Originally posted by: sucker4Luvstory
We all go through tough situations and painful emotions in life. what we don't pay attention is how we manage or cope with them effectively as we are not aware that these painful emotions need to be managed.
These leave wounds which sometimes takes ages to heal..what all I cud see in Manik was the lone child, who's wounded umpteen number of times and totally deprived of sweetness ..be it in the form of love or care or nurturing..he cud only see it for the first time in those other 4 kids and that's when he realised being together gives him strength to fight back..being cruel,bulling and doing other notorious acts were few defensive masks they did put up to protect themselves from In turn getting hurt..Manik didn't want to be good as it rises expectations about him and he simply doesn't know how to maintain it as he's shallow within..in the glimpses of him being good only made him fail, fall hard to live up to expectations..
I think the first time Nandini did small things like lighting fire, giving glass of water when he's in need Inspite of him being full on his monster mode made him crave for more..more of that care, more of that love and more of that some one who looks at him with concern than either working for him or give and take..his confusions,his fears - there's no one he cud look upto to clear them..not even with fab5 as they themselves are dependent on him and are ignorant of the kind of gentle care Nandini brings forth to the table apart from Cabir to some extent but again he always had the need to protect himself and project him To be a tormentor with carefree attitude!
Healing starts with acceptance of what's so and working towards what our dreams and aspirations. Are.something like coming from future and not from past! I am glad CVs took this very sensitive area and are trying to show some positive direction to all the kids who affected ..a path to future which is filled with love, care, empathy, understanding and happiness..a road to future with a baked partner who can heal the past wounds with all her might!
Am happy, Nandini did understand this vulnerable Manik and his constant need of being with her ..it will for sure bring a more nurturing side of her which is a balm to his wounds..what a harmonious relation it would be if the partners in a marriage as partners in all sense..he's her protector and she's his nurturer!
Eveline, I am your fan.Bas!
Teju
Don't know what to say about Maniks' ways of dealing with repeated pain and neglect. But then a child doesn't know better. And in my eyes, he did good. He could have been anything, with no one to guide him..but he managed not only his, but his friends life fine too...channeling all their pain, bitterness and converting them into passion for music. The way he build his band, and along with it the foundations of true friendship are so commendable!! The guy to me appears sorted. But there are scars..livid, gushing wounds...and they need attention asap!!
He has said it in the past...he is bad...he has no desire to be good...he does not want to be a hero..reasons as u state can be varied. The knowledge that good always suffers or his victimized, or its too much pressure to dealt with, or being good is too tall an order, or he does not want to disappoint anyone, least of all the ones near and dear to him...a zillion reasons buried deep in his subconsciousness. Lets just say being bad was easy and convenient for him!!
She is the yin to his yang. I am not a die hard romantic but would like to believe that God in his infinite wisdom and kindness finally looked upon his neglected child and decided to bless him in the form of Nadini!! His answered prayers...she is all he needs and he is all she wants!! She brings him goodness...he brings her reality...she brings him innocence and he brings her wisdom.
About the children of broken homes. This being fiction the solutions seem viable, but in reality such children are scarred for life. Yes, even a little bit of TLC, understanding, faith, go a very long way with such deprived kids, but then how many are ready to spare them such a luxury. Its so difficult to see the real hurt and in pain face, behind the masks of overbearing rudeness such kids tend to wear. All they needs is a chance, but who in the world ever gives them one. Love cvs for pointing out the harsh reality of broken homes, as the number of dysfunctional, separated and divorced couples increase alarmingly all over the world.
And no fanship...only fraaandship 😆!!
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