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Originally posted by: -MONA-

Bhol na chode mein😆

I am not sure how you will all take this.
Blue, Rockstar, Ariana, Mona, Nilu, sunny, amrita, ravibans, nadaan, everyone,

I still am supporting Gautam. But there are following things that are bothering me a lot.

1) Just before the party started in today's episode (Dec 10th), Gautam was kissing Diandra on cheeks and asking if she will not kiss him back. Immediately after the party we know that things changed. It is abrupt. If he really wanted to get away from her long back itself, then why is he asking her to kiss him?
2) First time Diandra took Gautam into the bathroom on his birthday and they still had their mics so it was okay. Second time even if she is taking him into bathroom, why did he go in? There is a saying "fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me"
So, Gautam got fooled second time. So the second time what happened is his mistake also.
3) on WKW, before Salman Khan ,the way Gautam and Diandra stood with arms around each other. Then Sonali said that Gautam told her that Diandra is just a friend.
Why did Gautam say that that its not his speaking style? Instead why didn't he just say that Diandra is just his friend there only? It would not have come to this stage.
4) Pritam, Praneet encouraged this love stuff with Diandra and also Sonali. But Dimpy cautioned Gautam before. Even Pritam questioned what is his method of operation. Gautam had some pretty good hints much earlier and now he is taking it seriously.

Diandra did bigger mistakes like kissing in front of every one, or taking/dragging Gautam into the bathroom. She also said that she is bindaas and also can take care of her own emotions. But as per precap, looks like she is going to blame him as well.

I know that Diandra literally took advantage of Gautam, but Gautam is not a baby. He is a 27 year old guy. They are both adults. It is not love as in fairytale romance. It is not friendship. What they shared is some attraction for each other, mainly from Diandra and Gautam did not refuse.

But the above few points are really bothering me as a Gautam supporter. I am not able to look at Gautam as a innocent victim. Specially this guy advised Sonali to be careful about reputation and he did not follow his own advice.

I know that he tired to scare her away that bigg boss gave a warning about PDA and she cried about that too. He could not get away from her. He should have been firm with her then only. Now he is reacting after advice from party guests.

Maybe I am thinking too much. Till now I took pride in supporting Gautam because he respected women, he is wise for his age, he is hard working, he is loyal and a good friend. Now I am not able to take the same pride in supporting Gautam.

Don't understand me wrong, I still support him. He is still the better person compared to rest of the contestants in that bigg boss house.

It will take some time for me to overcome these thoughts.

PS: Gautam used Diandra to make Sonali jealous. This can still be ignored by viewers as some immaturity.

Originally posted by: bbsai

I am not sure how you will all take this.
Blue, Rockstar, Ariana, Mona, Nilu, sunny, amrita, ravibans, nadaan, everyone,

I still am supporting Gautam. But there are following things that are bothering me a lot.

1) Just before the party started in today's episode (Dec 10th), Gautam was kissing Diandra on cheeks and asking if she will not kiss him back. Immediately after the party we know that things changed. It is abrupt. If he really wanted to get away from her long back itself, then why is he asking her to kiss him?
2) First time Diandra took Gautam into the bathroom on his birthday and they still had their mics so it was okay. Second time even if she is taking him into bathroom, why did he go in? There is a saying "fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me"
So, Gautam got fooled second time. So the second time what happened is his mistake also.
3) on WKW, before Salman Khan ,the way Gautam and Diandra stood with arms around each other. Then Sonali said that Gautam told her that Diandra is just a friend.
Why did Gautam say that that its not his speaking style? Instead why didn't he just say that Diandra is just his friend there only? It would not have come to this stage.
4) Pritam, Praneet encouraged this love stuff with Diandra and also Sonali. But Dimpy cautioned Gautam before. Even Pritam questioned what is his method of operation. Gautam had some pretty good hints much earlier and now he is taking it seriously.

Diandra did bigger mistakes like kissing in front of every one, or taking/dragging Gautam into the bathroom. She also said that she is bindaas and also can take care of her own emotions. But as per precap, looks like she is going to blame him as well.

