Does pain give you a right to cheat and destroy others life?

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Ecrivain

@Ecrivain

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

@TM I would not call ur POV wrong cos it's a perspective n perspectives are never right nor wrong ..I will just say that somewhere many people have connected with sahir while some have not n it's just how one sees the circumstances

I will Just say tht sahir for me WILL ALWAYS be the hero ..for one he has been open abt his doings , both right or wrong , even when he kept Zeenat as a secret his mother zaki n KA, everyone knew abt it . BESIDES I FEEL THERE IS A DIFFERENCE IN HOLDING BACK N LYING

..for instance sahir held back the Zeenat thing but told ARZOO abt it upfront ON HIS OWN ...he did not lie abt it ..period

Second ARZOO was NOT molested cos of him ..she was going out on her own n she is BIG a girl ..if she decides to troll the city alone at night ..how is sahir responsible for her ???

Yes I agree sahir has been grey in his doings ..but tell me isn't it natural ..HUMANS ARE FLAWED n so is he ..INFACT if u come to think of it Nausheen , ARZOO. Zaki, are ALL the more flawed than him ..atleast he knows wht he wants and if he is wrong he apologises or tries to redeem n correct ..others don't even do tht ...

Lastly zaki NEVER stood a chance to sahir whether he was married or not ..zaki is a sly fellow n a creep to me ..heels taking advantage of vulnerable ARZOO ...so sahir is anyway better than him

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Mariya Khan

@ShaitaanKiKhala

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

What Sahir is doing right now is just ridiculous
Till now i I tried to understand his behavior and his attitude but yesterday he crossed all the limits ..OK he had bad past but that doesn't give him any right to destroy others people's life 🤔

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Spunkyrutz

@Spunkyrutz

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: countryapple
Hi,
I was seeing the reruns and thinking if a person gets hurt(no matter how bad) gives him a right to destroy others persons life?I mean no matter how the drama unfolds, Sahi's character cannot be justified.

At least he should have stopped when Arzoo got physically assaulted because of him. She already saw a lot in her life from his father, at the most she dreamt for a good life partner. The ulgliet virtue of SAC's character is he knows all of it and still went on with his plans. He also knows that whole her family is solely dependent on Arzoo.

Even though the Cvs give reasons to justify and a redemption track, the character cannot be called as a hero. Arzoo's life is in a situation that she cannot love Sahir even though the time passes. She always considers herself as his second wife and when his first wife returns she will definitely leave him after seeing what her mom went through after her dad got a second wife. SAC left her life in a question mark where she cannot think of her future aside from her family.

No self punishment clears the sins he had committed.

Hi country apple...I can see where your reasoning comes from...but I think I agree with Soap1. He did it for love. He probably knows too but is in complete denial.

I think the tag of Shark is very apt indeed. He is a shrewd businessman and I think he has taken some very big calculated risks. The egg allergy thing for instance...he knew the consequences of it so he was prepared. The situation could have swung both ways but then that was the risk that he took. At least it was a calculated move with a fallback (injection at hand), so I wouldn't say that she was in danger of losing her life. He probably would never have played such a move if he knew that death was inevitable.

About the cab incident, no one but the perpetrator is to be blamed. Doesn't matter what the circumstances were that lead to such a situation,but at such times everyone has choices to make and the choice to force yourself on someone is the perpetrators and perpetrators alone!

Yes..Aarzoo has had a tough life and karma is a bitch! But then then whose life is a bed of roses anyway! Am glad that Aarzoo is shown as a fighter and a survivor.

Aarzoo will be the second wife true. But if Zeenat was the right one for Sahir then am sure he would have waited for her... Also I believe there's nothing wrong in finding happiness a second time around. Aarzoo's situation is not the same like that of her mothers. Their father left them for a reason and again made the choice to neglect them for that reason. Here even though Aarzoo is the second wife, she is Sahir's true humsafar, his soulmate and destined to be with him...

Sigh!!! at least that's what I think...but knowing serialdom...yahaan kucch bhi oh sakta hai !

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Shakti

@photofreak

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

There is no way sahir accepts zeenat... I feel she ditched him... He challenged himself post tat accident I think and when he got to know that chances of her recovery r high he rushed in deals...

