Pari very nice topic! None of what I am going to say is directed towards you. It's more like I am venting and loud thinking😊 Thank-you for this much needed topic👍🏼
I haven't been much active for a over a month now, and when I finally am able to return again, I want to keep myself away because of the current state. 😔
I have always noticed that as soon as ArHi clash (fight) or separate, so do members, which by the way is normal, in my opinion because some will feel more for Arnav while others for Kushi (like I have felt more for Kushi some days while more for Arnav the others) and I think that's the way CVs intend to have it. What becomes abnormal, in my opinion, is when people start humiliating and bashing each other over differences of opinion. We are bound to have different opinions and that's our right, however, some people do not get that part while some, on the other hand, take it as a threat as if their opinions are being challenged and react completely wrong.
Another surprising thing is that bashing posts increase in pages by the minute while actual discussions are lost in the pool of pages😕 Those that we claim to dislike we give so much attention, effort and time too and those that we claim to encourage die in the pool without their deserving views, likes and comments
If we all can remember that no one is here to harm the other, we all are friends, sharing AT LEAST one similarity, our like for ArHI, and that we can disagree kindly, the forum atmosphere will cool. I really think, if we can enjoy their (ArHi) happy moments, rejoice and celebrate together, we can get through their (ArHi) tough times together too, even if we do not always agree with each other!
One other and important thing which seems to not leave this forum is labeling members with terms such as feminist, Arnav/Kushi basher, hater, negative, etc. It just brings such bad taste to the environment and most likely upsets a member who may agree to not a very popular thinking and turns away silent members who may want to contribute to a healthy discussion. Why can we not speak our mind without being judged? Why is it hypocritical to praise Arnav one day and dislike his actions the other (or Kushi for that matter)? Why can't we love someone yet criticize them? Why can't we rile up on something we stand against?
That said, no matter what the reason, no matter the love and passion one has for IPKKND, bashing someone is NOT right. Nor is playing with someones feeling. They are as real as we make them, but we are as real as it can get and to hurt each other over them is something I think they (SaRun/ArHi) would object to too.
If you got this far, cheers🥳 I know it was a long rant, apologies. I needed to let it out😛
Teesha
Edited by Teesha - 13 years ago
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