Jai & Bani.. whose right?... whose wrong?

Hey guyz... long time no see 😉 I missed you all the last few days while I was studying away.. but I have been keeping up with the wonderful updates all of our ks members are doing (thanx everyone you guys are gr8) 👏 I just wanted to analyze Jai and Bani relationship and characters for a bit today. In case some of you get bored.. feel free to close this topic anytime. Okay, having said that I have been paying close attention to the boring and annoying events that have unfolded and these are my two cents....

Jai (cuddles) the up sides

• okay my dear Jai you have tried to be a loving husband, even bought out companies to get close to your wife and your child to be. (Which I applaud you for) Yet I can't help but question your intentions. Were you just doing all this for your child to be? I mean everytime I have seen Jai trying to explain himself and his love.. it relates his love to that child. Yet I can't help blame him for that. His child is his child.
• You have tried every possible scheme to get your wife back, you have apologized and even tried to pursue the growing emotions you had for Bani.
• You still even care for her no matter how much you try to hide it.. and it shows through your eyes clearly
• You beat up the guy at the party that was messing with Bani! I love you for that Jai! The guy deserved it! and if it were in my hands I would have told you to give him one more! 😆

Now for the downs that Mr. Walia has shown

• Are you blind my dear? Pia has flirted with you every nanosecond of the show and still have not come to a realization that she likes you.
• Why did you give Pushkar the advice to forgive and forget with Pia? Have you forgotten your beloved Bani? I didn't think so. Until one lets their past go and move on I don't think they should be offering counseling sessions to those whom are in the same situation as them.
• Lamaaz classes---) dear Jai.. you know you love your wife otherwise why would you show up a hour and a half early to the class, but why did you have to go ruin it by telling once the baby is separated from her that he will have nothing to do with her?! If I were Bani I would ask you to pay more attention to the class teacher than on harassing me, b/c no matter how hard you try... you won't hate me.
• Deceased mother's kangan... The biggest no-no you have done was giving your wonderful and most responsible sali.. Pia her mother's kangan! Okay Jai, I know you want the Kangan's safe and sound, but why not give it to Rano? Hello! You said Pia is zimidaar! Yeh right! She left you alone at the mandap on your marriage day! You call her zimidaar. Plus, it is just wrong to intentionally confront Bani about her mother's kangan. I still feel that it was not any of your business to be meddling with her business! (If you did hate her why go to all the trouble of getting back the kangan?!)😕
• Not believing Bani when you should and not believing Bani when you should! Ahh! It seems as if you choose to ignore Bani's tears when she's lying and love to harass her when she's absolutely telling you the truth! (Come on Jai! Try and understand when your wife is lying and when she's not, b/c Bani loves to play guessing games! So you are the only person who is the stability of the relationship)

Bani dearests ups...

• loving, caring, and so in love with Jai
• Has admitted to Jai and herself that she is in love with her hubby
• Always wants whats best for her husband and his family

Bani dearests downs..

• Has told everyone in the world about her plan except her beloved husband and sisters (What kind of wife does not confide in her husband?! Just tell him! Im sure he'll still stick with the plan or find a loophole. Overall, it would just make life easier for you dear)
• Believing everything Jiggy and Ranveer tell her. You don't just hand a man whom you don't even consult with about the issue a 5 crores check! Come on Bani! At least ask for some proof, or ask Jai what is going on. Again, it would make your life easier!
• Telling Jai you love him, but then telling him it all was a lie! I can't believe you could do that after that long emotional embrace! I would just enjoy what I had and forget about hating Jai!
• Selling your mom's kangan---) Again a big NO NO why would you do that? Why would you just give away the most precious thing in life without figuring out what was really behind this plan. You should know Jiggy and Ranveer better than that by now!
• Your vow of silence (Maun Varath) ---) Bani, I love you alot, but you just get on my nerves everytime Jai has asked you to explain yourself and you act as if your deaf. I can't blame the man for getting quite irritated himself lately! Just out with it dear! Your not helping Jai by keeping all your plans censored! He won't be happy with his money... don't you get it! You are his happiness! Come on get with the program!

Well.. guyz my two cents... anything else you guyz wanna add or comment about.. plzz doo 😊