I know that Diandra literally took advantage of Gautam, but Gautam is not a baby. He is a 27 year old guy. They are both adults. It is not love as in fairytale romance. It is not friendship. What they shared is some attraction for each other, mainly from Diandra and Gautam did not refuse.

But the above few points are really bothering me as a Gautam supporter. I am not able to look at Gautam as a innocent victim. Specially this guy advised Sonali to be careful about reputation and he did not follow his own advice.

I know that he tired to scare her away that bigg boss gave a warning about PDA and she cried about that too. He could not get away from her. He should have been firm with her then only. Now he is reacting after advice from party guests.

Maybe I am thinking too much. Till now I took pride in supporting Gautam because he respected women, he is wise for his age, he is hard working, he is loyal and a good friend. Now I am not able to take the same pride in supporting Gautam.

Don't understand me wrong, I still support him. He is still the better person compared to rest of the contestants in that bigg boss house.

It will take some time for me to overcome these thoughts.

PS: Gautam used Diandra to make Sonali jealous. This can still be ignored by viewers as some immaturity.

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in my honest opinion, i think he played both or used them for his benefit in a way. He used sonali to make diandra jealous which is why now when i think abt it, when diandra and ali were on stage during diwali thing, he wanted to take away the attention away and hence sang for sonali. In some way i think he started caring for sonali but she wasnt giving him a clear signal he was confused with her.

Originally posted by: tina59

in my honest opinion, i think he played both or used them for his benefit in a way. He used sonali to make diandra jealous which is why now when i think abt it, when diandra and ali were on stage during diwali thing, he wanted to take away the attention away and hence sang for sonali. In some way i think he started caring for sonali but she wasnt giving him a clear signal he was confused with her.

now with diandra, i am unsure what relationship they share, what is it? friends dont act this way and they arent lovers and what was that about him looking at sonali while saying ur eyes distract me and then saying again and again do you understand as if he is conveying that to sonali, no person who is with another gal would do that.

i am just totally confused so in a way i feel he played both in a way

@tina, I dont think Gautam played with Sonali at all.
In fact I think he protected Sonali a lot of times.
Even on the day when Sonali slapped Ali, Gautam made fun of Ali to down play Sonalis violence.
Even when Sonali was with Upen, Gautam just warned her to be careful.
He did not play with Sonali's emotions.

I think last season is influencing inmates a lot. GG probably didn't think locking in bathroom will create a furore since it didn't affect Gauhar's popularity and their family didn't mind either. But everyone knew Gaushal were in love where as most don't like Diandra and they were enemies for the most part.

3) on WKW, before Salman Khan ,the way Gautam and Diandra stood with arms around each other. Then Sonali said that Gautam told her that Diandra is just a friend.
Why did Gautam say that that its not his speaking style? Instead why didn't he just say that Diandra is just his friend there only? It would not have come to this stage.

here Gautam agreed he had told Diandra is his friend. Sonali later added Gautam Bhol raha tha Diandra first day se uss pe try kar rahi hai for this he said ye mera language nahi hai... So he was clearly told in front of Salmaan he treats diandra as only a friend...

4) Pritam, Praneet encouraged this love stuff with Diandra and also Sonali. But Dimpy cautioned Gautam before. Even Pritam questioned what is his method of operation. Gautam had some pretty good hints much earlier and now he is taking it seriously.

Originally posted by: bbsai

@tina, I dont think Gautam played with Sonali at all.
In fact I think he protected Sonali a lot of times.
Even on the day when Sonali slapped Ali, Gautam made fun of Ali to down play Sonalis violence.
Even when Sonali was with Upen, Gautam just warned her to be careful.
He did not play with Sonali's emotions.

gautam lying down on the bench, diandra sitting on the edge of the bench, in direct sight of gautam is sonali who is sitiing on the bench outside the garden door,

all got up and now diandra went and sat beside sonali