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Posted: 9 years ago
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Today being a Woman's Day... WHY this question is asked only to women. ??

Women are never allowed to ask if the man is a virgin or not ?

And if we can accept a man who comes into a relationship with experience than WHY always a double standard in this day and age to ask a woman if she is pure or not.😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

<font size="2">Is she orisn't she is not the question...</font>

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<font size="2">An Indian man has fallen in love with a widow knowing she might have slept with her previous husband or not...but still loves her with all his unconditional love.</font>
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<font size="2">That is what is commendable about this show.</font>


well said dolly 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

<font size="2">Is she orisn't she is not the question...</font>

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<font size="2">An Indian man has fallen in love with a widow knowing she might have slept with her previous husband or not...but still loves her with all his unconditional love.</font>
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<font size="2">That is what is commendable about this show.</font>



Well said and I don't think that this should not be discussed. Kanak has always been taunting Dhani for it when she suggested that Viplavs attraction is physical and even during her ashram stay she bought it up . This may very well be the reason that DT and KT think her to be unfit for their son . A Virgin bride is an implicit expectation of any family.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

<font size="2">Today being a Woman's Day... WHY this question is asked only to women. ??</font>

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<font size="2">Women are never allowed to ask if the man is a virgin or not ?</font>
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<font size="2">And if we can accept a man who comes into a relationship with experience than WHY always a double standard in this day and age to ask a woman if she is pure or not.😡</font>


...according to me virginity is equal for boys and girls...it is as important to a boy as to a girl...(if a girl is forced or raped I believe she is still virgin...virginity is so much connected to ones mind)...if a boy expects a virgin girl...he should be also one...our vipu is a gem...he has nothing to do with my lines...my former lines are just my general views regarding society...
Edited by pearl82 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Irrespective of she is or not viplav considers her pure. They are connected to each other by mind and soul. There is nothing more beautiful than such a thought. Imagine if he says something and doesn't mean it then his words mean absolutely nothing.
It does take a strong and mature mind to develop such thoughts. It of course applies to both the genders.
It is in our mind which considers something which is pure or unpure.
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearl100

Irrespective of she is or not viplav considers her pure. They are connected to each other by mind and soul. There is nothing more beautiful than such a thought. Imagine if he says something and doesn't mean it then his words mean absolutely nothing.

It does take a strong and mature mind to develop such thoughts. It of course applies to both the genders.
It is in our mind which considers something which is pure or unpure.

Well said swathi👏👏 you people write beautifully...Exactly my thoughts.😊


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Posted: 9 years ago
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You know respect is earned koi cheen ke le nahi sakte. Respect tab aata hai jab hamari soch acchi ho. Among all the members of tripathi family dadi badi maa and durga ji ki sonch achi hai. Magar tripuari DT se influence hua hi woh dikh bhi raha hai...Thought procees indirectly or directly develops a character. Eventually that's the most important thing for any human. Jab character hi nahi raha toh kuch bhi nahi raha.

Yeh tripathi log jitna significance paiso ko de rahe hai agar unke paise ek hadsa me chala gaya woh vaapis laa bhi sakte hai magar unka charitra vapis kabhi bhi nahi laasakte hai. Thats why i love dadis upbringing of viplav... he treats a human as a human...Its a pity that kanak is his mother its more like dadi is his mother. Sach kaha kisine paida karne wala se palne wala mahan hai😊
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearl100

You know respect is earned koi cheen ke le nahi sakte. Respect tab aata hai jab hamari soch acchi ho. Among all the members of tripathi family dadi badi maa and durga ji ki sonch achi hai. Magar tripuari DT se influence hua hi woh dikh bhi raha hai...Thought procees indirectly or directly develops a character. Eventually that's the most important thing for any human. Jab character hi nahi raha toh kuch bhi nahi raha.


Yeh tripathi log jitna significance paiso ko de rahe hai agar unke paise ek hadsa me chala gaya woh vaapis laa bhi sakte hai magar unka charitra vapis kabhi bhi nahi laasakte hai. Thats why i love dadis upbringing of viplav... he treats a human as a human...Its a pity that kanak is his mother its more like dadi is his mother. Sach kaha kisine paida karne wala se palne wala mahan hai😊

Good post👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearl100

You know respect is earned koi cheen ke le nahi sakte. Respect tab aata hai jab hamari soch acchi ho. Among all the members of tripathi family dadi badi maa and durga ji ki sonch achi hai. Magar tripuari DT se influence hua hi woh dikh bhi raha hai...Thought procees indirectly or directly develops a character. Eventually that's the most important thing for any human. Jab character hi nahi raha toh kuch bhi nahi raha.


Yeh tripathi log jitna significance paiso ko de rahe hai agar unke paise ek hadsa me chala gaya woh vaapis laa bhi sakte hai magar unka charitra vapis kabhi bhi nahi laasakte hai. Thats why i love dadis upbringing of viplav... he treats a human as a human...Its a pity that kanak is his mother its more like dadi is his mother. Sach kaha kisine paida karne wala se palne wala mahan hai😊


Agree Swathi..Respect is definitely earned and fair and progressive thinking is what we all try to achieve.

This show has shown how old and traditional prejudices harm women that for no fault of theirs have lost their husbands and how even the Maha Pundit with his narrow view does more harm than good.

The Tripathi's have used and abused their position in the society by stealing from the Mandir and in the name of God have used religion to intimidate people, and have created a class of their own and then have the temerity to look down at others that are trying to live a decent and hard working life.

Exposing this to the viewers in an entertainment format should open few eyes to the fake
leadership. But I doubt it will completely change their way of thinking.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you pearl ji...We all have seen the movie PK right ... in the name of religion so many crimes are committed...like you know it has become a business for few, dharm ke naam pe log kuch bhi kar sakte hai, caste system has developed, it might have ruined many people's lives we are unaware of it, tum choti caste ke ho tumhe yeh nahi milskta jaise ki education, medical facilities, food etc woh toh insaan hi nahi hue na kyu?? kyunki unke paas paise nahi hai isliye...Dashrath ko ek thappad marne ka mann karta hai uske paas power aur aanaitik roop se istamal karta hai.

I so so wish that viplav teaches him a very big lesson. Inspite of his so called love how many injustice he has done to so many people. That would be the biggest shock to him and it will serve him right.

Thoughts will change or not it definitely takes time and effort...if one person starts implementing it others may try and follow that. Gandhiji jab non violence follow kar rahe the tab waqt laga logo ko unke path par chalne keliye.

People should oppose injustice done to anyone ... for example when dhani was about to be burnt alive only suvarna, safed gang and viplav came forward. If people start questioning like raj laksmi then there may be a possibility of people to ponder over the question that makes a tiny weny bit of a difference but it is better than not making any difference.
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago

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