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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: EnasZ

actually yes ... i don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to know her past

it's not like he said i will only accept her after knowing ... he didn't even say anything hurtfull

maybe i didn't understand the scene well ... but i don't think there's nothing wrong with finding the truth out ... that is what annika is doing with mahi isn't it?

the fact remains that even if Annika's parents turn out to be as (without NKK) as sahil's parents were then it won't make a difference

plus u can't expect him to just erase the NKK like that from his head ... yet he was clear on the fact that annika matters more or else he wouldn't have sat in the pooja in the first place


she said for Shivaay, NKK matters more than her which is not true or else he wouldn't have returned in the first place so in my opinion nothing is wrong in that

plus shivaay has all rescources to find out about her parents and her family so y shouldn't he do it?


But don't you think he is being totally inconsiderate to her feelings. You want to find out about her past, ask her permission or something See if she is ready to tackle it, take it seriously. It's a big step..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: afghangirl

On the hand Anika is doing the same thing by doing DNA test.


she is doing it for shivaay not for herself. And as the clue indicated her that mahi might be related to him so that is why she is doing it. But SSO is doing because he wants to know it for himself as NKK matters to him.

See if he would have said that he wants to know it so that he can help annika to know her family then I could understand but it is not that he is doing it for annika
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: EnasZ


exactly ... if she can look for mahi's truth since it's connected to shivaay's so y can't he?


Mahi's truth was because of the same face and the heart condition. True, she didn't share this with Shivaay but I still feel its different. With the whole Mahi thing, it was an immediate impact. This guy literally came into their family and acted like an imposter.. tbh it is the whole family's right to find out where he came from.. and it's so weird no one apart from Annika questioned the same face and his intentions for entering OM. Annika's history on the other hand.. was kind off always there. It was dismissed. Apart from Shivaay, who lowkey stopped wondering about her NKK when he was being drawn to her, were interested in her NKK anyway.. so yeah.🥱
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: EnasZ

actually yes ... i don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to know her past

it's not like he said i will only accept her after knowing ... he didn't even say anything hurtfull

maybe i didn't understand the scene well ... but i don't think there's nothing wrong with finding the truth out ... that is what annika is doing with mahi isn't it?

the fact remains that even if Annika's parents turn out to be as (without NKK) as sahil's parents were then it won't make a difference

plus u can't expect him to just erase the NKK like that from his head ... yet he was clear on the fact that annika matters more or else he wouldn't have sat in the pooja in the first place


she said for Shivaay, NKK matters more than her which is not true or else he wouldn't have returned in the first place so in my opinion nothing is wrong in that

plus shivaay has all rescources to find out about her parents and her family so y shouldn't he do it?


In my POV annika is doing it for shivaay. Because as per annika, Mahi saved SSO & clues are saying that he might be related to SSO. So annika is trying to get to the root of problem.

There is nothing wrong if sso wants to know her past but the points he told his brothers makes it clear that he wants to dig it bcoz he wants to know her NKK as NKK matters to him. I agree Annika matters to him but for now NKK & annika are in equals. he can't leave any of them.
If he would have said or even thought that he wants to dig her past bcoz annika can get her family then it would make sense to me. he did not even say/or showed that he is doing because he wants to shut pinky. THe point is whatever pinky said today, he has the same questions and that is why he wants to know her past. If she turns out to be an illegitimate child then his internal battle will increase. I am not saying he will leave annika but at this point he has not accepted her, its just that he can not let her go.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Nargis--

Yes...I think he has a right to want to help her track down her background. Remember Annika alone did not have the means to be able to do it, but SSO has the means and the methods to find information on her background. And like someone above says, how different is it than Annika doing a DNA test on Mahi's blood to see if he is Shivvay's twin?? Woh bhi HAQ se kar rahi hai na??!!


In my POV it is different. Annika does not have any self motive for doing this but sso have.
did SSO actually thought for a second that he is doing it for Annika?? Annika is doing it for shivaay but shivaay is doing it for himself bcoz he is more interested in knowing her NKK not in the fact that he can help her in knowing her family. If he wants her to know her family then he can directly ask her and explain her that why he is doing so but he can not as somewhere deep down NKK is there
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JollyJabeen-JB


But she wanted to share it with Shivaay. Seeing his whole reaction to her mentioning Mahi maybe stopped her.. and she wants proof before she makes an accusation. In Annika's case, it was always implied she didn't have any NKK, something Shivaay must have known.. so the sudden resurgance in trying to find out about it's just.. mmm


Right, Annika did tell him but his reaction to it made her hide it from him otherwise she wouldn't have. SSO can directly asks to annika about her past why to check with sahil and not her because he can not let her go. He does not want her to know that he is digging her past because he may be thinking if she knows then she will leave.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sry but cant agree wid u here...wt ever shivaay is doing is right as her hubby...i mean here anika also try to find abt mahi doing DNA test... is it right ?

