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I see a lot of people question arzoo's decision to stay back despite all the insult ... well here is why 😆
Pyar is all about pagalpan ... you think a person would knowingly give themselves away to anyone? Loosing control on who they are? Sometimes even leaving everything for one person? ... yet we see people do it ... because love is pagalpan ... you have no control over your feelings ... it just happens and when it happens it makes you be-parwa from everything else!
What makes SaAz different is that their relationship is not about outer looks or physical attraction ... he was drawn to her innocence and she is drawn to his pain ... and now he sees in her someone who cares enough for his pain something he has not been familiar with in years or may be ever ... and she can't help but wonder why he is so alone, so much in pain! ... There has not been a single scene where they stared into each other's eyes the lovey dovey way ... where the body touches make them go oh and ah ... where his eyes looked at her with lust or where she looked at him with desire ... yet they are drawn to each other like magnets ...just like sahir, arzoo is smitten by love ... their relationship is of pain and innocence ... and if you look closely you will know arzoo is not the only innocent one here ... Sahir too had all the innocence in the world till it was all taken away from his life by one woman who is now in coma ... as we have it love does not care for what non sense kurti apa speaks ... or what the world would have to say ... it just loves ... Arzoo is drawn by his pain and her love won't let her go until she knows what its' all about! Love does not know things like ego or self respect ... Arzoo is able to see Sahir beyond his exterior ... she has realized his insults do not mean a bad heart but a good one covered with darkness ... she wants to know the cause of his darkness ... she may not have realized yet that she is in love ... but its all too obvious she is! Sahir on his part has done and still doing what he can to push her away ... to stop her ... he too knows all to well where this will lead ... but the more he tries to push her way the more her side of love pushes her closer ... neither is to be blamed for falling in love ... ye hona hi tha!
P.S: what i am loving about the show (despite all the complaints i have and will continue to have 😛) is that build up to their story is not based on physical beauty or appearance, steamy romance ... or long eyes locks ... but PAIN ... dard ka rishta makes for most beautiful of love stories ... and my favourite ones too ... lets see if this becomes one too
I too have problems with characterization of Arzoo at times ... but here i do understand her!
Not everything is about women strength or feminism ... some things are to be seen in the context of story ... she is not staying in the house because of material needs (like zahra) she is staying there for her love ... and in the context of her love kurti apa does not matter, she is a nobody!!! The only one that matters is Sahir and his pain!
P.S: what i am loving about the show (despite all the complaints i have and will continue to have 😛) is that build up to their story is not based on physical beauty or appearance, steamy romance ... or long eyes locks ... but PAIN ... dard ka rishta makes for most beautiful of love stories ... and my favourite ones too ... lets see if this becomes one too
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