Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 5. - Page 55

Originally posted by: Dimagnehihai

Thank god Virat didn't react like other version

he was so calm and composed and hear everything that sai was saying with tears

virat is highly emotional guy

Wow forum is on fire today

2/15 episode rating

3

Episode was good

Points tht were good for sairat scene even if it was a fight we still got to see them and this for long 😊.

Pulkit give a hint to sai was rly good I just hope sai brings him and devyani together

Virat not liking sai going out for lunch with someone else but him ❤️ the way he said I will not let you go he rly cares for her 👍

I seriously still don’t understand why the cv’s don’t make Sai wear her night clothes as regular day wear. It’s so much more practical considering she’s a college student. I really liked the light brown kurtha she was wearing during yesterday’s confrontation between her and virat.

I don’t think virat saying she has “guroor” and “ego” was right. Yeah, the way she said was rude and tbh, if I was virat, even I would get hurt. But I also understand where she’s coming from. She was really hurt by the family that time and it could have been avoided if Virat had told them that she was also going to the trip. One thing I did agree with Virat saying is that if she goes on with her behavior, she will one day end up all alone. We all know that Sai chooses to battle every fight her way but sometimes, if you end up choosing the wrong one, you might end up hurting and distancing yourself from others who really do genuinely care for you. Of course, in the show, Sai will always have Aai, Shivani, and Virat to support her but I feel in real life, people like Sai can unknowingly hurt the people close to them. Even though I really like and appreciate people like Sai who are very transparent and straightforward.

Finally, someone said what I was thinking the whole time during that Pakhi didi drama. How is the whole family okay with a BHABHI and DEVAR going alone together but not a WIFE accompanying her HUSBAND? Sai should have honestly said that in front of the whole family to show them how cheap they actually are instead of making them feel like they are right. Sai should have also pointed out how Pakhi clearly said that she didn’t know Samrat well so this trip for Samrat isn’t anything more than sightseeing with virat for her but then in front of the whole family, she shows herself as this bechari patni who misses her lapata pati. I don’t even think she remembers that she actually has a husband half the time. And yes, the family does think of Virat as a toy, a toy they give to Pakhi did Jude because her husband is lost. That line sounded a little cheap to me because of my dirty mind, sorry 😳 but I think it was suppose to sound like that too. Why else would the family be so stubborn in sending them alone? What special thing is Virat and Pakhi gonna do that can’t happen if sai goes with them? 🤓 She hit the right spots. To me, it looked like Virat actually started seeing it from Sai’s perspective but then, he couldn’t handle the truth and like always, tried to hide from it. That “Baas” seemed more like a plea to stop showing him the truth rather than him stopping Sai from saying nonsense, as he likes to believe.

Today, we finally got to see the emotional Virat. I don’t know about you but I think it has been a while since we saw that Virat so I was happy to see it. Though his cry did make me feel bad because it looked like he cried because he realized how Sai saw him and it wasn’t in the way he would like it. He doesn’t realize it, but he does want an husband wife relationship between them. His dialogues like “Pati kya, tum mujhe apna dost tak nahin manti” proves it. He sees her as a wife and has some expectations from her but Sai has taken his words of not expecting anything from him too seriously but it also makes sense. Why would she when the person that her husband claimed to love lives in the same house? The only aspect that Virat doesn’t want is the physical aspect of a marriage because then, it would feel like cheating Pakhi and also in a way, Sai so he doesn’t want that but ignoring that, he wants a life that any other couple would have. Unfortunately, he himself was the one who closed those doors.

Sai also seems like she wants to have a normal relationship with him but then again, his words during their marriage have made her stop thinking about that. She is hurt with the fact that Virat loves someone else, she does get hurt but seeinf Pakhi everyday but she knows there is no point on grieving on it. She keeps telling Virat to not worry about her and try to get close to her because then, she will start having expectations from him, she will start seeing him as a husband but since she knows the outcome of that, which is disappointment, she doesn’t want to change their relationship to a more intimate one. The way she keeps going about their relationship, it seems like she is frustrated by the limit put in their relationship by Virat that he himself fails to follow but expect her to.

