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@TM .... honey how old are u?

i think u should tell ur own parents as well instead of trying to handle all of it alone 😕 May be they could help and guide u better than us since we dont know all the aspects (like how the gal's family is likely to react) if u think they are the violent sort .. than telling ur parents will be a good idea 😊


take care 😊

she has to tell to her parents........no one understands u better den dem.......bahar koi bhi fayda utha sakta hai......let dem b angry bt they will think of her well being.......so have faith and just let dem knw......

tell her dat dey might get angry and out of control for sometime bt later only they will help her......hope things take a right turn for ur friends and m happy dat she has such a caring and loving friend.........god bless u guys

us ladke ko maza chakha na mat bhulna.......

ask ur friend 2 take her parents for counseling first or if they dont agree 2 go then make the counselors come 2 hr house n make her parents understand d situation first without disclosing it's their daughter first.....it's better if u ask opinions from counselors first n then make a move 2 tell her parents....but if her parents r like maybe throw her out or try 2 make her take drastic steps like geet's family ... i mean like killing her or something....then better arrange for some police protection or some kind of physical security for her..... a case can be filed against d guy for raping a minor.....watever maybe d situation she needs support ..... so u guys who r her friends needs 2 stand by her at this time as it's now u friend needs u guys....... i hope u understood....
maybe i can write it out again for u in steps......

1) first check with a counselor how 2 open d matter 2 her parents.....
2) open d matter 2 hr parents carefully......
3) if her parents are ready 2 accept her n take a move against the guy legally then file a case against the guy (minor rape case) bcoz the girl's consent doesnt matter anyway bcoz sh is underage..... even if her parents ar not ready then u guys should make some arrangement for her stay n food n all..... n then file d case....
while filing or before filing d case gather as much proof as possible 2 make d case strong.....
4) consult an ngo for women..... strongest support from them is needed.....

i hope it's useful for d girl.....open d matter 2 her parents as soon as possible but o it carefully ok... n bring out d case as soon as possible...... but support ur friend now ..... n ask d girl 2 b strong n ask her not 2 take any drastic steps..... if she isnt listening make her understand or take her 2 d counselor first n make her understand properly wat can b done for her problem....ok....but on thing i want 2 say.... please support d girl....wat she did is wrong.... but wat's done is done..... so she should move on ahead in her life.... not end it like dis....her life is not her own property 2 take such a drastic step....nor does her parents have any rights over d girl's life 2 kill her or something.... n now she has a life growing inside her.... ask her 2 live for d kid..... ask her 2 continue her studies.....so dat she can get a proper job 2 support her n d kid.... not many ppl will get a support like maan n all.... somewhere some guy may have been born for her..... who is broad minded n would accept her with d kid....... or if there is no one like dat then ....... she would b better off as a single mother..... though it may affect the kid.... the kid should be told about it's parentage when it comes of d age when it can understand wat is wrong n wat is right.... guy's name should be bought out in d open so dat d society doesnt point their finger on d kid n the mother for being a social stigma...... if she hides it off then d society may talk bad bout her n d kid so better d guy's name should come out in d open.....

My parents wont keep her at any cost..i have a friend who is not from this city and lives in a house for rent..no one knows her here..i think she can stay there in emergency....i talked to that guy just few minutes back:(:(:(:( he was so sulky and rude..he was like what can you do to me....do you think her family will go against their repo and to police.....and i never asked her to get preg...please dont spoil my career..and i know she is too coward to do suicide....you only handle her and no need to expect that i will take any kind of responsiblity...i just felt like killing him right at that moment.:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

She is 17 and so she has not reached the legal age to make her own decision yet..

Originally posted by: Arwen...

@TM .... honey how old are u?

i think u should tell ur own parents as well instead of trying to handle all of it alone 😕 May be they could help and guide u better than us since we dont know all the aspects (like how the gal's family is likely to react) if u think they are the violent sort .. than telling ur parents will be a good idea 😊


take care 😊

i am to 18 year..if i tell to my parents they will be like focus on your career..and she will get what fate has decided for her:(so its useless talking to them:( as they wont let me help her

Originally posted by: Chikkipupuapgp

My parents wont keep her at any cost..i have a friend who is not from this city and lives in a house for rent..no one knows her here..i think she can stay there in emergency....i talked to that guy just few minutes back:(:(:(:( he was so sulky and rude..he was like what can you do to me....do you think her family will go against their repo and to police.....and i never asked her to get preg...please dont spoil my career..and i know she is too coward to do suicide....you only handle her and no need to expect that i will take any kind of responsiblity...i just felt like killing him right at that moment.:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

can u come online on gmail or something i will send u my mail id.... i could tell wat can be done for her shelter or something.....

My id is dspoiu@gmail.com.. But i guess i cant come online dear:(:(as my mom is calling me to sleep:(:(:(friend if you dont mind can you leave am offline message:(:(:(:(:(i will reply in morning...i am badly in need of help:(:(:(:(please dont refuse :(:(:(