Raghav's Payback Time: Let's count insults and Papad...!!! - Page 3

All I know is that i still am looking for some additional guy who could be used to make Raghav jealous.. and I want him to realize that what could losing Kalpi actually mean...
Kalpi giving those smiles and readiness to be with him, is not just making him think about his past actions.. real restlessness and regret could only be when Kalpi has some friend who is guy, and prove to understand her better then Raghav.. this friend can act as Love Guru for Raghav.. But.. Probably a scene where he is there to help Kalpi, and declare that he is sure Kalpi cannot fail.. and Kalpi tells Raghav on face, that I cannot trust you or tell you why I am upset, because you could never understand, like this xyz person, who is now going to help me sort out results..!! Raghav could then sit back recall his behaviour towards Kalpi on knowing she had failed..!!

Originally posted by: gina24

oh god this episode. the whole time I was watching this one I was literally shouting what's with this guy he wanted someone intelligent enough to come up to him and ask for his help that what she did instead he started mocking her. Baapre itna bhaav khaya tha raghav ne apni hi property bachane ke liye

Exactly the other day this guy was convicing sammy .. that he is waiting for that one intelligent person..!!! Why??? So he can do this to her???
Make fun of not only kalpi and her poverty, but here he even had dragged Kamla maa in it..!!

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Exactly the other day this guy was convicing sammy .. that he is waiting for that one intelligent person..!!! Why??? So he can do this to her???
Make fun of not only kalpi and her poverty, but here he even had dragged Kamla maa in it..!!

Oh the Pune episode? I may have forwarded the insults part again.

Did he actually tell Sammy he is waiting for an intelligent person to come ask him for help to save the chawl?😆 What the hell?😆 So he did want Kalpi to come speak to him.

The file he gave the inspector seemed to indicate that he had a back up plan in place. So it was a way to bring her to him and then insult her😕😕😕

My god, your post compelled me to comment (which I am trying to refrain from because I need to be studying now at the moment lol). Really, well written and thought out post! But yes you're right. The way people want Kalpi to just accept him baffles me. Yes, I do think that confession was rushed but that's alright. It happened already so nothing could be done. However, now I want Kalpi to not just accept him. I don't care if he insulted her to keep her away from him or to make her stronger. Insulting her like that could have just crushed her self-esteem.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Kamla's sanskaar had always made Kalpi strong, and try to rub off the difference between rich and poor,... Not to feel weak because of their financial status.😕😕
She was and will never be affected by words of Neetu or Any Kapoors.. But there is one and only one person, who has developed this gap.. i.e. Raghav Singaniya..

The difference he is trying to rub today, are the difference he has himself created between them.
His words had always affected Kalpi... and Affected bitterly..

Let's Start:

1. Interview of Kalpi.. He told her to make coffee, because she was daughter of maid, and indirectly he taunted her..
2. When Kalpi went to Mumbai to call him.. He publicly called poor as helpless.. and that running behind people to help them, always wish to build their lives on donations given by rich; Calling Poor people some words, while they were stuck in washroom... and continuous insults while driving.
3. Calling her weak time and again, after she realized she had failed..
4. He did not trust her during presentation.. But the words like cheat (Namak Haraam, Escapist, Cunning)... and indirectly saying that's nature of poor..
5. His insults during Uss Raat incident for over trusting and being over smart, happy for her resignation, making her realize her position as assistant is of low post.
6. Calling her dumb, for running away from troubles.
7. Telling/ Considering Kalpi as root cause of all his troubles.
8. Last But not least, Incident of genda phool..
9. Not inviting her to party, and just calling Paakhi, in front of her.


Many may argue, some of those taunts were to make Kalpi Stronger... But..trust me there could have been better ways... Taunting after failing, did make her go back with consideration of rechecking the paper, instead, he could have just suggested as mentor... or something in better way then he did...
Taunts on Poor and Poverty was at worse.. and bitter...
But see... what happens now..!!
It's highly a pay back time... for bridging the Gap he himself has created... and let's count improvement level.

1. Genda phool in office -1
2. Eating spicy food- 2
3. Bus Travel Suffering- 3..

All I can say is there is long way to go.. Hence I want him to work harder.. and even harder..!!

Love this post
I am glad cv didn't make kalpi admit her feelings immediately
raghav has some serious making up to do

Originally posted by: mehr05

ouch! now that you've enumerated how badly Raghav behaved, its like a jolt back to reality.

really, Raghav needs to double up his efforts to redeem himself and he has a long way to go...but i know he is a brave guy, he'll be worth it all at he end for our Kalpi. 😃

Originally posted by: incredible96

Even though i do think that you are right, that there were better ways of telling kalpi, but i dont think he wanted to tell her in a loving a caring way...this is probably because he did not want her to come close to him as may have sensed that this would cause problems for him and his revenge plans...(even though it has in some way by insulting her as well)😆...however i think that whatever taunting he has done too her has paid off has i think that she has gained even more courage to meet her goal. i just hope that their differences get sorted out whoch would be interesting to watch 😊

That's one of the main explanation, I have given for this post..
Just Because You have Problem 0f trust..
Just Because You Do not Want anyone to be Close to You...
Yet You Want to Help her out of the Problems...
Just Because You Want her to stay away from You.. (Yet not letting her go..)
It's You Who feel that She is Creating troubles in his Revenge Plans..

