Making Khushi Mine II ~ (THREAD 26) - Page 64

Ohh no... I guess it takes something major for Arnav to accept his feelings towards Kushi

Originally posted by: melonie

Hi,

Beautiful update made me think quite a lot. For the past 2 updates I was not able comment...so many things were going on in the chapters and I was not able to get my thoughts clear.

Honestly I don't feel sorry for Khushi. I know it's insensitive of me to say that especially in the condition that Khushi is in right now...but don't you think that Khushi brought this on herself... though not intentionally.

For the past 3 months she has been trying to put her feet in two boats and sail...wants to make everyone happy..wants to forgive everyone..wants to please everyone and what happened? ultimately nobody is happy.

No one wants to be in a situation where they have to choose but sometimes life is like that. Either Rishab or Arnav she had to choose, not try and keep this faade going. I have a feeling she still doesn't understand Arnav.

First thing that still hasn't gone into her head is that Arnav's childhood has been miserable. He didn't have parents for whom he was a priority. He didn't come first for them. I don't think they even loved the boy. His very foundation in life is weak and how long have they been married? just 3 months only right. Just because Khushi came into his life all that he went through is not going be erased. It takes time and patience and even though Khushi wants to be the epitome of all this she is failing miserably. She will never understand what it's to be lonely and not having a guiding figure, loving parents in life. It's not her fault by God's grace she didn't have to go through that kind of difficulty in life. She has been sheltered, pampered and cared throughout so how much ever she tries there is not much she can understand.

Yes, her parents died when she was young but God blessed her with a new set of parents in the form of bade papa and buaj plus she had her chachu and Rishab and the entire household help of RM was there to pamper and care for her. What about Arnav?..having to grow in his situation is tough...he has scars that are too deep and just because from the past few months Khushi is paying some attention on him, those scars are not going to vanish. If she understood this many things would have been avoided.

Going to the previous chapter, it was extremely foolish of her to sit there and entertain Rishab, Buaji and bade papa when she knew her husband was very upset with the situation. Her excuse to stay put was quite pathetic to put it mildly.

If she is upset and if her husband knows that she is upset what would she had expected from Arnav? Anyway I can't do anything about the situation but let me not console my husband also, let him mop around and come back?

What would have happened if she said "Buaji let me check on Arnavji..the food is getting cold?" Calming him and staying with him would have earned his trust, respect and also it would have made him feel special, he would have felt, yes there is someone who cares about my mood and feelings too. It was his birthday and making him feel a bit special and pampered would not have cost anything. I would have given his ego a boast also in front of Rishab.. " like dude your presence doesn't change anything" (I am not trying to ignore their afternoon but still )

Coming to their LM, it was beautifully done and presented. This Rishab has to always spoil everything. It shows no...in life you will think everything is going your way, everything is perfect but that's just an illusion!

Coming back...hehe...Is Khushi really over Rishab? Yes she gave herself fully to Arnav but there is something going on with Rishab that she is trying so hard to please him. What was she really thinking when she confessed about her love and crush. No husband in this world (insecure or not) would have tolerated that sh** After being married and also knowing that her husband doesn't appreciate Rishabs she still went and did this? I will call her nave and immature. She is 22 years..not some 14 year old. I still don't get why she said that to Rishab will anyone with even half a brain do that? I am actually very shocked at her stupidity.

I am thinking...See even with Arnav she proposed a break even though she was like..."even if he doesn't love me back it's ok" but the truth is that it's not ok. I will be patient and wait but she is not. And confessing like this to Rishab..she wants to rub salt on his wounds when Rishab was telling how heart broken he is? All this cannot make me see Khushi as this pure..extremely gold hearted girl. I am not sure if you were doing this intentionally but this shows that Khushi has a lot of flaws and even she needs to do a lot of working and learning in life. Why try and be so magnanimous when you are not. Be and take what you can handle.

Even if Arnav didn't come there, is there any guarantee that Rishab would not have rubbed this on Arnav's face one day? As if R and A has been so buddy-buddy like to trust his so blindly with her feelings!

She tells Arnav that he is important to her and if he wants she will stay away from Rishab but this is all a...I don't know what to say.Khushi has enough going on in her personal life and instead of having a personal lunch with her husband she decides that it's the appropriate time to have a sendoff lunch with Rishab who I must say really turned out to be her true friend!!

Rishab is Khushi's definition for friend? He is one back stabbing man. If he cared about Khushi even an ounce he would have not put her in that situation. Years is just a number. Will he admit to Khushi that he stayed away from his feelings for her because he was unsure of her limp. I hope he does. I would love to know how she will react to that. That will make her understand Arnav also. Arnav is a gem when you look in that way. Because of his childhood he has trust issues and insecurities but otherwise he is over qualified to be her husband. Good that he kept calling before making an appearance at her work. And she expects him to trust her? I am 100% with Arnav on this.

Coming to Arnav for once please stop running from difficult situations and face them like a man. Running away never solved any problems in life. But I have to give it to him that after the dinner party he stayed away from Khushi because he didn't want to hurt her.

To be frank I am not happy with this accident episode. Actually it should have been Arnav instead of Khushi...he needs a break from all this drama. I really don't want him to have this guilt trip. This is just going to push him away. Why put Khushi's life in danger just to make him realize her love and importance? I don't know Anony as a reader I somewhere feel a bit dissatisfied...I really didn't want Arnav to have to go through this yaar.

He has enough problems and demons to attack, was this necessary? If his life was in danger then I feel even Sumer would have opened up to his son and they would have had a heart-to-heart conversation. That would have given some stability and relief in Arnav's life. Also Khushi would have given it back to Rishab..all the trust and friendship she wanted to keep intact and this is how he repays her. Maybe I am jumping to conclusions here with the accident but lets see how the next chapter goes.

I hope this is a second chance for Khushi also...to understand who is Arnav and who is Rishab. Somewhere I hope you will express how Khushi felt on what Rishab did to her. I hope for once she realizes that she should have just stayed away from Rishab...atleast for a little while. I hope she really admits that. I would also like Arnav to open his heart to Khushi and together they should be able to cross this barrier, rather than all this accident and guilt and pain.

And by God if that Rishab chap comes and try to rub dirt on Arnav saying that if he was with Khushi then she wouldn't have been in this condition or some sh** like that then I will do him some damage from my screen...

Something is missing yaar..please do something. Hope you don't mind my comment and I am sorry if I took too much liberty. I hope you didn't fall asleep =) Pls cont soon..