Did Anuradha really get a raw deal?

Purva

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: bedigirl
the diary was hers for me to read and use for the show,,, it was "as told to production" and signed by her and i had to read every bit aloud to camera! I really wish they had shown episode over 4 days.... so much has been missed out.... anyway! hope yu enjoyed glimpses of my life and home and kids and puppies! cheers! take care! good night !!

The diary was for you to read... not to post the info on public forum to make yourself look good...

I am sorry to say Ms. Bedi.. but all your posts are completely one sided and only to show yourself look good.. I am sure Anuradha has some good qualities too.. sadly the show makers were also completely biased and now you too 👎🏼 wish you would follow the thing you preached in some other thread.. "live and let live" guess it's just for others to follow and not yourself.. very disappointed 😕

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pooja bedi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: purva

So you are saying that you did everything.. but the editors cut it off.. and why should we believe you? Even if we give you this benefit of doubt then same should be given to Anuradha... no? 😊

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Nind

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Posted: 14 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: bedigirl
aaaw! thank yoou sooooooo much! and if she just picks up any book or magazine on home decor she will realise all home owners make efforts to make their home aesthetic and beautiful!
thanks for yur kind words

lots of love and warmth

pooja

Pooja ji aap ka swagath hai is saaf suthereh forum meh...........I speak as I find..........I found your home well run, but I felt Ms Anita could have been a tad more congenial.............Anu through no fault of her own as there is an obvious lifestyle, and I hate to use the word, but class difference, would not have known any better when dealing with her. To you your cook is part of the family to Anu that would be unthinkable and thus treated her like a hired hand and a maid servant,..........either way the long and short of it is, it was a social experiment and both families learned and taught what they could in the limited time they had......

You are the last of a dying breed amongst my generation but it makes me very proud when I see a self sufficient independant all rounded woman standing head and shoulders above the likes of Mr Nigam......self proclaimed funny man............the bone in my elbow has more humour in it than he has got in his ...........sorry I shouldnt be rude but he came across as a bit of a MCP and I have a deep disdain for that type of man..........I also feel hes surpressed Anus voice and boy did she make use of it when given the opportunity

You always come across big hearted.........so dont waste your time defending your actions here......you do what you need to do to survive............buy a couple of lifestyle mags for the nigams and take them over as a peace offering..............and dont forget the laadoos 😉

Ab is topic par toh meh itna hi kahoon ki, agar aap such Meh Pooja hoh toh God bless always and if you are not then bachkeh meri jaan, humari Pooja didi doesnt suffer fools !!

you take care and lots of love and light back to you and your family. 😃

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Purva

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Posted: 14 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: bedigirl

And why was Anuradha expected by Anita to fix jacuzzi and chimney.. while she was not given enough money to do so? Why was your maid Anita so rude to her?? Is she normally that rude to you too? Why did she refuse to follow Anuradha's rules when it was the concept of the show? And it was really cheap of Anita to laugh at Anuradha when she was explaining something about money to her.. and your kids also joined hands with Anita in doing so.. which was not right in my opinion.. 😊

i run a house single handedly and every week there is a to do or fix it list that is made... i was instructed that as she was to live my life i was to leave that weeks to do list for her to complete as she had to play the multitasking single mom.. replete with my exercise routines, writing columns, my charitable work, my events, nightlife, spa's, teaching kids, being a hands on mom etc etc.. i wish they had shown her doing my exercise routine,... that would have been FUN!! i'm told she did it only one day and then gave up!!

You still didn't answer all my questions.. why was there not enough money to get things fixed? Also why was Anita so rude to Anuradha?? 😛

apparently anita was to instruct her on my routines so that she lived my life by my pace and systems for the first 4 days ! and it seems anuradha was averse and negative to every moment of it...

as for money... i had given 5000 rupees for basic groceries and vegetables, bread eggs etc (10,000 rupees were bought just priir to show and stocked up in kitchen) and th jacuzzi swtich and curtain rope! i think she's bad at money management!

Anuradha said she was given somewhere around Rs. 3000 by Anita .. but ofcourse she must be lying for sure.. 😃👍🏼

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Isha.Isha

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Posted: 14 years ago

#95

Originally posted by: purva

Anuradha said she was given somewhere around Rs. 3000 by Anita .. but ofcourse she must be lying for sure.. 😃👍🏼

Lying big time as she asked Anita, why did not she inform her about the extra money earlier.
Wow, along with stubborn, non-accepting and all that, she possesses one more excellent quality, hummn what a thorough depiction of the lady.

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axeion

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Posted: 14 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: bedigirl

I am sorry Ms.Bedi, but I agree with Purvi... We were all supporting u all this while, but ur appearance on the forum, defending urself and belittling the Nigam household in every post of urs isn't acceptable. I am sorry, but u lost it for me too 👎🏼

Hope u have a great time, and wishing you a wonderful New Year.... Good Night 😃

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Nind

@Shizaru

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Posted: 14 years ago

#97

I am sorry to say Ms. Bedi.. but all your posts are completely one sided and only to show yourself look good.. I am sure Anuradha has some good qualities too.. sadly the show makers were also completely biased and now you too 👎🏼 wish you would follow the thing you preached in some other thread.. "live and let live" guess it's just for others to follow and not yourself.. very disappointed 😕

Purva how do you expect her to speak for Anu, you are asking her questions, she is answering them and no doubt they will be one sided, her side..............thats normal.........if she answered any other way and it was all lovely shovely balanced..............the same ppl here would label her Ms Diplomatic............and for crying out loud..............one Ms Diplomatic over a 3 month period is enough to last the whole forum a life time.............cut her some slack..........listen to her POV and understand her written responses............dont go into Mrs Nigam mode..........and dont even think about attacking me back with a post because at best I will ignore it and at worst..........well go see for yourself in the BB forum I am more than able to hold my own when ppl r being ruder than necessary

so peace out ppl 😃

Oh my dog.........Eku ju bi???

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Purva

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Posted: 14 years ago

#98

Originally posted by: .Isha.

Lying big time as she asked Anita, why did not she inform her about the extra money earlier.
Wow, along with stubborn, non-accepting and all that, she possesses one more excellent quality, hummn what a thorough depiction of the lady.

It shows that bullying Anuradha was preplanned by Anita... it's sad that Ms. Bedi can not see what went wrong in her own house but is quick to point fingers at Anuradha for every single thing..

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