Originally posted by: -rosel-
Renu,avni i agree with you guys to some extent...
Rads is emotinally very strong..and both r direct asking type,arjun wanted to know how rads felt about him..and he did ask her about saral..but his way of askin was different...
They might discuss about how they felt..but it needs some trigger..like wen they are lookin at a photo,some movie they might feel to talk about their feelings...
But in each phase there was a bitter moment attached..like lonavala had accident scene,arj abandoning rads scene.arjun doesnt want to remember that at all..
Then there was saral issue..which was bitter..he tried to forcefully marry her,their shop burned...radhika is strong..but even she broke down after saral's dhamki..
After marriage they had some light moments,that they can discuss...at that time nandhu truth came out..
I said that they wont discuss it cos they know each other very well..they have been each other's support...when rads broke down,it was arj who supported her and arjun broke down rads supported him...
They might talk about some light moments like police van scene..he might make fun of her,mock her...he might tease her about her bukkad nature...
Hi rose...u r back...nice to see u...
i totally agree vth dat particuar point...u start interaction wen u want/wen d other initiates/wen u remember something to interact/or wen u see something which reminds it...n some times just u feel like sharing...
dats y i said, dat wen they wake up in d morning they can discuss abt their sleeping moments b4...
i know they know each other very well..they can read d other without any words being said...but communication z best thing in any relation...
take sam n neil...they felt many things n realised...even though they speak a lot on other stuff...wat they truly feel abt each other z less...atleast neil tried speaking wen he realised...sam didnt give it a thought...if they sit n discussed it like wat they discuss abt bhojpuri films...they could hav been together long time back...
sam -piayali, if they discussed wat they feel abt each other, their distance could b solved..
arjun tried saying dat revenge z not r8, but nandhu z not ready n he has to keep his promise...dats y dat comminication z failed...
radhika, saral, radhika tried to say wat she felt every time...dats y they came till dat much in their way...
in every relationship , even though u understand, tellling wat u feel z good...
we can leave small things...but ardhika, they never discussed much abt their feelings from d start...now they need to use words...
if u look at dat divorce paper scene, arjun z total doofus...radhika too...but she has valid reason too...wen he said he vl leave everything if says y she wnt give divorce...wat he got she doesnt hav himmat n hasiyat...
if he directly said "i love u n i can leave everything for u directly", dnt u think radhika m8 hav said, sam loves u, u need to clear it...bcz already she thinks i took u from her..if i love u also...i cant claim dat n take u...which gal vl say she loves a person who z loved by her best friend...radhika z r8...its not r8 to say dat wen sam z still there...wen arjun z ready to leave everything , he should hav said wat he truly felt for her...bcz he has a way...
i truly believe dat radhika didnt give much importance to saral, except for her family's sake
she cried/broke down dat n8...bcz saral stooped to so low...she never expected dat...n there z no other way tto escape also...if u remember mala n radhika's dialog to arjun, if he was not there, they dnt hav d himmat to break d engagement even though they want to break...she left considering saral as friend long back...dat too in dat shop wer he yells at her...n she just leaves him there...there itself she lost d little bit respect she had on him...
in past arjun dnt hav anyone apart from nandhu n rana to talk abt wat he feel...
in dat nandhu never waits for him to talk abt his feelings...its always just abt wat she expected from him from him...rana knows d past...but arjun z not d one to open up to him totally...wen he cant open up to nandhu...
but vth radhika, we hav seen d kid back in him, he z himself vth her not only abt his feelings in small small things also...wen he feels anger he shows it...wen he feels asking soemthing he asks her...in d start he z more angry...vth time...dat too after saral's entry his anger z totally reduced n his protective side z increased...
in one or two cases, wen radhika takes abt his mom...he becomes little bit vary of it...after marriage he didnt take much time to call mala maa...if he z not comfortable he could hav called aunty...nobody vl ask him...i knw nandhini doesnt advice him abt dat...its his wish...he already knows he can get dat type of love from mala for sure...
wat i am trying to say...lol...wait i hav to think y i started this in d first place...wat to do yaar...wen it comes to ardhika starting mind vl b some wer...n it goes to some wer else after a while in their thoughts...
lonavala accident e almost lost her...he z scared hell for sure...but he didnt hav any one to talk abt it at dat time...wen she got consciousness already nandhu entry n sam z there...other wise he could hav asked her to dnt do this type of stupid things by making her life at stake n all...bt he didnt hav anyone there...
bt now, after their confession, for example wen she was cutting vegetables if she got hurt by knife...definitely he vl ell at her...bcz he cares for her...n tells her how she z not careful n reckelss wen it came to her life...
how much she scares d hell out of him by dng these things...n then definitely he vl tell her how scared n lost he was in lonavala trip...this time he wnt keep it inside...he vl speak out...because sometimes talking vl make u feel better...n he wanted too...so dat she vl realise how effected he was for her...this type of talk z needed...
u know it wont be dat sad for sure...wen they hav each other to support now...n watevr d tears they m8 hav vl b for their love n not bcz of dat situation happend long back..
saral's issue may b arjun vl laugh it off in d start meeting n all.., dat saral missed many punchings from him...
sometimes wat we feel sad n most difficult situation in d past, sometimes makes us laugh...n becomes a memory...
anyways wat i wanted to say z, ardhika vl talk wether its good or bad or sad...they r dat type for me...they vl face watevr comes their way wen they r alone...so now double strong to face everything...
anyways too much on this topic r8...lol...take care...
Edited by lovv - 9 years ago