Team Suhana Vs Team Ayush - Page 2

Originally posted by: ExquisiteDhami-

She locked a kid in the store room, she was unapologetic and even lied. Still Sona madam does not give a flying ...... about Ayush. Does she not realise how wrong locking him in a store was how god damn dangerous it could have been but still Sohaaaa bechaari😕 Like what are you doing woman you're a mother to both of them act like one . Like Ishwari's obsession with Dev was unhealthy last season Sona's obsession with Soha is getting just as filthy.

Sona was so lovely in earlier seasons why are they making her into an insensitive woman pls 🥺

I don't feel sonakshi is obsessed, but she is torn right now between child she gave birth too and child she raised. Soha's mental well being is her priority right now. She is understanding, the shift of dynamics in that house, hence she is ignoring soha's mistakes also. Sona isn't insensitive but going through a rough phase.

I don't think Soha is bechari or being made into one, but yes to show Ayush bechari they are going overboard.

I do hope that sonakshi reprimand soha and makes her realize her mistakes, if she doesn't do that, the fault lies in her not soha.

So insinuating that soha is some brat who isn't letting Ayush bond with her parents is absurd. The flaw lies with dixits not soha, if she is behaving this way. if those three have done this with soha, I am sorry just because Shubh and Aayush have devakshi's genes, irresponsible parenting won't exactly makes angels out of them too.

Ps: Just because Ayush is her biological son, it is not fair to expect her to switch on her mamta immediate and pamper him. Yes, but she do need to deal with soha and golu.

Originally posted by: Writer_Soul

I don't feel sonakshi is obsessed, but she is torn right now between child she gave birth too and child she raised. Soha's mental well being is her priority right now. She is understanding, the shift of dynamics in that house, hence she is ignoring soha's mistakes also. Sona isn't insensitive but going through a rough phase.

I don't think Soha is bechari or being made into one, but yes to show Ayush bechari they are going overboard.

I do hope that sonakshi reprimand soha and makes her realize her mistakes, if she doesn't do that, the fault lies in her not soha.

So insinuating that soha is some brat who isn't letting Ayush bond with her parents is absurd. The flaw lies with dixits not soha, if she is behaving this way. if those three have done this with soha, I am sorry just because Shubh and Aayush have devakshi's genes, irresponsible parenting won't exactly makes angels out of them too.

Ps: Just because Ayush is her biological son, it is not fair to expect her to switch on her mamta immediate and pamper him. Yes, but she do need to deal with soha and golu.

I respect your opinion and to each their own. For me though Sona's behaviour of covering up Soha's mistakes and not reprimanding her because she is worried what may Soha think and be insecure is absurd. Parents need to call out the mistakes of their kids otherwise those mistakes only get worse. Today she is doing it to Ayush, tomorrow she will get jealous of some other kid and do the same.

It is wrong and it needs to be addressed by the parents I think because how else will Soha realise she is 8. But unfortunately in the show Sona is acting like nothing matters in front of Soha . When Dev told her Soha locked Ayush she didnt even once ask is Ayush okay but went on to do Soha jaap that oh my why did Maa tell her off. That bugs me. It's wrong to so many levels.

The store room incident, orphanage they needed strong wording from the parents. They are raising the child to be insolent. What Soha is doing to Ayush is bullying which can have severe consequences. She is scarring his mental health, he has just lost his father, is surrounded by unknown strangers. The least that the parents can do is to tell their daughter to not mess with him if she can't be nice.

@bold I am not insinuating anything. Soha's behaviour is that of a brat and I find it aggressive BUT the fault of that is her parents who are not telling her what she is doing is wrong and won't be allowed in the household. She needs to face consequences there are 50 million things parents do to correct their kids like no games for a day, naughty spot etc etc it is only so the child understands what they did was wrong. But here Sona is just doing the sorry behaviour as if Soha is being wronged.

About genes again absolutely agree Dixit's are terrible Rohit's household raised their child much better maybe Dixits can take a leaf from their books.

No one is asking Sona to switch her mamta, I am just pointing out her bad parenting and negligience towards one of her children, Ayush. Even is she doesnt want to take him as a son she should not let her daughter go and make a child's life miserable just because she can't say anything to soha because Soha bura maan jayegi.

Perhaps its shoddy writing but I can't resonate with Sona anymore, from being my fav in previous seasons to finding her irritating now I don't know hopefully it gets better

Originally posted by: ExquisiteDhami-

The store room incident, orphanage they needed strong wording from the parents. They are raising the child to be insolent. What Soha is doing to Ayush is bullying which can have severe consequences. She is scarring his mental health, he has just lost his father, is surrounded by unknown strangers. The least that the parents can do is to tell their daughter to not mess with him if she can't be nice.

@bold blue. here is where Sona's words matter. When Ayush was first brought to Dixit house and Devakshi had to tell Soha about Ayush, Dev said that Ayush's father was his best friend. And here is where Sona said the first wrong thing. She didn't have to tell the whole truth of child swap, but could have at least built up on what Dev said and told Soha that Ayush lost both his parents. Given that his dad was Dev's close friend, they have brought him home to take care of him during hiss hard times.

Instead what Sona did was say that there is a "problem" in Ayush'd house which is not getting solved, that's why Ayush was staying here. This gave a completely different perception to Soha rather than what Ayush's being here should have meant. And after that, every action or words of Sona has been to kind of justify those words of calling Ayush's situation a "problem". It is a problem because for Sona it is a problem. And that is how Sona is seeing the whole situation rather than just seeing it as a difficult situation and trying to overcome it.

Unless Sona accepts Ayush, Soha will not accept Ayush. And for that Sona has to see the consequences of her actions and words in a clear way, as to how it actually affected Ayush. Only then will she have similar realization like Ishwari and grow from it.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Ayush was happy with Rohit’s parents , could have left him there

Now he is in the middle look at the scenario

Obsessive Daddy

Loving but strange papa

A mom who scared to show love

Two children who bullies & insult him for no reason at any given chance !

If not it is better for Ayush to shift to a good boarding school, there are many

He is mature , intelligent and daring like Dev , he is tiny Dev Dixit