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Posted: 10 years ago
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Its better you guys keep harshad out of it ... you are free to discuss the merits or demerits of a scene ... you can have whatever opinion you like about Sahir as it is a fictional character ... but actors have characters to play ... they are not the characters themselves ... they are given a script and they have little choice and even when they do they have to evaluate it in context of scene and script first ... else tomorrow if someone raises questions like these about your favourite actors don't complain!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think we should give Sahir ideas on how to make himself heard by Arzoo...if telling five times to leave and showing his anger and the fact that he is upset and would prefer that she leaves is not enough I don't know what he should do..
God help people who have such guests at home...I don't think the host would stop just at saying these things...they would be probably thrown out😕.

If Arzoo hadn't ignored hs polite requests she would never have been in that situation...period.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: indranigupta

To say the least, the line was distasteful and shocking. Arzoo was already positioned in bed and here was the male protagonist strategically standing over her sprawled body and threatening her with the worst form of verbal intimidation. That Arzoo is allowed to enter anyone's and everyone's room at any point of time should not be an excuse to say such rotten things.

Its almost like you are wearing short dresses so I can rape you.
I f he has any problems with her he should discuss it with his mom, who allowed it in d first place. A primetime show should be more careful with these depictions of gendered violence.
Why, oh why, did Harshad agree to mouth this line? Pathetic🤢


give me one instance yesterday where there was anything in sahir's body language that suggests what u r suggesting in this post!

u won't find any!

had sahir had that mentality of "u wear short dresses..i rape u" in mind...he would not have been in the position he is right now...where his own pa feels free and safe to work with him in the most shortest dress possible...incase u r wondering i'm talking abt linda...

as women we all know..we do have a sixth sense which alarms us of any kind of unwanted looks..touch or advances...we do not have to experience it on first hand to understand what a person's intentions are!

the fact that aarzoo felt free to sleep in the jungle beside sahir...the fact that she felt free to walk in his room irrespective of what time of the day it is...speaks a lot of her opinion of sahir...
its clear sahir has never given her any sort of ideas...witth regards to any sexual attraction from his side...
he had problems with aarzoo staying in his house...he clearly showed his displeasure with regards to it...

and since u know so much abt "strategical positions"..may i ask u what made u think sahir had any such intentions???
ifatall any of ur "suggestive gendered violence" was being shown...sahir would not have stopped the moment aarzoo sat on the bed... he could've easily pinned her down on the bed...but incase u failed to notice...sahir had no intention of moving further...infact he did not even have an idea that aarzoo was moving backwards towards his bed...the moment he saw it...he stopped short in his steps!


as for hc mouthing these lines r concerned...i guess nads said it all!
Edited by -vandy- - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dolly_11




or maybe Arzoo wants him in her bed😆

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yupp..quite possible😆
didn't u see how she fell on the bed and closed her eyes in anticipation?..expecting sahir to do something on those lines to her😆

but all her expectations came crashing down😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -vandy-


Vandy...now I am actually seeing things in a clearer light...THATS what it was😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri


it was exactly the same scenario pri

infact i feel aarzoo has been expecting this since day 1😆


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettypri

I think we should give Sahir ideas on how to make himself heard by Arzoo...if telling five times to leave and showing his anger and the fact that he is upset and would prefer that she leaves is not enough I don't know what he should do..

God help people who have such guests at home...I don't think the host would stop just at saying these things...they would be probably thrown out😕.

If Arzoo hadn't ignored hs polite requests she would never have been in that situation...period.


i read a line today, qouting it out " sometimes i pity men, we women are really horrible at times "...

thats it Pri.. its amazing how we stand up being the feministic ideals to defend when a female is being wronged, but when she is on the other side of the curtain we chose to ignore the faults.. Sahir is not her cup of tea atleast now, and he obviously hasnt given her rights to rule over him, and she actually dictates him and even does stubborness to make him do his daily activities , like WTH ???


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tamsham

As I saw the scene Sahir was lost in his thoughts of Zeenat who from the FB scene we can gather was materialistic & always put Sahir down... He is still thinking about her when Aarzoo comes in & she is doing all the things that maybe his wife never did... Looking after him, managing his routine... He wants her to get out of the room because he is attracted to her & he likes what she is doing but since his past baggage is so much he is conflicted & wants to push her away... He asks her to go but Aarzoo is fully committed on being good at what she does... She is thinking he wants me to go because he thinks I will mess it up so she persists... Sahir can't handle this ( because he wants her to stay also but also wants her to go) so he says that biwi line to scare her & break her heart... If you think this was just like that dream sequence dinner table scene... He is fighting his feelings for her, she is affecting him so much so he reacts like this. I quite liked the scene... It was quite bold, edgy & new.



The moment i watched that scene i knew that ppl are going to bash the writers for it but people who actually are good at analyzing people's mental state can actually enjoy that scene ..I loved it to the core..No wonder why Arzoo wants to dig deep and find out the real Sahir..I sitting here at home as an audience has fallen for him..won;t blame Arzoo for actually following Sahir all the time😆😳
Edited by dolly_11 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dolly_11



It didnt give the safedi ki jhankar types vibes..
and the way she started crying and got scared..she knew what he was trying to say




Ya..,agree Dolly_11. His stance was not at all playful. To me it looked like she nagged him so much that he lost it completely. That biwi banne ki koshish dialogue was ok but the last one about biwi and shauhar was completely uncalled for. Think that was just to scare her and get rid of her rather than to threaten to act on it.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshu.sundas


i read a line today, qouting it out " sometimes i pity men, we women are really horrible at times "...

thats it Pri.. its amazing how we stand up being the feministic ideals to defend when a female is being wronged, but when she is on the other side of the curtain we chose to ignore the faults.. Sahir is not her cup of tea atleast now, and he obviously hasnt given her rights to rule over him, and she actually dictates him and even does stubborness to make him do his daily activities , like WTH ???




Sahir is not her cup of tea ?
i don't agree with this..
He has beaten himself like so mercilessly just because he is attracted towards her
It's love pure love and its just flowing out like a fountain..it's hards for him to control

and Arzoo she is in the same boat i guess
Edited by dolly_11 - 10 years ago

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