When I heard Virat saying, “logo ko padna jo nahin aata tumhe Sai”, yeh sirf “zindagi ki tajoorbe se milta hai”, I was like, phir tumhe kyun itna time lagraha hai Pakhi didi ko padne ka, tumhare paas toh zindagi ke tajoorbey bhar bhar ke hain, ACP Virat Chavan Saheb Ji. That’s why people say dusre ke ghaltiyan napne se pehle, apne giribaan main jhaank na padhta hain.


Great Job by Neil and Ayesha. They were able to perfectly express what Virat and Sai were feeling that time. I have felt like Neil’s acting was lacking a bit nowadays but today, I saw the same passion for acting that I used to see during Gulaal times. Ayesha definitely improved a lot from before. The voice modulation, the expressions, the eyes and dialogue delivery were awesome from her side, totally was able to keep up her ground in front of Neil. I am really proud of her.

I was planning on not watching the episode but I saw this scene on insta and had to come to share my views.

Originally posted by: ammu3

Hey .... I am somewhat a silent cum slightly new member of the forum 😅

But today’s episode 🔥🔥🔥🔥 .... I couldn’t resist myself from asking a post.

I am not a big fan of remake titles usually .... it’s because they usually seem to have not much of a meaning to it .... just kuch bhi daal do ... jinko dekhna woh toh dekhenge hi....🤷🏽‍♀️
But for a change .... what an apt title for the show ..... and the perfect episode to point it out.

“Lost in somebody’s love” ..... truer words couldn’t have been said. Whether it is to be said for Virat, or Pakhi ..... or to some extent even Sai - the statement rings true for every member of the trio.

Despite all the obvious antagonists and the lack of sense or logic in any of the members ... the obvious only-seen-in-tv-soaps-kind-of villainous behaviour of an entire family ... Pakhi has been the only antagonist ... whom I had felt even a tad bit of sorry for.

Because all the elders they have no justification whatsoever for their misbehaviours. Even Sonali - that woman is somebody I have no respect for .... because what is a person who cannot stand up for their own kid. In this world, so competitive, so cruel ; wherein no one trust one another .... and everybody is out looking out for only themselves and slash off anybody else off the board ..... a child’s main support system is his parents. Now it’s a diff thing to scold, guide or even a physical scolding like a slap : and it’s another thing to continuously demotivate, emotionally abuse a child. So if they cannot look out for their child .... what is the purpose of even remaining in the good books of the family’s head ? For what purpose ? Jaaydaat kisko denge? Izzat kisko denge ? Kutte ko?

Coming back to today’s episode. What an episode. And despite all the interviews, all the bts that got us to peaks of frustration .... the same CVs, have done a wonderful job . What a script. And what a fabulous cast whether it is Sai or Virat ... today Ayesha and Neil nailed it.

Often times even is not up to Sai or Virat’s mark ... I feel even Patralekha does a half decent job of maintaining a mask of a person. She is no longer her true old self. She no longer understands the situation. She no longer knows what to do. So I would hopefully assume, it is the same confusion that she shows us. The same pointlessness of actions.

Virat as a person is very .... a placating type of individual. We often appreciate that in a man. Jo zyada gussa na Kare, no sabkho happy air calm Rakhee, jo ghar aur beewi ko done khush rakhe etc etc. It is in these situations that we begin to see the negative to that nature. Virat’s first instinct is to diffuse the situation. Which is often good, but sometimes frustrating for the audience as well as the other person. Somebody is screaming at you, shouting at you, facts pe facts, accusations, doubts, worries etc .... and his maximum reaction is a loud noise of disapproval - “Ayyy!”
No counter arguments, no counter facts, no answers, no dispelling off the fears. Bas .... “kya bol rahi ho tum” .....”Sai!”. For such a straightforward, no nonsense of a person, that Sai is, this is heights of frustration.

Every person wishes for the other person to be calm in a fight. And in a way it’s true. Fight zyaada der tak nahin rahegi. But that is applicable to usual fights. Chote mote .... bina wajah ki fights .... which start from khaane mein namak nahin hai to tumhare ghar wale pagan hain.

Not in an actual confrontation. Where the fight arises out of frustration and seeking for closure. You expect the person to be just like you. Confrontational, blasting out answers and calming you down in an instant.

Just like Virat expects everyone to behave in a “matured”😂😂 manner in fights. Calm and not reactive, behaving placidly. Even yesterday’s fight ... he was was like can we stop this ... and get going. His immediate get go is like how we behave with a children. Shant shant karwaana.

