Is it so demeaning to work in a canteen?

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SIZZZLER

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Posted: 13 years ago

#41

Totally agree with U. n about some posts... Who's care...they are behaving like 'Crying Baby'... They can't satisfied with anything... Unhein always problem hi rahegi... till the show end.

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mysterieux

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: sbk2
Loved your post! 👍🏼

You raise valid points.

EVen though she's now Mrs. Raizada, she's still the same Khushi who opened a sweets shop, tried to run her own business, gave tuitions to kids - unlike Payal she has an independent streak to her nature and does not hesitate to do any kind of work.

Yesterday I was worried what they will show about her...but today, after watching the episode I have a big smile on my face.

Plus she did not set up shop and sell food...she ended up distributing food to all the hungry office people.

Even Anjali was supportive of this...in fact she was the one who came up with that idea!

Sometimes I feel many people on the forum are more upset with Khushi than Arnav himself! The same had happened after the Desi Girl Dance incident...Arnav got over it within less than 5 minutes but many people in the forum were name-calling and criticizing Khushi for quite some time!

😆😆...did you not know that ASR can do no wrong😆

I love their characterizations both arnav and khushi...and todays episode made up for yesterdays lack of...😃... you have to admire her spirit to be independant instead of relying on her husband

YM@ I updated my post😃

Edited by mysterieux - 13 years ago

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zenjoe

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Posted: 13 years ago

#43

Well I guess its not abt looking down upon a work as demeaning...ya making food is her forte but then Mrs. Raizada should not be going there herself for supplying food! Also with the last scene it seems she planning on a catering biz in ASR's office...fine start off a business but why in his office! That too with all the comical undertone to it! Its embarassing for him.

Be financially independent with all means...but pls spare his office...she can start off at a small scale independently...or why not open a boutique..she has 'maharat haasil' in Gota work...remember she makes her own clothes...do dat!

Well thats my take on this...people may differ :)

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Cytherea

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Posted: 13 years ago

#44

I agree with you.. She is utilizing the skills she has.. I don't understand why any work is deemed as demeaning.. I live in Canada and in order to pay my university tuition, I work part time in a day care center. Does that make my work any less important? My best friend works in a restaurant, (and makes more money than I do in tips) does that mean she should be ashamed of what she does? It's sad when people start thinking like that.

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Roop

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Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Nice post

I totally agree with you. Every person deserves equal respect without discriminating regarding the type of work. If he or she is happy with their their work nobody has any right to comment. And if Khushi is working at AR i am all for it. 6 months marriage or life time she has equal rights as him. If he is boss, she is too.

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--Krish--

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Posted: 13 years ago

#46

i totally agree with you .. i do not see any problem in khushi serving food..

one of my HR managers wife has a catering business and sometimes she comes and serves the food .. i do not feel anything wrong in this.. i respect her even more for the humility which she has.. i feel it is the same case with khushi as well..

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canzasana

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

1000% agree with you no work is big or small as long you do it with dignity. canteen workers, channa wala , chai wala all people who work have same respect and right thaey are human and deserves same respect as big bushiness. GOD loves them most who work with their hand and only trust their skills and dont depend on free goods. that is why you call them self respected.

what khushi did is for her self respect, she dont have to pay her hubby back, but she want to do it and she did with dignity. one more thing about khushi that arnav love, but dont mention it. so people we need to grow up when golf of mexico was runied by oil, no big bussiness company 's engineers was able to solve the problem; it was a small town plumber who was able to provide a solution and save the golf of mexico. there are many more examples like that, we just need to open our eyes thats all.

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TeleFan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#48

There is nothing wrong in running a canteen or being a caterer what i dont get ia what the heck is happening to the script and characters. If she wants go make money and do a shop or sell jebis i would be cheering her on. I dont get this 300 rupee angle and she how is she planning to get the ingredients ? Use RM household stuff? And why start at his office? This plot leaves a lot to be desired and i have no clue where this is going? She wants him to get annoyed and throw her out and she wants to start her venture at his office selling go his workers? Where is the independence in that. I serioualy want the older kushi back when she worked for him her defiance had purpose. These episodes are so disjointed from one day to the next.

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@Yummymummy

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Posted: 13 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: zenjoe
Well I guess its not abt looking down upon a work as demeaning...ya making food is her forte but then Mrs. Raizada should not be going there herself for supplying food! Also with the last scene it seems she planning on a catering biz in ASR's office...fine start off a business but why in his office! That too with all the comical undertone to it! Its embarassing for him.
Be financially independent with all means...but pls spare his office...she can start off at a small scale independently...or why not open a boutique..she has 'maharat haasil' in Gota work...remember she makes her own clothes...do dat!
Well thats my take on this...people may differ :)

Well why should Mrs Raizaida not supply the food herself, is it because it is beneath her "status". Would it be ok for her if she was not Mrs Raizaida. That is exactly the point I am trying to make, not many people would have raised eyebrows if Khushi had supplied food to ASR's office when they were not married. but now suddenly she has got married to a rich person she has that "status" to conform too. If all jobs are equal why does it matter what she does. It does not and should not irrespective. People are judging her for all the wrong reasons.

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kitty25

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Posted: 13 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: Yummymummy

this is exactly what I am talking about. Just because you work in canteen, the status becomes low! For me every person who does his job honestly deserves equal respect irrespective of the money earned.
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we like it or not status exist in society...do you think doctor or lawyer will sit and eat with toilet cleaner or auto driver? both are hard working...then why are not doing it?

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