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.Gianna.

@.Gianna.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

I really don't know what to say... I started coming here only in February this year because that's when I was introduced to IPKKND... Initially I used to read the written updates and get on with my day but then I thought of interacting with people, thinking why not? It would be nice to know new people, interact with them, share thoughts and feelings... but it's just not a friendly atmosphere here (well, not always anyway). It feels like everyone wants to be heard over each other, people's own thoughts take precedence over others' and if someone even dares to contradict opinions they are instantly talked down by people. It's a bit disheartening to be honest. And this whole drama with fake stories about set visits left a very sour taste in my mouth. I understand that the virtual world is a very dicey one... not everyone is genuine and trusting someone implicitly is a hard thing to do. But if on one hand, people claim to be a virtual family here, why this deception? 😒

Having said that, I must admit not everyone's the same... some people are genuinely warm and nice. I like reading topics where people share their talents and are appreciated by others (ref: Pari's thread where she posted videos of her singing), spoilers, Rabba Ve discussions... they are positive, they make me smile and reading how everyone loves Arnav and Khushi as much as I do really makes my day! I am a hopeless romantic - just like a lot of other girls here. I do sincerely hope this forum goes back to being a nice friendly place where people feel welcome. For my part, I'll continue being friendly and appreciative of not just the people here but even the cast and crew of IPKKND who work very hard to give us a beautiful show to watch every night 😊

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N12345N

@N12345N

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Gurl, we're all hurt! But you know what? We should take the high road and just forgive and forget!!!
Guys! Just dance it away! Seriously! Just dance the problems away!
(here is where I would insert a funny dancing gif but can't coz i'm on my fone!)

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rima

@rima

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

i just read sunanina's post and am upset people can talk about another human being in such a way for reel life characters. reading ur thread makes me sadder. all i can say is that anonymity may help you lie to others but what about ourselves? one should remeber sajan re jhoot mat bolo, khuda ke paas jaana hai...

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kohli4ever

@kohli4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Its very true..

I was on this forum frm very close to the start of the show.. N truly the forum has just got worse.. Bashers increased.. N now lying bout meeting sarun was totally disgusting..

N a question if the mods r involved in writing bad comments bout other ppl.. Who do we turn to???

Cone on, I want my forum back! We all want our forum back!

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incandescent

@incandescent

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Pari, a very nice and positive thread. 👍🏼

I just found out about some of the bashing that took place and I am seriously shocked. it's a show for god's sake. Our opinions may vary but why make everything so personal ?

I am glad there are members like you who think maturely.

Edited by incandescent - 13 years ago

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Jyo.

@Jyo.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

I was going to make a post like this but then I got lazy 🤣

Thank youu Pari for making this post 🤗 MUCH needed! I was so upset for the past few days, what with the forum turning sour :( So glad to see a positive post. Hopefully, this place will be back to being happy again :D

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Anisha/Habiba Barun Sobti ;-)

@Anisha_91

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Sanju thank you for making this thread! I agree with you.

I really love this forum its my family. But lately we have had a lot of bashers and also people lying about meeting SaRun...WHAT THE!! seriously its unbelievable and that person (i won't name) should not have done that playing with out emotions that is totally wrong and that person does not have the right to do that. It is hurtful. Also...we know that obviously that person lied and hurt our feelings...A LOT! honestly i was really happy and over the moon and then it all got crushed...HOWEVER we shouldn't stoop to their level...cursing them? seriously?? Not done!!! what that person did was totally not right...completely WRONG!! BUT we shouldn't act as immature, we should deal with things in a more mature way, that way the forum will be a much more friendly place.

Hope this forum becomes like how it was once upon a time! Thanks once again Sanju for this post x

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Archana Natarajan

@archanan14

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#58

Thanks for this post Pari. I was quite upset at both the instances you have mentioned in your original post, but I guess sleep brought some calmness 😊. Hope we don't have repeats of such unpleasantness again, that's all.

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Bibliobibulus

@Bibliobibulus

Dazzler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#59

I usually don't care about bashers of the show or characters, I just avoid their threads.. If I go on them inadvertently, I don't comment on them and quickly leave..

But what's going on now, personal attacks! That's just unacceptable! Why would anyone say these things about someone? That too someone you've never even met? What kind of immature, schoolyard behaviour is this? Even 5 year olds have better manners.. It's very saddening..

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Sadie.Saxton

@Sadie.Saxton

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#60

Honestly, I think because this forum is number one, has been for a while, winning so many awards and now gaining even more popularity people are trying to bring the members down and tear them apart.