See here shivaay accepted her as his wife so he's just trying to find her WIFE BG if u see the epi shivaay clearly said that he wants to know his wife BG not anika...he also said that wtever the situation is...anika is not responsible for that...shivaay as SSO for him NKK is very imp but he doesn't care when it comes to his wife...here shivaay galat hota if he tried to find her past before accepting her as his wife but NO first he accepted her then trying to know her past...

If u see yest epi shivaay had no problem when he came to know that sahil parent's was that much poor (as he thought anika sahil has khoon ka rishta) by knowing this he told that he'll make sure ke anika ko wo respect mile jiski wo haqdaar hai ...this shows that he just wanna know about her past...it doesn't matter for him that her parent's is rich or poor ...

So yaa i think wt ever shivaay is doing is right as her husband...he's just trying to know her WIFE BG not anika 😃

Since as now shivaay trying to dig her past...i blv smthing is major coming up...not the illegitimate one but i think her past must be related to oberois as shivaay is instigating...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I might be the odd one out ...But I am with Shivaay at this..!!
Though his soch is totally WRONG...!

But he is doing it for HER more than HIM..!!

He saw her broke down in his arms and yesterday her breaking voice clearly sent shivers down him..!

She said I keep fighting... And Shivaay can't see her fight all alone the entire life...!!

He can't let her keep fighting and breaking, so he is finding out...

He right now probably thinks...She would obvio have parents name ...he is just finding out that..!!

The thing is that this mad man doesn't realize... " It just doesn't matter any more..!


So mine is neither a YES nor a NO..!

:)
Edited by annikaa - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: B_Blunt

Sry but cant agree wid u here...wt ever shivaay is doing is right as her hubby...i mean here anika also try to find abt mahi doing DNA test... is it right ?

See here shivaay accepted her as his wife so he's just trying to find her WIFE BG if u see the epi shivaay clearly said that he wants to know his wife BG not anika...he also said that wtever the situation is...anika is not responsible for that...shivaay as SSO for him NKK is very imp but he doesn't care when it comes to his wife...here shivaay galat hota if he tried to find her past before accepting her as his wife but NO first he accepted her then trying to know her past...

If u see yest epi shivaay had no problem when he came to know that sahil parent's was that much poor (as he thought anika sahil has khoon ka rishta) by knowing this he told that he'll make sure ke anika ko wo respect mile jiski wo haqdaar hai ...this shows that he just wanna know about her past...it doesn't matter for him that her parent's is rich or poor ...

So yaa i think wt ever shivaay is doing is right as her husband...he's just trying to know her WIFE BG not anika 😃

Since as now shivaay trying to dig her past...i blv smthing is major coming up...not the illegitimate one but i think her past must be related to oberois as shivaay is instigating...



@bold I agree! apart from trying to find out for his own beliefs, he is also doing it to shut everyone's mouth up about her once and for all. Today Pinki ranted to Shivaay about their children questioning Anika's lineage (so dumb really!) and Annika lamented to Shivaay about her struggles and fights to survive the brutal world.

Obviously he'd want to end that uncertainty about Annika by trying to find some answers. And all this only after he has assured her his unwavering support.

Look at him holding her lovingly through all this! He's her biggest support system and in his head wants to end that one insecurity she has about herself. As a husband, he has a right to do that!

He's not wrong here.
Edited by DAMZLS - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: DAMZLS




@bold I agree! apart from trying to find out for his own beliefs, he is also doing it to shut everyone's mouth up about her once and for all. Today Pinki ranted to Shivaay about their children questioning Anika's lineage (so dumb really!) and Annika lamented to Shivaay about her struggles and fights to survive the brutal world.

Obviously he'd want to end that uncertainty about Annika by trying to find some answers. And all this only after he has assured her his unwavering support.

Look at him holding her lovingly through all this! He's her biggest support system and in his head wants to end that one insecurity she has about herself. As a husband, he has a right to do that!

He's not wrong here.

😊 yes this is what i m trying to say that he want to shut everyone's mouth...wt ever he's doing is not just only for him but also for anika his wife...the way he holding her today so lovingly clearly shows that he can't see her like this...she's his taaqat strength but right now she's broken from inside...holding her like this shows no matter what but he'll never let her go anywhere...he will not leave her in future so I blv he's right here 😃 😳

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