Meray Humsafar [ARY] • Thread#6 • Farhan Saeed, Hania Aamir - Page 26

Originally posted by: spnfan

I think the only advice the makers took seriously from the fans is not to make an educated girl like sameen pin after hamza or khurram. She has been giving back to shahjahan really well for quite some times.

that is good! am really liking that sameen has a life of her own and dreams that have nothing to do with these two men. by focusing on her studies, she has regained her confidence and has realized that the world won't stop just because she is single or the guy she loves didn't measure up. instead, she moves on. that is the best part of the drama in my feels.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

they will probably go down the original humsafar route where she loses her marbles because death is too nice for her? then, hala will left to take care of the crazy woman because she is too nice. 🤦

Even without shahjahan going completely crazy rafakat cannot stand her. If she becomes a certified crazy person he will lock her up in an asylum far far away for life. He ain't gonna share a room with cray cray shahjahan🤣

So hala don't have to worry about taking care of a crazy shahjahan in that house.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

that is good! am really liking that sameen has a life of her own and dreams that have nothing to do with these two men. by focusing on her studies, she has regained her confidence and has realized that the world won't stop just because she is single or the guy she loves didn't measure up. instead, she moves on. that is the best part of the drama in my feels.

Atleast something positive came out of this toxicity.

Since there are bts pic of khurram and sameen marriage i hope after marriage they both go out of country and pursue their career. I hope all her talks don't go under drain after marriage.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

I totally eyerolled when she told her sister that life has no meaning without hamza. seriously? her sister was speaking practically. how many women and men who have lost their spouses keep going? so many people face disasters and do not spiral out because they lose the love of their life in some form. that is just life. hala needs to grow up and find her spine where she is her own person with or without hamza in her life.

Hala needs therapy, she is way to traumatize to think practically or rationally. The only reason she feels about Hamza like that because he was the one besides dadi who was nice to her and helped her during her difficult time. To bad Pakistani dramas do not go this route, to show that its okay to seek professional help or even acknowledge that abuse going for so long can give life time trauma especially when it happens to a child.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

I totally eyerolled when she told her sister that life has no meaning without hamza. seriously? her sister was speaking practically. how many women and men who have lost their spouses keep going? so many people face disasters and do not spiral out because they lose the love of their life in some form. that is just life. hala needs to grow up and find her spine where she is her own person with or without hamza in her life.

absolutely agree, I love Maryam. grow up and leave these sulking cliches talks away Hala. either she grow to be a strong woman or good mom or she is a weak despo to get back to RM and a bad mom too. go to London, education, job, raise your kid.

Originally posted by: sunflower52

Hala needs therapy, she is way to traumatize to think practically or rationally. The only reason she feels about Hamza like that because he was the one besides dadi who was nice to her and helped her during her difficult time. To bad Pakistani dramas do not go this route, to show that its okay to seek professional help or even acknowledge that abuse going for so long can give life time trauma especially when it happens to a child.

see this is the reason it is hard for me to think of hamza and hala as a real romance. it just sounds like she was leaning on him because she is so emotionally broken.

I did cheer when khurram called her a coward and explained how her constant tears made him feel sorry for her and therefore, it wasn't real romance or relationship for him. it makes so much sense from his perspective and how he explains that his relationship with sameen felt more fulfilling because she was walking by his side.

that said, am not expecting any real changes in hala at all. they are not really showing her as someone who is going to dramatically change. so she and hamza will be end game while we might see shahjahan go through some dramatic redemption arc. who knows? won't be surprised if that happens though. not expecting shahjahan and the family to really face up to the consequences of their actions because hala is married to hamza.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

see this is the reason it is hard for me to think of hamza and hala as a real romance. it just sounds like she was leaning on him because she is so emotionally broken.

I did cheer when khurram called her a coward and explained how her constant tears made him feel sorry for her and therefore, it wasn't real romance or relationship for him. it makes so much sense from his perspective and how he explains that his relationship with sameen felt more fulfilling because she was walking by his side.

that said, am not expecting any real changes in hala at all. they are not really showing her as someone who is going to dramatically change. so she and hamza will be end game while we might see shahjahan go through some dramatic redemption arc. who knows? won't be surprised if that happens though. not expecting shahjahan and the family to really face up to the consequences of their actions because hala is married to hamza.

Khurram does not understand Hala situation at all, so it was easy for him to dismiss her feelings. Easier said then done, that is why this show was a perfect opportunity show how it affects a person who experiences abuse as a child, the trauma that never really goes away. She thought Hamza would be the one who will be on her side, but Khurram ruined it all in his petty revenge. Khurram was two timing with Hala and his cousin, he is in no position to say anything.

Yes, she became a coward and crying was the only way she could express her feelings, because SJ took everything from her. Her voice to express as in that house there was no one who could take pity on her and save her from SJ. Even Dadi and chachoo were helpless, as they really had no power to help or protect Hala because they depended on her taujee . Her taujee was also selfish and mean even he did not take pity on her instead used all the money that her dad used to spend on his family.

If I were the writer of this drama, would never unite Hala with Hamza, instead send her to London with her dad to get treatment, get education so she could become a better mother to her child.

Iss show ko khatam karo koyi😆...Kya bana rakha hai show ka ughhh!!This show could have been so much better with sensible writing.They have made mockery of trauma and stretching SJ track till the last epi makes no sense.There are so many things they could have done with this show and it boggles me that this show is stuck in one place for 10-12 epis.Making the lead characters awfully dumb only takes away the essence of the show!Even a blind person can see what kind of a person SJ is but the hero cant!The heroine does not want progress when offered by her sister and only chants what she would do without her husband!!Why cant she make a life for herself and her baby and make herself self dependent by pursuing her studies and later gaining a job when she is getting support and finance to do it.Her husband cant see what his mom is upto even if it is on his face and can never do justice to Hala as a wife,so it is better for them to get a divorce and embrace their new life as it is.