I just absolutely loved today’s fight. What a script. Ek pe ek placating answers, or she is like achha toh yeh lo uska bhi ke sawaal. Honestly I feel like Virat’s non confrontational behaviour has got all of them into a mess. And that runs in genetics I guess. Kyunki samrat as well. Baat suna nahin ke ghar ko chod diya.😬
Whether it’s clarifying with Pakhi or sai, the man has absolutely no Akal on workings of a mind.

Of course trust is very important, but not at such a fragile stage of a relationship. Especially when the dynamics where diff then and now.

And Pakhi, .... Pakhi. The less I say about this character, the better. I don’t know what to feel for her. Is she wrong ? Absolutely. Is she right ? ....Ummm somewhat.

I feel like Indian soaps don’t know how to properly handle a grey shade character. I mean she could have been a wonderful grey shade character ; with such potential to resonate with a normal person but. Alas. I don’t know what writers think - ki hum Sai ko utna pasand nahin kar paayenge ya phir thode log pakhi aur Virat ko bhi ship karenge... Lord knows.

Such a pitiful character. The character she was, and what a shell of a person she remains as of now.

They are all truly lost in somebody’s love. I loved the play of words here. It is not uski pyar mein ... it’s kisikey pyar mein. Which is absolutely true. These people are all lagging behind, unable to move on, stuck in the bindings of love, for a person who is someone. A random stranger. Koi bhi. And they are so lost that they are unable to find their ways back. And what do you do when you are stuck ? Try, test all ways, even create ways to try and reach the shore. And they all are doing so in their own ways. Even Pakhi for that matter.

Pakhi is looking for time to spend with Virat ... alone ... confront him on matters, speak ..progress .... and whitewashing it under the pretext of as a friend sharing their day to day activities and gile shikwe with their friends. She believes Virat doesn’t even acknowledge her man hi man mein. Always wishing for Sai to be there. Hence the reason why she is so jumpy when asked what’s wrong in that. She is like .... have you reached a state where in your mind I have stooped so low, that you can’t be alone with me. Is it like a guarantee ? And she can’t help the pointless, cheap workings of her mind.

So I really hope for the best with all the three members. Because Sai resonates one half the world, while Pakhi does definitely represent a moderate amount of people in this society. A half decent person, with not so strong morals, but not originally a bad person. We would like imagine all of us are like Sai, but only true situations can determine whether we will end up becoming a Pakhi.
If only Pakhi had a bit of self esteem when it comes to Virat, some ego. And if only Virat had some common sense.

But truly loved today’s episode. Kyunki kitne hi serials mein the lead pair talk to one another. Warna usually it’s like started on a misunderstanding .... self sacrificial people here and there, misunderstanding cleared after 2 seasons, able episode mein bachhe. 🤓

Loves reading this and I'm glad the episode got you out of your silent mode😳

We all sort of explodes like Sai today🤣

One thing for me - and I've probably watched a handful of scenes from 5/6 episodes🙈... Virat mostly wants to avoid the obvious when it comes to Sai and his mother whilst he placates the vultures. I still can't get over how he quietened his mother many times and allowed his Beast friend to insult her.

Why does he need your be in a push comes to shove position to stand up for the two women who are most dear in his life according to his r/ships

Also after having finally watched the confrontation scene - Sai clearly said one thing - that Pakhi ISN'T ashamed to openly fight for her love!👏👏👏👏👏

it seem like tdy they delayed the epi its not up up

chalo its up now🤣

Originally posted by: Mages

it seem like tdy they delayed the epi its not up up

chalo its up now🤣

Plz watch quick and let us know how it is.

Hand holding/twisting scene today i think😬

I think Sai missed the point & most imp question in her opening argument. Instead of saying she didnt want to go on the trip coz Virat forced her, she shd have said she didnt want to go coz Virat was hiding it fm Pakhi & the fsmily & she didnt feel comfortable with that. “Why should she, the wife, go secretly with him as if it is illicit?” “Why did he hide it from Pakhi until the last minute?” These all important questions were never asked nor addressed. Instead Sai hurt Virat by making it sound like she simply didnt want to go out with him. Thats why he brought up her ego pride etc.

Kya parivar hai wah

Virat ne Sai ko kaana dene se mana kardia 😱

Originally posted by: Nimaaa

Kya parivar hai wah

Virat ne Sai ko kaana dene se mana kardia 😱

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