He will stick to arzoo he will prove his painful past and she will change... ... Zenat might play along with kurti n anam but sahir will not leave arzoo..whatever he did he never wanted go lose such a loyal girl as he is a victim of disloyality un his personal life... To make loyality a space in his life he royally ripped the situations...

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Manali

@I_LoveYou_Kanha

Rocker

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

I agree with u...I knw he loves her but he chose all the wrong way to get her...he can get her n her love with other right ways...but cvs has shown him like a villian...isse to batter hota ki wo zaki ko sahi m wrong dikhate har tarah se...Aarzoo ki life ko to khilona bana diya h...I hope aage kuch sensible track dikhaye cvs.

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Nabila

@bila_a

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

either way people can try defending sahirs actions but the answer is pretty obvious which is no, people dont have the right they can hurt themselves all they want which clearly sahir is doing but dont drag others into which sahir is also doing, his crossed major lines already. theres nothing wrong in accepting the fact that what sahir is doing and has done was not right or justified. whether it may be for love/hate/business deal or all of it

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sanjana

@sanjana

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

When Sahir doing is justified for love why not Zaki try the same way. Why is he being called as creep. If Zaki is seen as pressurizing Aarzoo at the vulnerable moment Sahir is not a lesser devil . He pressurized her like hell in the name of saving her. No way Sahir's behavior is justified. They have ruined his character like anything.

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vandana

@VandyP

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

first and foremost...sahir was not responsible for her molestation

secondly the eg allergy u r talking abt...and the whole risking her life thing...

lemme just say...egg allery is the mildest form of allergy...and the effects r just limited to rashes on the skin...nausea..vomitting etc...

anaphylaxis...is the rarest of rare symptoms in egg allery and it generally occurs in one in a million case of egg allery

sahir was that one in a million case...and wen he gave that egg to aarzoo he had no idea aarzoo was in the same condition as him.

yes he definitely took a risk...but he had no idea abt how fatal it could be for aarzoo...and the moment he realised it...he injected her with epinephrine

thats y wen he talked to himself...he said he knew nothing would happen to aarzoo...and he also said he had no idea aarzoo's condition was the same as him...

if u notice...her data mentioned fish allergy too...sahir could've ordered fish...but he did not know the consequences of it...so he chose something that he had control of.

its definitely pushing himself beyond everything...but...i think it was this turning point in his game...his panick and his concern for aarzoo...it made him realise he had lost his heart to her...and this is wen guilt started setting in...which ultimately led him to confessing his truth infront of her.

sahir realised he could no longer put up this facade infront of aarzoo...so he bared it all infront of her...so much so that she started hating him...

but wen he saw she was all set to spoil her life just to spite him...wen he saw aarzoo was marrying zaki...a guy who he knows will cheat on her...he had no option but to get her out of the mess...

sahir loves aarzoo...and so does aarzoo...and doesn't matter if she hates him for now...one day she will definitely see things beyond thats shown by sahir abt him

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vandana

@VandyP

Trailblazer

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: sanjana
When Sahir doing is justified for love why not Zaki try the same way. Why is he being called as creep. If Zaki is seen as pressurizing Aarzoo at the vulnerable moment Sahir is not a lesser devil . He pressurized her like hell in the name of saving her. No way Sahir's behavior is justified. They have ruined his character like anything.

u can justify zaki?

go ahead do it

fact is...he is a creep

a guy who has the audacity to emotionally blackmail a girl in her most vulnerable moment...is definitely a creep

a guy who proposes a girl as she is recovering from a rape attempt...and wen she says she needs time to think...he immediately goes to butter up her mom...is no way justifiable...

where did sahir pressurise her in the name of saving her ???

i'm sure aarzoo did not marry sahir out of pressure...

she needs sahir's money...and she is marrying him...

u think sahir's character is ruined...for me...he is the most justified character in the show...

he loves aarzoo...and aarzoo loves him...and no way will he see her destroying her life...

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dakshaavi

@dakshaavi

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

I don't support sahir's action here but I do feel his intentions are not wrong . It's arzoo who does know that sahir truly loves her but we viewers are always given glimpse of his love towards arzoo.

Ok now we have seen a lot of movies where the hero does things whic app rears to be wrong but his I tension are not for ex...kick , the gentle man ...Where the hero is always portrayed as grey .

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