*Season 2, Week 8* Analysis Thread - Page 40

Originally posted by: jigsaw1234

Of course he should win over Soha first but the unacceptable portrayal is the way he handles Sona in the process.

No one can dispute his pain or his love for his daughter but keeping Sona tied because she will interfere in his relationship building exercise with his daughter and at the same time hoping that Sona won't disclose it to his daughter, she will handle because she is a warrior princess is double standard at the worst and contradicting at the least isn't it?

Either my life experience is below average that I fail comprehend Dev or the makers have made a piecemeal and are trying to superglue Dev and Sona's relationship. The sad thing is they promised honest real show and I got sucked in :-(

Originally posted by: timbarucha83

I agree with your point and they are not changing the main story line. Still it is related to the insecurities of the Ishu mainly but I think they have added Bijoy's aspect also. so Dev and sona are going to be together as first as mother and father and the as lovers and afterwords as husband and wife in season two and they are not going to show the old mistakes are repeated by the leads. and My take on the anger on the sona as a lover and wife is Dev always feel they sona knows him too well even more then Ishu so he was expected that she will not leave him as she know that he cannot survived without her which is known to her that why he always asks her to not to leave her before there marriage and after marriage. Actually when he choose sona over Ishu that was the big thing for him. In his entire life he has choose the relation another then his mother so he was expecting that she will understand it and will be with him. But actually it was too late. Sona never wants this kind of situation first she was expecting the support form dev which at import point dev fail due to gave which is very well known to dev and he knows the reasons for it that's why he has draw the line between his mother. Other than anger it was disappointment. and sona was angry because she have an hope that after some time after the anger get cooled down dev will come. The main problem is dev was expecting that sona will not leave him and soan was expecting that he will come back to her. and this was pretty clear from the flower story. I hope one day they will understand what they have lost due to this mess. and understand their mistakes because I feel both have made mistakes as husband and wife. Dev has done more but some mistakes are from sona's side also. Because of the there mistakes they allow there parents to play will there relation by the name of insecurity and pride.

Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara

Originally posted by: grace4317

Was watching last week episodes once again...Two different scenes made me think if his 2 important ladies had behaved in the same way as the two little munchkins behaved, how peaceful and blessed would have been the Dev Dixit, who instead lost everything while 2 ladies had some gain - Ishwari got her daughters settled and Sona got Soha. Considering Golu as Ishwari & Soha as Sona, let's decode those 2 scenes as below:

1. The scene where Soha gets injured.

Here,even when Ishwari tries to blame Golu for not taking care of Soha, it is to be noticed that Dev didn't side Golu or Soha on who was responsible for Soha's chot. Instead we see, Golu saying sorry to his Bigcha and that because of him his sister got injured and later says sorry to Suhana. To which Soha replies that she is also at fault as she was the one who didn't hear to Maasi & Cool dadu's words and says Sorry to Golu. How simply they solved a situation, which otherwise would have hurt the other, if Dev took side of any of them...Aise unka maa aur biwi bhi soch liya hoga tho, hamara Dev ko itna sehna nahi pada.

2. Throwing the basketball in the ring.

Just before this scene, we see Golu had boasted to his friends what a superman his Bigcha was, in a same way how Ishwari used to take pride of her Raja beta. So now as the teacher calls out Dev for his turn, he becomes nervous as he was not sure he could win the game. And if he failed, he will be hurting both his munchkins. Now, let's see how the 2 helped him to win the game. Golu, by reminding Dev of Bigchi (his love) and what all he had boasted about BigCha to impress Soha (his life), motivates him to achieve the target, while Soha boosts Dev's confidence by wishing him all the best and saying he will win. And later we see both Soha & Golu cheering him up together. Finally Dev wins, keeping Golu's image intact in front of Soha & his friends and at the same time proving to Soha that her belief in him didn't go in vain. Another lesson for Sona-Ishwari to learn how each could support Dev in achieving what the other wanted from him.

In both these incidents Dev didn't have to stand for any one. Vo donom apne samajdhaari se dusre ko aur Dev ko support kiya. And that is what it should have been in Ishwari-Dev-Sona relationship too!!!

Originally posted by: grace4317

Tiara...another thoughtful analysis, especially the part on Elena-Dev relation. Adding to it, i think one more reason why she didn't leave the Dixit house is because she didn't want to be a burden, especially after knowing that she was pregnant, to the Bose family who were already going through a tough situation.