How could I.... - Page 5

Originally posted by: Paytonlee

Everyone sympathised with manik when he was going through a rough time with dhruv lashing against him. didnt he even ask nandini to leave and spoke rudely to her but everyone found it acceptable because he was angry but isnt it the same with nandini now. She stood for him that time and consoled him now he is trying to do the same thing

What double standard is this? Im appalled at some of the girls in this forum who think she is overreacting and she should go back to being happy and having romantic scenes with him when some days ago she was kidnapped, tied, almost molested, going to be killed. she needs time for herself.

Today i realised this forum is full of hormonal teenage girls who isnt yet capable of dealing with sensitive issues. #sorrynotsorry

Originally posted by: poopymaster

Small minds do not know how to look at the bigger picture. Sadly, that is what many have become today. small minded.

Just because a person has been strong before, does that mean she cannot break down now? So if she cries, is she immediately branded as 'weak'. sometimes, a third eye perspective can really make your thoughts blurry. you have to try to look through the eyes of nandhini. through the eyes of a 18 year old girl, captured, tied, touched, kidnapped. anyone will break down in that situation. traumatized, pained, disgusted at what has been done to them. she is still in shock. she blames herself for allowing pandit to touch her. She's been in a very difficult experience, so does she not deserve some tiem to think things through? should she always put on her saviour, brave girl mask just for the sake of showign to society that she's not weak.?

She's not weak. She's strong. she's trying to forget that incident and move on.. but we can't expec that to happen in teh blink of an eye right? she need her own time.

Originally posted by: sizzysehrish

Atlast found a positive post

This is so real and genuine that girl who is being suffered this badly will not act normal

U made awesome post

Originally posted by: DEVILSDESIRE

Much Needed Post !!

Really Appreciate It 👏

Some People Can Really Be Dumb And Insensitive 😡

Originally posted by: charminggenie

Oh Geet , Take a bow!!

taking virtual bow now! :D after all, I have another reason to be proud 😉

means a lot, u know, when friends like what i say😳

I hate labels attached to women. She has to be brave, strong, fighter , what-shit. Basically she has to be someone else (read us ) but not human. She cannot break down, she cannot numb, definitely cannot cry because that is a symbol of being weak.

and yet, they are labelled as the weaker sex. ha. nonsense.

Because who cares, if she has had enough .

So what if she was gagged, bound in a small box, touched by a man who had no business invading her personal space. She saw how a Teacher wanted to use her . His thoughts, touches repulsed her.

But hey molestation is not big deal,deffo not kidnapping. Because Nandini Moorthy punched a guy twice, so she is brave strong and what not.

Punches- Once after she followed all the ragging they made her do , Another punch after the guy told her how much he cared for her. And she cried during , after those punches too.

So just because she did all that , she has no right to cry, no right to go through those flashbacks, introspect, think about what she did, how she broke down.

Yes, she is repulsive of touch of any kind, because the memories be fresh- it's not even been one whole day.

But she has to be brave, move on , because it's injustice to Manik that she cannot make love to him right now. Umm prioritizes .

injustice to manik. ha. and what about her injustices? why are they always sidelined G? just because she's a girl? it's so unfair it makes me cry! Fine, he has been in pain, but like u said, she suffered equally, she was the perpetrator of VIOLENCE on the man she loves, imagine how HARD and how PAINFUL it must have been that she had to use it.

If a girl cannot tell the guy she loves her fears, share how lost she feels then what is the point of the true love. She is collapsing because of what happened to her. She needs her own space and him to understand.

Totally! And i'm glad that she has friends and a beautiful man who understands it too. not a lot of women have either...he will stand there and encourage her, instigate her, fight her worst because he sees the best in her, just as she does in him. He won't let this star fall.

She was strong enough to fight for the justice but she is human enough to crumble under the psychological impact of it. She was gagged, kidnapped , touched and shattered.

That is such a beautiful line, iGush

All in a day's time but hey she is not suppose to be human. She cannot be a victim . She is the strong one remember? Who wants to relate to a girl who cries after being subjected to Kidnapping?

Reality is ugly.

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