Originally posted by: sunflower52

Khurram does not understand Hala situation at all, so it was easy for him to dismiss her feelings. Easier said then done, that is why this show was a perfect opportunity show how it affects a person who experiences abuse as a child, the trauma that never really goes away. She thought Hamza would be the one who will be on her side, but Khurram ruined it all in his petty revenge. Khurram was two timing with Hala and his cousin, he is in no position to say anything.

Yes, she became a coward and crying was the only way she could express her feelings, because SJ took everything from her. Her voice to express as in that house there was no one who could take pity on her and save her from SJ. Even Dadi and chachoo were helpless, as they really had no power to help or protect Hala because they depended on her taujee . Her taujee was also selfish and mean even he did not take pity on her instead used all the money that her dad used to spend on his family.

If I were the writer of this drama, would never unite Hala with Hamza, instead send her to London with her dad to get treatment, get education so she could become a better mother to her child.

see I would give khurram somewhat of a pass because he was an outsider who just heard her stories and her experiences and being rather selfish, just grew tired of her tears. in a way that is understandable -- there is only so much loop repeat sob stories one can hear before you tune out. unless someone is super empathetic, most people stop listening to sob stories after a while.

that is why marketing based on sob stories for NGOs stop hitting the mark -- people become insensitive and don't care. same with news stories about long conflicts in some regions -- initially people are intersted and afterwards, it just becomes one more news playing out somewhere far away. they tune out and forget. that is human nature. so at least with khurram, I totally understood his reasoning on why he felt that his relationship with hala wasn't really a relationshp at all and how he felt insecure with his cousin and so didn't want her either.

who I don't get -- hamza, the hero of this sob story. 🤷 the guy is not an outsider. all the stuff was happening in his house and by his own family members. not outsiders but his own parents. lets say he was abroad a good chunk of time and wasn't paying attention when he was a child. but even that argument is hard to swallow because children are not dumb.

but hello, what happened to him when he came home? was he so blind that he couldn't see what was happening? even in the last scene, nafees and maryam are spitting mad because shahjahan has outlined her intentions in front of them and still he says "don't speak about my mom" and refuses to believe them -- dude, seriously?! 🤦.

I get they want to drag this story out but hamza is not interesting to me as a character at all. at least, if they were showing that he is someone who is aware but does not want to counter his mom, that would be more realistic. no, they show him as someone who totally believes his mom while living in the same house and witnessing the shoddy treatment that hala gets. it is like they want him as a hero who saves the princess but also a super obedient son who is very nice. in this story, you can't have it both ways because shahjahan was so abusive earlier. it has to be one or the either which is why this romance doesn't work for me. 🤷

but ofcourse, magically shahjahan will hit her head and become nice in the end or something ridiculous 😉-- am not expecting anything realistic or innovative with this drama really....

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

see I would give khurram somewhat of a pass because he was an outsider who just heard her stories and her experiences and being rather selfish, just grew tired of her tears. in a way that is understandable -- there is only so much loop repeat sob stories one can hear before you tune out. unless someone is super empathetic, most people stop listening to sob stories after a while.

that is why marketing based on sob stories for NGOs stop hitting the mark -- people become insensitive and don't care. same with news stories about long conflicts in some regions -- initially people are intersted and afterwards, it just becomes one more news playing out somewhere far away. they tune out and forget. that is human nature. so at least with khurram, I totally understood his reasoning on why he felt that his relationship with hala wasn't really a relationshp at all and how he felt insecure with his cousin and so didn't want her either.

who I don't get -- hamza, the hero of this sob story. 🤷 the guy is not an outsider. all the stuff was happening in his house and by his own family members. not outsiders but his own parents. lets say he was abroad a good chunk of time and wasn't paying attention when he was a child. but even that argument is hard to swallow because children are not dumb.

but hello, what happened to him when he came home? was he so blind that he couldn't see what was happening? even in the last scene, nafees and maryam are spitting mad because shahjahan has outlined her intentions in front of them and still he says "don't speak about my mom" and refuses to believe them -- dude, seriously?! 🤦.

I get they want to drag this story out but hamza is not interesting to me as a character at all. at least, if they were showing that he is someone who is aware but does not want to counter his mom, that would be more realistic. no, they show him as someone who totally believes his mom while living in the same house and witnessing the shoddy treatment that hala gets. it is like they want him as a hero who saves the princess but also a super obedient son who is very nice. in this story, you can't have it both ways because shahjahan was so abusive earlier. it has to be one or the either which is why this romance doesn't work for me. 🤷

but ofcourse, magically shahjahan will hit her head and become nice in the end or something ridiculous 😉-- am not expecting anything realistic or innovative with this drama really....

I agree about Hamza, the writer messed up his character big time. What kind of hero is he, his mother has crossed all the limits and he is still blind want Hala to come with him to that hell hole. I know its difficult for a son to believe that his mother is cruel and hell bent on destroying his married life.

What I liked about Humsafar was at least Ashar did the right thing when he found the reality of what his mother did to his wife, child and marriage. Told his mother off when he realized how his mother manipulated him and destroyed his married life, was also going to kill his unborn child. Hamza is seeing and has been told by Hala countless time how his mother use to torture and abuse her but still is not accepting this fact that his mother is a horrible person. Look how SJ treats her own daughter, no wonder she is rebelling the mom is obsessed with her son and does not pay attention to her.

@bold, true the end will be really typical.