If only!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: nailah_AnuPre

U know what even I thought they would show Pre waking up feeling restless after Anu's dream..

But what did they show? Anu spying on Jaan and Navu.. something that we already know..

I think we would hve done a better job as CV's and would be beat Naggin's trp..

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

wow just watch the epi

dream scene is so beautifull.anu falling deeply in.love

precape made me happy .

veenapre scene is good .but for me that song baba tere man & eri acting stole my heart.

pp

ur analysis so beautifull as usual.

if only this dream scene is real

loved when moloy give a peace of mind to mohini

moloy is so right.

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Yeah.. Even I loved Maa-beti scene.. It had so much warmth in it.. And it shows that Pre is not looking for any escape way out.. She can still go on to deal with an unknown for the sake of known happiness of her family.. 😳

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Yes,a temporary happiness, actually,the price Prerna is paying is toouch for the purpose,come on,to save a house,what crap,what message is this sending,ok,please get raped,tortured so that Ur family can live in a freaking haveli.gimme a break. the

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I can understand your emotions🤗.. And I definitely can't argue on how all this is made to look like... As straight as it gets, life needn't be this complicated unnecessarily.. 😆

I don't even want to defend Prerna here because any pov may sound lame excuse when things are not that complicated as they had made out it to be.. 😆

But in general have been thinking about something...

It's always debatable on what one chooses for their living or as the purpose of their life...

When we are to judge others and what we want them to do we cant see things objectively.

Just few examples that popped up in my mind.. This can be related to any other work too..

People do judge a woman who chooses to be a sex worker as a living instead of any other ways of living. She may have her own reasons to be that. Who knows if she's deciding to control of her own life instead of being threatened by others.. People do judge actors for being so accommodative in their glamour business.. They may have their own reasons to survive in the industry..

I am definitely not defending Prerna for her choices but at the same I can't judge her harshly because when seeing objectively anyone has the right to choose their living without being judged..

If Prerna has taken a responsibility to play a role for her family then she has every right to fulfill in it.. It's only that we want her to be selfish and think about her life and when that's not happening we are unable to appreciate it because we would be selfish if we were in her place and not do this sacrifice drama.. That doesn't make us any less responsible towards our duties... We just have our own choices and boundaries and we will work within those limitations...

Same way Anurag has taken a responsibility to play a role for Prerna and he has every right to fulfill it in his own ways.. If he's not being selfish and not thinking about how it's affecting his dear life, we are unable to appreciate it as he's doing things beyond his limits without any reciprocation and we want him to be selfish and not do this for Prerna.. v

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

No,I'm not asking Prerna to be selfish,even,I'm someone who loves my family immensely,and is willing to make sacrifices,bit the reason for which she is making the sacrifice is trivial,it's too big a sacrifice for such a small reason,they can always find a solution together,it's borderline ridiculous.They have butchered her character to such an extent that I want Prerna to fall trap to Naveen just so she could undertand that she cannot solve all the problems in the world,some things are beyond her control.when she has so many people around to help her,ok forget anurag,u think it's hard to get 15 lakh nowadays,she is not a girl from a slum,she belongs to the Indian upper middle class,they are much equipped now,this script,and the beti Baabul songs,it's 70s,and for the record,I don't judge them ,sex workers,coz the reasons for which they do what they do is much bigger and nobler than what Prerna is doing it for.Prernas act seems stupid and is actually showing her character in a very bad light .I have no problem in watching a weak character,but no,here in the end,they'll glorify her rather than admonish her for the pain she is causing everyone.Like moloy said yesterday noone is happy,Prerna has equal contribution in this mess,some problems can't be solved alone.and I don't like people with a god complex,they do more bad than good .please do not call it a sacrifice,what Prerna is doing is actually selfish,she is putting a lot of people in tension just so her family could get some fleeting happiness,yes and I would never do what Prerna did,not because I am selfish,but,because I would have understood Naveen for the creep he is and would have tried to get my family out of it rather than succumbing to his manipulations.I would have understood if I marry him,in the long run,it would cause more pain to my family,that is selfless,what Prerna is doing is dumb and selfish and narcissistic

Originally posted by: Push-pull

I don't deny any of your pov because that's what you see and I am no where intending to change your pov..

I had shared mine and again I will say it.. If you are seeing Prerna as selfish and narcissistic you may have your own reasons for it or seeing her in that light which I couldn't see. Maybe Erica is bringing out that feel in you.. 😉

What I see her is a girl who is all hearts, selfless and sacrificing highly driven by her emotional quotient.. Nowhere I see her intended to hurt everyone around her and she is not even claiming high on her deeds instead made it all look like she's selfish.. Maybe her claim will now happen with Shivani 😆

[/QUOTEYeah,that's the point rite, everything is subjective,I'm saying she is dumb,which is true,coz she is not seeing beyond her need to sacrifice,thsame qualities what u said makes her an emotional fool.and their is a saying in malayalam.which mean an innocent person does more harm than an evil person .its bad sriptingng,I won't even bother myself to justify Prernas character,it's against human instinct,noone can be this dense.if someone's life was at stake,I would buy it,not for a house,I would have called selfless ,if she had found a solution without creating such a collateral mess,she is selfish,selfish in her love for her family.noone intends to hurt someone,even Hiroshima happened to stop Hitler,try telling that to the Japanese.n