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Ok,My Pov about who is more responsible and who is less.I feel all three of them are qually responsible for this whole mess.
1) Ragini :
What she lacks : I can understand her when she said she had to be strict with her kids as she was single parent and was both Father and Mother.What she didnt realise is that this theory is good when the kids arte actually kids.Once they reach to their Teenage,you cant be like this with them.The kids need her more as a Friend from time to time to understand the set of problems.
She was against Nishis marriage from day 1 and i totally agree with her fear and the reason behind her decision not to agree for the marriage.She wanted her to complete her education first,make a career for herself and then think about the marriage.But i never saw her talking with her as a friend and explain her why she is against this marriage.Your daughter becaomes your best friend once she reaches her teenage(i read it somewhere).She never told Nishi what all problems she faced post Divorce (not saying she should tell her everything),but atleast how her education helped her to have a career and made her independent post divorce and thats why she wants her to complete it before thinking about marriage.
The day she got a call from Nachiket,she went ahead and fixed her marriage.Why?This is her first mistake where if not directly she gave an indirect hint to both her kids that if she disagrees with something,one call from him can change her decision and thats where for both of them their dad became hero in their eyes.She should had told them that she is still against the marriage and no way she is going to agree for it.
Aarav : She never sat with him and explained him why she is sgainst his wish of doing business at this young age.You just cant shout at your teenage kid and think that he will understand your views.He again went to his father like his sister and like the last time,he agreed for him doing business with a condition that he should continue his studies.
The fact is both her kids are very immatured for their age.They never had any one else except their Mom.Raginis mother is the most useless granny of india television history.she knows that Ragini has to go out and work ,to earn and hence it was her duty to provide that love,friendship whatever you name it to those two kids.She behaves as if she dont care about them at all.
The problem is Ragini believes once she told her decision ,kids have to accept it come what may.Its not happening these days once they reach to teenage.I really hoped 1/5 of the time she spent with her so called friend Aman sir,she had sepnt with those kids as a friend,things might have been different today.
Does that mean if she was more friendly,Nishi and Aarav had listened to her and not got married and the other involved into business is totally different point altogther.
2) Nachiket Khanna.
: He was never their for his kids and just provided matearlistic things for them,But they are more lucky becoz even though Pam may be a vamp,but she was their for the set of kids.She did what Ashaben failed to do.Yes,they missed their mom but she atleast gave some love to them.
What he lacks: He is a big fool,let me start accepting that.He beiieves in giving freedom to them and if they make mistakes,they will learn.Because of this,we can see what Ranbir has turned into,he has not realised it yet but im sure in the future it will hit him big time.He is lucky that his other two kids are matured and didnt took advantage of that freedom.They respect their dad (even Ranbir for that matter respects him).They dont complain like Ragini kids whenever anything goes wrong.
Coming to Nishi,for her their dad is superhero,because just one phone call made the whole difference.Her mom agreed for the marriage.I feel the big mistake Neil made as far as Aarav is concerned is that he should have never sent him to the Mud island Bunglow,and insted kept him with him for that whole night knowing how series the issue is.Its sad he hasnt realised it yet.
He bei\lieves that if a lie can save someone from hurt,its better to lie,but what he dont realise is that when it comes out in open,the hurt is more to that person for whose sake he lied.Its not the first time,it happened and i sont know how many more incidents are needed for him to realise this.
3) Nivedita Basu :'
What she lacks : She lacks everything but...
The first mistake they (creatives,nb,story writers ) made is to show Neil setteled in US not in Mumbai.They cant keep the leading actors apart for many days and hence they have to bring them in one frame and for that he has to be in India.She cant go leaving her baggage (mom,nani) to US for any reason,its always he who has to come here.How i really hoped they both are in the same city from day 1 and not meeting with each other for 15 years or even 9 months,then they had the scope to show faults at both set of kids.But now they are showing problems only in her set of kids and showing single woman in very bad taste.They are making Ragini villan in the eyes of her own kids.I really hope they will show problems with Khanna kids too and make them realise the importance of a mother in kids life.
After divorce,and once they divided the kids,they are still bothers and sisters and i can bet this can happen only in BT world,where an elder brother thinks to take revenge from his younger one by snatching the girl that he loves.Its totally stupid and crap.It never happenes anywhere else.Nb has murdered the term relationships in this show.Mother was faking her marriage at her daugters wedding,Father engagement was announced,Brothers are fighting for the same girl,There is no bonding between the parents and other set of kids,all this can happen only in BT world.
She used kids to unite and break the relationship of Neira.She still thinks they are lovers but not parents.This is the most immature way how she is showing 40 + parents behaving with each other and none of them ever thinking about the other set of kids for whom only they are responsible for bringing them on this earth.If they cant take care,who told them to produce them in the first place?(Sorry .no offense please)
i atleast hope now nb will wake up and will show the parents side from now on,If she still continue to show them fight like lovers instead of thinking about kids,i can say only one thing.
Nb Mata Ki Jai.
Infact i cant connect with Neira anymore.I took a break for few days,will follow from Monday just for RR and PK.Will forget the story at 11 pm and will watch the next epi again for RR and PK.
