As we all know that we indians are very emotonally dependent people and things like relationships, trust and respect are very important for us.
So I am solely speaking from the point of view of an indian keeping myself in their situation and thinking how will I react if someday amidst all celebrations and hoopla, one of my family members comes with a varmala in his/her hand and stands married in front of me..
This is for all those people who are criticizing and questioning the raizadas' and guptas' reactions to arnav and khushi's marriage.
Guys!! Their reactions are 100% justified(ok! Anjali went a little overboard and OTT but the rest of them were totally justifiable)
Many of the forum members are saying that the families should not have reacted the way they reacted and should have been happier seeing them married after all arnav is like this only as in impulsive and unpRedictable and the guptas' have lost all rights to questions khushi after the whole shyam fiasco but but but can this really happen??
Don't forget guys that this is an indian show based on an indian family that too a lucknawi family where traditions and ethics are highly valued. And seeing ur grandson/brother/nephew and ur niece/daughter/sister standing married in front of you all of sudden without so much as informing any one is seriously a big shock and anyone in that situation would be heartbroken and angry and would have many questions in mind which was correctly portrayed in today's episode.
They cant just straightaway be ecstatic and jumping in joy seeing them married. Ok! As far as the raizada's are concerned they surely will be happy after their initial shock die down but coming back to the point, it takes time and patience for such a news to sink in and that's what was shown today. It was the initial shock and the very first reactions to the situation that forced them to behave the way they did.
Also the fact to keep in mind was that from naniji's and anjali's point of view, they know nothing of what transpired between the two and how did the marriage come about. So they must be thinking that " if chote wanted to marry khushi, he should have atleast told us. We already love her a lot and would have been joyous at their union so why did he take such a drastic step, why didn't he trust us for once and tell us what he wants?"
There is also a feeling of betrayal and lack of trust playing in anjali's mind because her baby brother whom she has always viewed as her son has gone ahead and taken such a huge step without even considering her. And the point of arnav bringing lavanya in his house without marriage does not play here bcoz ok! That was also a huge thing but marriage is seriously a very big step in indian families and taking it so frivolously will not go down anyone's throat so easily.
I will criticize them if they are angry with arnav and khushi later on also but for now I totally stand by their reactions and behaviour.
(this is my personal opinion guys, no offence to anybody)
