TERE BIN-Yumna Zaidi-Wahaj Ali DT# 76"Khud ko aur Mujhe Sambhal Lena" - Page 27

Originally posted by: Moonks

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Baar-2 dhundhna pad raha hai😆

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Originally posted by: Moonks

Me too, ek second pehle apne pyaar ki kasam dekar nafrat hai bolne ki kya hi sense hai

Originally posted by: pressu

I agree both Murtasim and Meerab are flawed characters. But my problem is we get to see the moments where Murtasim shines but we don't get to see Meerab shining in the drama.

she is not supposed to

Originally posted by: Alizba63

I'd suggest you to be very careful sharing your opinion. People will attack you over something totally irrelevant rather than understand the bigger picture you're trying to share. Especially on Twitter IG.

The bigger picture is : don't compare haya to Meerab. When you want to hold meerab accountable, the shippers of pro meerab bring in haya. Haya is evil and that's already established. But murtasim doesn't give a damn about haya. He loves meerab and she's the one who betrayed him by telling him early on that it's her life's mission to unite Maryam and anas. Maryam would have run anyways most likely but meerab helped. She put herself at risk and went away from the mall to meet anas. She again lied and went to meet someone. Same thing she did during rohails time.

You wrote you can't understand why people blindly support her? It's very simple.

People like the idea of two good looking people with strong personality and character in love. We signed up for it. We want our DdLJ, pride and prejudice ending.real life is hard at least reel life should be dreamy.

This is because they have to dissociate. They find logic in everything but then put fingers to ears and hands to eyes on this matter.

How do you comfortablely root for meerasim when she was heavily involved out of ego and foolishness but more out of ego ? This is his baby sister. His jaan and child. What about Maryam going through something so horrible? Oh let's ignore that and just hope meerasim are lovey dovey. Rest can go to the bin.

I too still would love meerasim to be honest. My heart doesn't always align with my brain 😆But not at this cost. This needs to be resolved by both parties.

And Twitter has some toxic feminist who are very vocal and damaging to any cause. They label everything and everyone toxic. When the real toxic men come, people refuse to believe them as they're the girls who cried wolf. (I'm going to get based for this but I don't mind😆)

They were talking about murtasim breaking things being toxic. I'm like how? He's devastated his sister is missing. He doesn't have time to entertain meerab.

Now it would be smart to point out where he is wrong. Like not throwing out haya when she tried to kill his wife. Being so casual with her. Haya literally showed the video. She's the same as Malik. Now these are the things murtasim is responsible for. But no. These twitterati will go after petty things

In bold …. I am not in twitter or Instagram 👍🏼. IF is enough 🤗

Is it possible that we get this scene in this Mariyam track only where Meerab goes to Saba’s house and Murtasim gets angry?

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Till I came to TB forum I didn’t knew toxic term could be used for person ! I always used it in terms of culture and environment never individually.
what I find utmost funny is people say she/ he is toxic and support other non toxic char and watch the show till end where this toxic - non toxic end up together, have kids and are happily married . So what exactly is the problem and purpose ??

TB I love everything except third grade screen ply and continuity issues . For 50 episode drama they did shitty job. If not Yumhaj and Siraj direction this would have gone into gallows.

Toxic behaviour is criminal behaviour that requires jail time or therapy. Just because you are flawed doesn't make you toxic, just human.

When you misuse a word you dilute its impact when it actually matters.

Originally posted by: pressu

Is it possible that we get this scene in this Mariyam track only where Meerab goes to Saba’s house and Murtasim gets angry?

Originally posted by: pressu

I agree both Murtasim and Meerab are flawed characters. But my problem is we get to see the moments where Murtasim shines but we don't get to see Meerab shining in the drama.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/163201234

Adding to what I said in the above comment, the writers have practically ruined the lovestory. Leave aside shine, they have ruined Meerub's ccharacter. Not because she made a mistake but because she did not own up to it and that is not the Meerub they started off with. Meerub was anything but a coward but the way she was silent yesterday.....that was selfish and cowardly on her part.

People who are saying she was in shock..I'm sorry but she had multiple opportunities to tell MK.

