Originally posted by: ranjitha
In the last four years, the word Feminism has been abused by the so called feminists. Feminism which ideally means to treat all people as equal, irrespective of their gender, it has now been used to show how much better women are and as a tool to get an upper hand when a man and woman are involved, even when the woman is at fault.
I am way too confused about the Hrithik-Kangana spat. It's way too complicated and convoluted to take sides, so we can only 'guess' what might have happened. According to me, they did have an affair sort but since this is so common in BW, I don't think Hrithik imagined even in his wildest dreams that this would be made public.
But Kangana is not any other aam ladki. The moment she got a chance, she made it public and how ! But in this case, more than anybody, media and amm junta have been the key players, who did not think even for a minute before putting the entire blame on Hrithik ONLY because HE IS A MAN. Her interviews with Rajat Sharma and BDutt were anything but dignified. No reporter dared to ask the questions that Arnab posed to Hrithik. She played the woman card and these so called feminists cashed on it. They both are at fault, am not not sure of the percentage.
All BW stars have now come openly in support of Hrithik. It's really their choice to support one or both or none of the people involved in a spat, but the sudden frankness has left me confused.
My takeaway from this spat it, right or wrong does not take sides of a gender. Shekhar Suman and his family used this to vent out their frustration and their open letters were below the belt. Then there was Kangana who openly made fun of Hrithik and their relationship, not considering even for a minute what effect it would have on his family, which includes his kids too.
Finally, as I always say, I am glad when I step out of my house, I am a nobody to everybody walking around me.
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