That Does Not Give You Right To Make Such Bitter Statements,
To Behave So Rudely,
To Make her Embarrass Publicly..
...
She has always been strong... I really don't know how much has she actually been benefitted by Bitter Raghav.. Simply not sure.. Vitthal and Kamla has always made her Strong.. But by positive reinforcement... How she convinced her to go to Part, How she confided her to go and re-evaluate the paper, these were just a perfect ways to make her strong.. She never felt weak, because she had their support..!!
But as I said.. Just Because You Have Problems, You Cannot Make her Target and Victim of your Anger... I am sorry, it still wouldn't be justified..

I have NO CLUE from where and how does Kalpi find care in his akdoo pan??


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PS: To CVS, just because other serials follow stupid treands, that does not mean, YOU have to follow it too... Please bring Some Logic..!!

Originally posted by: Shona_Mayur

My god, your post compelled me to comment (which I am trying to refrain from because I need to be studying now at the moment lol). Really, well written and thought out post! But yes you're right. The way people want Kalpi to just accept him baffles me. Yes, I do think that confession was rushed but that's alright. It happened already so nothing could be done. However, now I want Kalpi to not just accept him. I don't care if he insulted her to keep her away from him or to make her stronger. Insulting her like that could have just crushed her self-esteem.

Raghav only knew her so much from childhood, so he couldn't have been that sure that she wouldn't end up crushed. However, let's give him that benefit of the doubt. Still, he has insulted her and reminded her constantly of their differences. He is the one who created that wall in the first place, so yes he has to take time to break it. People shouldn't just expect her to fall in his arms. Once the wall is made, it takes time to break. So, he definitely has a very long way to go to mend for his past insults! He needs to work a lot harder, and he seriously needs to be patient. I mean, dude you can't expect her to fall for you and say she likes you after how you treated her before. Give her time and be patient. Help her out emotionally. Girls value that the most (especially a girl like her. So, my advice to him at this point would be to not push it. Give her her space and time to think. Be there but to support. I am hoping that the makers keep that in mind..

Now, I am ready for all the counter-comments lol

That's re-explanation of my post...!!😃😃😃 Sorry for the post that distracted you from your studies... and yes.. Raghav needs to be patient..., and calm... but he is not.. he is just plain possessive... Seeing ur DP as well... that scene of Raghav pulling Kalpi back...!!

Trust me,... I felt Paakhi is at milder way love from Raghav... Paakhi is being sensible and taking slow steps.. Raghav is directly taking big jumps.. and he seriously do not realize consequences of his steps on Kalpi's reputation, if anyone else realizes sees this behaviour with Kalpi... People maybe insulting Kalpi, by saying, *boss ke saath chakkar chalati hai*, *Chalu ladki hai*, *Itna short cut memsaab ban ne..*,... and since she is from poor family... what she will have to hear something worse then this...!! But trust me... Raghav will not be affected by anything,.. it was yesterday Kalpi was insulted by Raghav, and in future, by Society because of Raghav..!!

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

That's re-explanation of my post...!!😃😃😃 Sorry for the post that distracted you from your studies... and yes.. Raghav needs to be patient..., and calm... but he is not.. he is just plain possessive... Seeing ur DP as well... that scene of Raghav pulling Kalpi back...!!

Trust me,... I felt Paakhi is at milder way love from Raghav... Paakhi is being sensible and taking slow steps.. Raghav is directly taking big jumps.. and he seriously do not realize consequences of his steps on Kalpi's reputation, if anyone else realizes sees this behaviour with Kalpi... People maybe insulting Kalpi, by saying, *boss ke saath chakkar chalati hai*, *Chalu ladki hai*, *Itna short cut memsaab ban ne..*,... and since she is from poor family... what she will have to hear something worse then this...!! But trust me... Raghav will not be affected by anything,.. it was yesterday Kalpi was insulted by Raghav, and in future, by Society because of Raghav..!!

exactly remember how aaji and manda tai keep on reminding kamla about how kalpi is a girl who's working so late staying away from home late and all I'm damn sure her abd raghav's relationship will come forward in a very bad way that will make kalpi wrong in the eyes of society and her family even though raghav will be with her at that time (hopefully) but for a girl in today's world relationship with her boss is seen as just using him for her ladder of success It's disgusting no doubt but that's what our society thinks and n this case too same will happen