’s dialogues won’t Raavi start having the same fears as in the past that Shiva won’t hesitate to leave her anytime? How will she now proceed with the relationship with this constant fear.
Shiva cannot threaten to abandon her everytime when he is faced with adversities instead work towards getting it resolved. Whenever Dhara is affected all Shiva can think of is protecting her even if it comes at a cost of his relationship with Raavi. This is not progress at all, just talking is not enough, understanding and trusting each other is even more important which is sorely lacking in Shiva-Raavi relationship, for that matter even in Dev-Rishita’s relationship.

As for Raavi wanting to be part of Pandya parivar, has cared more for the family than Shiva is all there to see. Isn’t it why Shiva started falling for her again when she returned? Infact he cherishes if she takes extra care of his family. So how can you hold it against her and she loves his family more than him. Because right from the beginning/childhood it is Shiva’s family who has been kind to her than him.
Just like how Shiva doesn’t trust Raavi at all how is she ever going to trust him if he keeps saying there are chances for me to dump you repeatedly on several occasions😕

101% agree Prema.. I can never justify shivas talk today..no matter how much agitated he was by ravis complaints, threatening to divorce was off the limits..that creates insecurity to the spouse..she was being open about her hurt..who should she tell to?..he is her husband..they r her family..she didn't hide her hurt frm them..instead of understanding her and trying to comfort her, he is irritated(fine this does happen in many cases)..until his irritation I would say I a normal pati patni fight..it will be ok until they cool down..but he threatened with divorce. He regrets loving her becz she is angry with dhara and them?..those r really big things he said..

It's not about the plan as she said..fights always happen between a couple.. they will have lots of complaints about each other...but no matter what, he can't have the option to leave her the moment she expresses herself and he disagrees with her...their relationship should be bound by love...with love comes consideration..with consideration comes understanding...love makes us hear their complaints and try to see their pain..even if its not easy to understand them, there is never an option to leave them...we fight..but we won't leave each other..shiva said he can't live without his chipkali..all he needed was her not agreeing with dhara for a behaviour to make it easy for him to live without her?..then I dnt think it is true love..

Yesterday KD posted a ShiVi throwback picture and we all predicted how will be the upcoming episodes....i think KD warns us beforehand🤣.... Ki aage ke episodes kese hone wale h🤪

So I saw in KD’s story that Mohit peeked in, looks like he is shooting as well.

Ofcourse Shiny is going to be there, Alice might or might not be there depending on the scenes she is needed for.

I still don’t see any BTS from Simran or Alshay, they usually post something which also involves Kinshuk.

Krutika is still on vacation, so this ME could be BD galore except probably KD, Alice and Mohit 😕

India mein ghume ke liye Quarantine nahi hain.

Lekin yaha logo ko jab tak rule na bane, fine and dando ki dhamki na mile they don't take things seriously.

First of all jab all the people who have money, resources and no self responsibility going to Goa and Manali should themselves get tested and stay at home for atleast 3 -4 days before meeting others also these movie and tv productions themselves should look for this.

I simply can't understand khudki life safe karne ke liye bhi why they need govt to make rules and policemen to take fine and beat them.

Matlab khudko safe rakhna bhi dusre insaan ki responsibility hain.

Originally posted by: mpks1

So I saw in KD’s story that Mohit peeked in, looks like he is shooting as well.

Ofcourse Shiny is going to be there, Alice might or might not be there depending on the scenes she is needed for.

I still don’t see any BTS from Simran or Alshay, they usually post something which also involves Kinshuk.

Krutika is still on vacation, so this ME could be BD galore except probably KD, Alice and Mohit 😕

Simran posted a story yesterday right? I guess? The grey suit one?