upated in pg 3 -Should/would ranveer accept the job back - Page 2

Ranveer should accept the job atm.. Poor people cannot have their self-respect above their need, that's the situation Dev has taken advantage of here. Ranveer should accept the job temporarily and should fly away from this as soon as he managed to crack another one even with lower salary. I would be happy if he does that.

He shud accept it...

Originally posted by: Sruji1

first of all if he is so much self respect he should have quit the job when he filed case against neha.jisne tumko job dhiya usi par criminal case lagaya tho the other party don't sit silent right and he accepted the job for neha only. when he is ready to give divorce to neha, his first action should be quit the job and try to find another job.now coming up to the question people bashed dev he stole the livelihood of some innocent family and all if ranveer don't accept the job didn't he doing the same .if he have another job in his kitty then its ok if he's dont accept it but because of his self respect if he refused the job then he himself stoling the livelihood of his family.😆.Well knowing ranveer character he will come dixit house and give lecture to Dev that he won't accept his beekh any More.

The only difference is - whether or not to do job and support family is Ranveer's responsibility, Dev does not have any control over anyone else's family. Ranveer not accepting job and letting his family starve is none of Rich brat Dev's business, so two things are not comparable from any possible angle. What Dev did was disgusting and cheap to the core - flaunting of power, what Ranveer would do (not accepting) is to save his self-respect - difference of hell and heaven 😕

NO! Dev's favorsalways come with strings attached. i am hoping that he hasfound a better job by now. it will be a slap on dev's face andteaches him a lesson to not use his power to control people's livelihoods. CVs have to showthis as a step towards Dev's learning and growth.

He should not accept it. He should find a better job, which I know he can, given that he is qualified. It is better to be out of the clutches of any one person and to be free of any kind of pressure or obligation. Peace of mind is more important. It is not ego at all if he does not accept.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

The only difference is - whether or not to do job and support family is Ranveer's responsibility, Dev does not have any control over anyone else's family. Ranveer not accepting job and letting his family starve is none of Rich brat Dev's business, so two things are not comparable from any possible angle. What Dev did was disgusting and cheap to the core - flaunting of power, what Ranveer would do (not accepting) is to save his self-respect - difference of hell and heaven 😕

first its ranveer who did cheap and disgusting thing filing harrassment case against his wife. dragging his wife to criminal Case. Dev may not be have any control over any one family financial problems. but he did give job to ranveer only for his sister,not because of ranveer higher qualification .so when ranveer failed taking care of his sister properly and filing case against his sister so he is taken the job back.and if ranveer have so much shelf respect he would have quit before .if you think dev flaunting his power and money then its your thinking but i don't think he is flaunting his power and money he never did. he didn't flaunted before when he give job to ranveer and now also he didn't flaunted when he taken the job.and again also he didnt flaunted when he is ready to give job back. in all these three times what ever he did its because of his sister only. neither he is a rich brat nor he is showing his power and money..its only his love for neha .

A big NO.

Originally posted by: Shilky88

A big NO.

Ranveer should never accept Job or any other favor from Dixits.

He is a self made person and must continue being so.

Dev is CEO of his company and not a ruler of a nation so Ranveer can look for opportunity outside Dev's territory where Dev cannot use his power to negatively influence Ranveer and his family,

At this point Ranveer should make a safe exit from Dixit's influence over his family.

Also I am really upset and hurt that Ranveer is being called as an aimless and egoistic person.

If he is aimless and egoistic then every poor person can be called same.

His pace of getting there (to become rich) might be slow but he is certainly having his own way to become successful,if having lots of money is what we call a success.

It is for him to decide who he looks upto as his idol to become successful.

If he doesn't want to become like Mr, Dev Dixit then this is it..

Dev Dixit is not an UNIVERSAL EPITOME of success and accomplishment.

Not everyone has to be bombarded with Dev Dixit's examples in order to become a rich successful person.

As for Ranveer-- he is setting his own foundation based on his own beliefs and rules and we all should adore him for what he is. Every person has its own identity and a unique struggle path which might be different from others.

if we think Ranveer is an aimless person then what should we call Neha.

She doesn't strive to do something in life.Neither she wants to have kids.

She expects her brother to provide her money,luxury and comforts because of her tragic past.

She expects her husband to be like her brother so that he too can provide her money,luxury and comforts because of her tragic past.

she refuses to take up responsibility to stay in a family as she doesn't have money,luxury and comforts.

Not doing something on your own and just expecting others to be providers for your demands.

Is that we call being ambitious?

👏 Thickhead and thickskinned Dixits dont have the sensitivity to understand Ranveer's plight so I am not surprised, but what surprises me is Sona's terming this whole matter as Ranveer and Neha'd ego when it is not. Every married couple's fight is not about Ego, every husband is not egoist and lame like Dev.. This fight is about setting the priorities right and shattering of expectations.. Ironically even for Dev Sona the issues are same - Sona continues to fight to make herself in the right position in Dev's priority list and her expectations keep getting shattered by her whimsical egoist Husband, but eveytime instead of addressing the issue she thinks this is about ego and patches up without making Dev realize about his mistakes.. Had she done those today she wont have to refuse to come back to Dixits 😕 And she is expecting the same for NehaRanveer .. I would be happy to see at least one couple sorting their issues rightly before jumping into next track of life in a haste 😕 And in order to do that it's time Ranveer refuses Dev's job and finds something on his own which will give a clearcut message to Neha and Dixits that he cannot let some rich brat dictate his family life and priorities and that he is not in any rat race. Now whether Neha wants to continue with Ranveer or not should be entirely upto her priorities 😃 .. Personally I would prefer Ranveer to remain what he is than becoming a person like Dev Dixit 😕

Thanks everyone for sharing your views.

I may receive heavy criticism for what I am about to say. but its ok... here i go

Not sure how many of you have seen Bahubali movie - there are two brothers - Bahubali and bhallaladev ...When they fight with the Villian together towards the end, both of them are keen to kill the villian an become the king. But, the difference as they have shown in the movie - bahubali not only cares about the goal but also cares about the journey (not to harm innocent) to achieve that goal. where as his brother only aims to achieve the goal by hook or crook and doesnt really care about how many innocent villagers die during this process. I really loved how they showed that contrast in that movie.

Now coming back to Kuch rang pyar ke, Dev is like that brother of Bahubali.. He has been like that all his life.. it was very important for him to be that way when they were poor and deserted and he had to literally pull his whole family out of that pitiable condition..So Dev is always in fire fighting mode ... all he wants is to stop the fire and he doesnt really care if he snatch the water from a dying thirty man...Great... But now that he has achieved a position where poverty may probably never touch him... he needs to mend him ways and become more like Bahubali.. I believe that is where Sona would help him and make him understand..the Goal/intention itself is not sufficient and the journey to reach there is equally important.

If you watch the episode where RV's bhabhi comes and tells everyone about how Dev had him fired from his job... She said about family dependency on RV's salary but she also said that Dev did something (probably some false allegation) and had him fired and RV's izzat mitti me miladiya -- that Izzat that is very dear to him... I think that is the main point.

Now I think Ranveer should never accept any more favors from Dixits - even if neha gets back with him. He should not let anyone dictate his life. if Neha really loves RV then she should get back with him and accept him the way he is and the condition he is in. I am sure he would be able to find a job may not not as high paying as Dev's job .. but something where he is not obligated or reminded of the favors.

If Neha doesn't want to get back then fine - let them get separated ... she has her priorities.. If she does get back, then may be Neha and RV both can work together for the betterment of their family status.