What is truly wrong with IMMJ 2 - My Two Cents - Page 5

Originally posted by: amritat

I dont think one has to be a flagbearer of self-respect or even feminism, for that matter, to understand that attempts of murder/hanging/locking in a coffin, etc are not healthy in a marriage...not even in the forced kind.

Given the number of times Riddhima has gone through all this...by now, she should understand the pattern and realize her true place in VR mansion.

for that she should in the mental state where she feels she don't deserve that. Currently she is not in that state. today if vansh will shoot her point blank that too she will accept as she has passed that verdict of guilt on herself.

Originally posted by: mesravz

Wow Gharwali you rocked 👏👏👏

you written up same thing on Insta? Or some one copied it from here to insta. See below link
https://www.instagram.com/p/CJys5biJDs2/?igshid=1cxxauhrkz6yq
I just now sent that insta link to mamata in message

Someone did. I didnt...😆

Originally posted by: amritat

Someone did. I didnt...😆

Omg these people

Let me send this link

Originally posted by: Roudy1

@bold: Exactly amrita, Riddhima not giving back is the man issue here. That is magnifying vansh characterial traits. Where is the Riddhima shown in episode 14? The girl who took a stand for herself, for a minute time at least spoke back to vansh as well as was ready to withdraw from the mission laid by her ex bf.

that time she was not on guilt trip for the murder of one person and destruction of other.

Originally posted by: phoenix27

for that she should in the mental state where she feels she don't deserve that. Currently she is not in that state. today if vansh will shoot her point blank that too she will accept as she has passed that verdict of guilt on herself.

Exactly!

That is precisely my issue with her. This is why she needs to go out of the mansion. They need space.

Originally posted by: amritat

Exactly!

That is precisely my issue with her. This is why she needs to go out of the mansion. They need space.

Yes she needs to get out of the mansion but if we expect her to behave like a normal girl at this moment i dont think its possible as she can't break her character at this time.

Originally posted by: Roudy1

@bold: Exactly amrita, Riddhima not giving back is the man issue here. That is magnifying vansh characterial traits. Where is the Riddhima shown in episode 14? The girl who took a stand for herself, for a minute time at least spoke back to vansh as well as was ready to withdraw from the mission laid by her ex bf.

Because she was in the right then. Her strength came from that fact. Her actions now are guided by a sense of guilt and a desperate need to salvage her marriage which is in shambles because of her (mainly). Vansh is angry and irrational right now, and though it doesn't justify any of the things he is doing, but if she also adopted the same approach how would that help? Also, I don't think R clarifying anything would work because V neither listen to her nor believe her. The truth in its entirety should come from K, IMO.

Originally posted by: phoenix27

are we talking about first car scene. i don't think he meant first love i guess he meant falling in love at first sight.

He's just sad that he's not her first love but KABIR is, ragini being his first love and him doing tatto for her, lying to wife and caring for ex (for whatever reasons) doesn't count OK!

Beautiful post Amrita👍🏼👏

I agree, they need a good female writer...and if they already have one then they need to work on their writing skills....

Abhi to audience na story se connect kr pa rahi hain na characters se..Story me bohot saare loopholes hain...Agar koi statring se episodes dekhe to pata chalta hai ki story me kitna disconnect hai...

Characters me consistency hi nahi hai....

Revenge is inevitable but makers are not showing valid reasons to justify revenge....aaj ke episode ke according vo sirf jealousy ke kaaran aise behave kr raha hai...

Riddhima apne liye apni self respect ke liye stand nahi le rahi...Starting ke episodes aur current episodes ki Riddhima me bohot difference hai...

Maine to ab umeed chhod di ki mafia Vansh aur physiotherapist Riddhima dehkne milenge..

Originally posted by: amritat

Disclaimer:

1. This is purely my POV.

2. I understand the meaning of "dark love story" 3. I do not expect any mushy nonsense in this show.

4. I do not expect Vansh to behave like Naitik from Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hain.

5. I understand that love makes one submissive at times.

She is not pointing out these cardinal points:

• 1. Vansh always had a doubt on her being a spy...for which he treated her with so much suspicion from the beginning.
• 2. The manner of Vansh's proposal and their marriage. It was not love marriage.
• 3. Vansh was NOT exactly kind to her either in the initial days of their marriage.
• 4. Vansh too has a past...his first love/crush/infatuation Ragini. He even made a tattoo in his hand!
• 5. He never trusted Riddhima but expected blind trust in return.
• 6. He was never very transparent and honest with her just like she wasnt with him.
• 7. He took care of his ex for 3 years, lied about her to his wife...even secretly went to meet her (for whatever reason) but Riddhima never made a fuss about it or threw tantrums about him being unfaithful.
• 8. He kept mouthing big words of promises to protect her but almost always condoned her tormentors again and again.
• 9. She might have betrayed him about Ragini...but her intention was never to harm him.

But the problem I see with Vansh's behaviour right now has less to do with half-knowledge and more to do with hypocrisy.

Right now, Vansh is behaving like he was an innocent, gullible man who was seduced by a femme fatale named Riddhima only to find out she is a liar.

Come on, Vansh! When you married her...you knew EXACTLY what you were getting into! At least Riddhima has the excuse of being a homeless, orphan who was emotionally blackmailed by her lover into this marriage, but you?

You, my dear Vansh are a rich businessman with all the right resources to wrench out information if you wanted to. Then why play victim now?

But it is not Vansh but Riddhima who pisses me off more in this context.

She too is condoning and overlooking all of Vansh's fallacies and putting the whole blame on herself.

I understand she in in love...we all have been in love at some point of our lives and know what it does to us.

But this recurring theme of levying all accusation on the female lead where she silently accepts it all, without the hero having to give any justification/redemption for his own actions is kind of...glaring.

Ekta's shows were horrible, but at least her heroines like Tulsi, Parvati, etc stood up for their self-respect...even against the men they loved more than their life.

@ bold - exactly - writers forgot the plot which they have started this story with..... !!!!!!!!!!!!!