1) Ragini :
What she lacks : I can understand her when she said she had to be strict with her kids as she was single parent and was both Father and Mother.What she didnt realise is that this theory is good when the kids arte actually kids.Once they reach to their Teenage,you cant be like this with them.The kids need her more as a Friend from time to time to understand the set of problems.
She was against Nishis marriage from day 1 and i totally agree with her fear and the reason behind her decision not to agree for the marriage.She wanted her to complete her education first,make a career for herself and then think about the marriage.But i never saw her talking with her as a friend and explain her why she is against this marriage.Your daughter becaomes your best friend once she reaches her teenage(i read it somewhere).She never told Nishi what all problems she faced post Divorce (not saying she should tell her everything),but atleast how her education helped her to have a career and made her independent post divorce and thats why she wants her to complete it before thinking about marriage.
The day she got a call from Nachiket,she went ahead and fixed her marriage.Why?This is her first mistake where if not directly she gave an indirect hint to both her kids that if she disagrees with something,one call from him can change her decision and thats where for both of them their dad became hero in their eyes.She should had told them that she is still against the marriage and no way she is going to agree for it.
Aarav : She never sat with him and explained him why she is sgainst his wish of doing business at this young age.You just cant shout at your teenage kid and think that he will understand your views.He again went to his father like his sister and like the last time,he agreed for him doing business with a condition that he should continue his studies.
The fact is both her kids are very immatured for their age.They never had any one else except their Mom.Raginis mother is the most useless granny of india television history.she knows that Ragini has to go out and work ,to earn and hence it was her duty to provide that love,friendship whatever you name it to those two kids.She behaves as if she dont care about them at all.
The problem is Ragini believes once she told her decision ,kids have to accept it come what may.Its not happening these days once they reach to teenage.I really hoped 1/5 of the time she spent with her so called friend Aman sir,she had sepnt with those kids as a friend,things might have been different today.
Does that mean if she was more friendly,Nishi and Aarav had listened to her and not got married and the other involved into business is totally different point altogther.
2) Nachiket Khanna.
: He was never their for his kids and just provided matearlistic things for them,But they are more lucky becoz even though Pam may be a vamp,but she was their for the set of kids.She did what Ashaben failed to do.Yes,they missed their mom but she atleast gave some love to them.
What he lacks: He is a big fool,let me start accepting that.He beiieves in giving freedom to them and if they make mistakes,they will learn.Because of this,we can see what Ranbir has turned into,he has not realised it yet but im sure in the future it will hit him big time.He is lucky that his other two kids are matured and didnt took advantage of that freedom.They respect their dad (even Ranbir for that matter respects him).They dont complain like Ragini kids whenever anything goes wrong.
Coming to Nishi,for her their dad is superhero,because just one phone call made the whole difference.Her mom agreed for the marriage.I feel the big mistake Neil made as far as Aarav is concerned is that he should have never sent him to the Mud island Bunglow,and insted kept him with him for that whole night knowing how series the issue is.Its sad he hasnt realised it yet.
He bei\lieves that if a lie can save someone from hurt,its better to lie,but what he dont realise is that when it comes out in open,the hurt is more to that person for whose sake he lied.Its not the first time,it happened and i sont know how many more incidents are needed for him to realise this.
3) Nivedita Basu :'
What she lacks : She lacks everything but...
The first mistake they (creatives,nb,story writers ) made is to show Neil setteled in US not in Mumbai.They cant keep the leading actors apart for many days and hence they have to bring them in one frame and for that he has to be in India.She cant go leaving her baggage (mom,nani) to US for any reason,its always he who has to come here.How i really hoped they both are in the same city from day 1 and not meeting with each other for 15 years or even 9 months,then they had the scope to show faults at both set of kids.But now they are showing problems only in her set of kids and showing single woman in very bad taste.They are making Ragini villan in the eyes of her own kids.I really hope they will show problems with Khanna kids too and make them realise the importance of a mother in kids life.
After divorce,and once they divided the kids,they are still bothers and sisters and i can bet this can happen only in BT world,where an elder brother thinks to take revenge from his younger one by snatching the girl that he loves.Its totally stupid and crap.It never happenes anywhere else.Nb has murdered the term relationships in this show.Mother was faking her marriage at her daugters wedding,Father engagement was announced,Brothers are fighting for the same girl,There is no bonding between the parents and other set of kids,all this can happen only in BT world.
She used kids to unite and break the relationship of Neira.She still thinks they are lovers but not parents.This is the most immature way how she is showing 40 + parents behaving with each other and none of them ever thinking about the other set of kids for whom only they are responsible for bringing them on this earth.If they cant take care,who told them to produce them in the first place?(Sorry .no offense please)
i atleast hope now nb will wake up and will show the parents side from now on,If she still continue to show them fight like lovers instead of thinking about kids,i can say only one thing.
Nb Mata Ki Jai.
Infact i cant connect with Neira anymore.I took a break for few days,will follow from Monday just for RR and PK.Will forget the story at 11 pm and will watch the next epi again for RR and PK.
Anupamaa