Getting played was not on her, but this was. And again when I say Meerub, I am indirectly talking about the writers because they have shaped up her character. This is not how you would expect the FL or for that matter any person other than the villain to behave...that to towards the end of the show (we have what 10 epi left).

They stretched this plot for drama but they could have actually used it to show Meerub's growth, as a person, as a wife.

A) She was sleeping knowing that she helped Mariyam elope. Who does that? How can someone sleep peacefully knowing the daughter (or any woman you care about) of the house has eloped to get married late in the night. Is that even possible? I don't know how it works there but in order to register the marriage, there is a process which takes time. That is legal. And I am assuming during Nikkah also one has to sign a document after saying Qabool Hai (correct me if I'm wrong). Is this something which is possible at the end minute? Late in the night?

I get it they were scared because the wedding was the next day but hello logic??

B) She kept quiet throughout. Even when Haya said Anas could be MZ and she confirmed after the pic scene...she was mum. Why? We saw in the promo she will not lie and admit to it but why wait for someone else to ask? Conscious naam ki cheez hai ya nahi?

On a personal level, I truly believe making mistakes is normal and a part of life. That is what makes us human. But not taking responsibility of it, not owning up to it....is the absolute worst.

C) There is no redemption for Haya. Nothing she says or does will make it any better. No one deserves a person like Haya in their life. She claims to love MK but she doesn't even know what love is. It's not about getting that person, it's about wanting the best (and happiness) for the person you love with or w/o being a part of it. And I do blame MK a little for this, no one really stopped her. No one asked her to change her ways strongly. She kept on doing shit and getting away with it and that gave her confidence to stoop so low.

On the promo:

A) If they don't question Haya then I am sorry to say they are the dumbest of the lot. She had a recording. Even if she says I didn't know it was MZ, they should question her on why she didn't stop Mariyam or call them

B) Angry or not no man should ever hit a woman or throw something at her. In this case, I want to give MK the benefit of doubt because it looked like he threw it on the floor (although this much aggressive when angry is not normal and not okay). Also, the situation here is not a normal problem but a big thing. About his sister. Not something I will justify but also not something I will use to call him a toxic person. Calling a person toxic is a big thing and unfortunately people now days use it just like that - someone did something they don't agreee to, yeh toh bada toxic hai. Most people have no idea about what and how a toxic person is. Only if they knew. People need to be careful how they use "toxic" to define a person

C) I hope and pray Meerub doesn't justify what happened with you can't force Mariyam to get married, so she had to run away. I really hope she admits her fault. High time.

D) If at all they throw Meerub out, I really hope for once Anwar atleast stands by his daughter. I am not saying he should not accept she went wrong or tell her off, but as a father he should atleast stand by his child, considering he never did. Maybe this will be an opportunity to show the growth in their relationship.

Future track:

A) If the separation happens now it is understandable. But I don't see consummation fitting in. Meerub might realize and confess her feelings, but consummation makes no sense.

B) If they cross this hurdle (maturely I hope) and then they separate because of Rohail or his stupid deeds related to the contract then that would be so dumb. If they can cross the current hurdle then Rohail is no game in front of it. Consummation might fit in here because Meerub will confess and MM will heal together but then Rohail separating them won't make sense. Itne sab ke baad saath hai, toh woh gadha aisa kya hi kar lega. Manipulate MK or MB? Either which way separation won't make sense.

Now let's assume it does happen (and they have consummated):

A) Even if there is a MU, if Meerub gets pregnant she needs to tell MK. It's his right to know. And if she doesnt then 🙏🙏

B) If Meerub tells him and he doesn't believe her then this time it's on MK. And maybe this is when MB will slap him

C) Haya or a third person will be responsible and not let MK know. Possible that Meerub might try but MK will not know about his child

Lastly, some people watch dramas for entertainment and some people watch it because it's like an escape for them, escape from reality. Real life is messed up, world is that good of a place (atleast as of now with whatever is happening). I belong to latter category. I watch dramas that are feel good, or atleast a journey towards a better future. I hate to say this I still want to see them together in the end because ik this is a drama. But if it was rl, then I don't think MM are compatible or should be together.

P.S. sorry for the long post. I have been processing the epi and promo from last night and had a lot to say and rant about.

Originally posted by: Moonks

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