*Season 2, Week 11* Analysis Thread - Page 18

Asha was fabulous today.

Rather she is fabulous Always.

As many of you have been giving these lovely viewpoints about Sona's character growth in this season, Asha just took that process up a notch today. This season is really about Sona. Just because he is a good father to Sona does not mean that he is a good husband to Asha. This was an important thing pointed by her to Sona. She clearly stated that her life with Bijoy was never a bed of roses but they worked hard to overcome the shortcomings and come to a middle ground and that is what has made them a happy couple at this late stage in life. Not only did she kind of partly justify Dev's outburst, but she also indirectly told Sona to give her marriage a second chance for Soha.

Asha's character is actually a foil to Ishwari's character. What Ishwari is not, Asha is. While Ishwari did not get enough time with her husband in her life to understand these knitty gritties of marriage, Asha has had the full experience. Ishwari spent the majority of her life making Dev her world followed by her daughters. This os also a reason why she wanted to have a vice like grip over Dev's life. Because for her, her life revolved around Dev. She never knew how to live out of it. So she never understood Dev and Sona's relationship either and viewed Sona as someone who would snatch her happiness=Dev. On the other hand Asha knows how life after marriage works. That there are a great amount of sacrifices and adjustments involved to make a marriage successful. That is why even before Devakshi separated she would always ask Sona to understand everyone's POV before reacting at a negative situation.

And till now, she Continues to do the same.

Here's what I think of Dev's reaction.

Basically Dev had been shelving off all the insults Bijoy would be throwing at him every now and then. Dheerey dheerey his anger kept building up bit by bit. Bijoy keeps doing everything in his power to make Dev feel unwelcome. But Dev is here just for Soha and therefore doesn't let his anger come to the fore. But if someone repeatedly keeps telling you that you are a terrible person,its human nature to burst once. For Dev the trigger was Bijoy's comment not only to Ishwari but to Golu too. Bijoy's reaction to Ishwari is justified. But his rudeness to Golu has no justification whatsoever. So when Dev saw that Along with Ishwari, Bijoy was annoyed with Golu too, he forcefully and painfully had to tell him to go too. Because if Golu Stays Ishwari stays too.

Now behaving that way with a child is really unfair. So Dev burst. And he talked about not letting any relatives go from Bose House to IN or vice versa during Dev and Sona's stays. Now Dev knew that Bijoy's dislike for Golu stemmed from his dislike from Ishwari, so he told Asha that Bijoy didn't have to insult Ishwari because as to Dev Ishwari came because Golu wanted to come.

As far as Bijoy is concerned his reactions are completely guided by his immense anger towards Dev and his hatred Towards Ishwari. Sadly today he lost control and let it trickle onto an innocent 6 year old who calls him Nanu. Bijoy is not this person. I hope he realises his mistake towards Golu soon. And About his reaction towards Ishwari, I have no problems with it.😆

Also I am loving all the discussions here!

Helps me to understand thing so much better.

Special Thank you to Shaavi Di, DQ Di, Sam Di, Areeba Di, Tia and whole lot of others who explain things so beautifully!

Thank you! :D