What kind of mentality is this ? - Page 6

That's so sad, but this is how so many women - especially the older generation ones - continue to think. At the end, he will return to me. Women are taught - conditioned - to be nurturers, and we need to care for others while ignoring "faults". People will still judge you by how good a mom, wife, daughter, etc. you are. You are defined by relationships where men can just be men.

Marriage is a partnership of 50-50, if you have to give more to it to work, end it. You cannot do anything that is so wrong that it equates to being abused - there is absolutely no justification. You leave him/her if it happens, it ain't love. It's just sad.

Originally posted by: Donnybrook

That's so sad, but this is how so many women - especially the older generation ones - continue to think. At the end, he will return to me. Women are taught - conditioned - to be nurturers, and we need to care for others while ignoring "faults". People will still judge you by how good a mom, wife, daughter, etc. you are. You are defined by relationships where men can just be men.

Marriage is a partnership of 50-50, if you have to give more to it to work, end it. You cannot do anything that is so wrong that it equates to being abused - there is absolutely no justification. You leave him/her if it happens, it ain't love. It's just sad.

Agreed.... except, I think it's okay to give more and pick up the other person's slack if the relationship is worthwhile and it all evens out at the end. Obviously that excludes abusive behavior and infidelity that women of those days loved to rationalize.😵

^^^You are right, I should have put "continuously" lol.

Omg this is so sad 😞

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi

Ranbir really had fcuked up people for parents, didn’t he? Alia, run before you become Neetu part deux. You’re already halfway there with your emotional infidelity being worse than physical infidelity philosophy as it is.

And if she runs then what? Ranbir will get to be innocent girl which is worse. So let him and Alia be. She’s okay with it and at least has a backing and protection with other innocent girl won’t have. That’s why I find them perfect.

Originally posted by: The_Best

And if she runs then what? Ranbir will get to be innocent girl which is worse. So let him and Alia be. She’s okay with it and at least has a backing and protection with other innocent girl won’t have. That’s why I find them perfect.

What innocent girl? Stop asking about fictional items

I am saying if Alia runs then RK will be with another girl who most likely 90+% won’t have the industry and family backing like Alia has nor she would be okay with physical infidelity. That would be far worse for that girl. At least Alia is okay with all that and likes a ranbir. She isn’t hurt. So let her be with him. They suit one another.

What is emotional infidelity? Not your man dreaming of sucking another women's this and that everyday jerking off or rushing off to screw any of the dozen girls available then ..

is it alright?

I feel sick to my stomach imagining my partner or father doing it at home. I wont be able to get through the day🤢🤮

Alia just seems like she wants to be Mrs Ranbir Kapoor at any cost.

Sad but this is the reality of many couples not in just entertainment industry but in regular lives as well😬