What kind of mentality is this ? - Page 4

Originally posted by: SlowlyDrifting

What is emotional infidelity? I'm genuinely curious..

When you catch romantic feelings for someone else while being committed to someone else. Physical infidelity is just fcuking, no feelings necessary

Waise, Neetu also had fun with Ena Sharma... They had been in an abusive polyamorous relationship.

From Outlook India (1997)

Stardust ran a veiled story on Neetu's intimate friendship with Ena Sharma, Sanjay Dutt's controversial sister-in-law. This was followed by another interview in which an anguished Rishi Kapoor squarely blamed a few disgruntled families in New Jersey, America, (Ena and her family) for stubbing his marriage into shreds.

"Suddenly an upstart like Ena crops up from nowhere and stakes her claim in the relationship. Neetu was present at (Ena's sister) Richa's funeral and Ena stays with the Kapoors when in India. There is also a rumour that when Rishi was shooting in America, Neetu joined Ena in London. These stories have really upset Rishi immeasurably," says a family friend. Rishi's own reaction in Savvy was: "Which marriage doesn't go through its share of tiffs and arguments? But we are not on the verge of a divorce."

For a while, Rishi's directorial venture Aa Ab Laut Chalein actually drew attention from his marital problems; till Ena and the corresponding spousal spats surfaced again. Though Rishi insisted that Ena was as much a friend of his as of Neetu's, friends feel that the industry's most exemplary marriage might face the axe. "Rishi is trying to hold the marriage together but it seems like Neetu might want out. If that happens, Krishna will have all of her three sons living in their Chembur house once again," speculates an industry wag.

Which would be a pity.

Fcuked up mentality

Also I believe that how a person's personality has shaped up is purely his/her decision. Their personality might be influenced by their surroundings till they come of age. Post this stage it's all about them making those decisions soundly. I don't believe in just blaming the parents if a child is immoral.

The quotes though

https://twitter.com/GraceVictoriaCo/status/1510556421909532674?s=20&t=eGIWNat06w8jb7Kg0wlrow

Originally posted by: Galouti

Waise, Neetu also had fun with Ena Sharma... They had been in an abusive polyamorous relationship.

From Outlook India (1997)

Stardust ran a veiled story on Neetu's intimate friendship with Ena Sharma, Sanjay Dutt's controversial sister-in-law. This was followed by another interview in which an anguished Rishi Kapoor squarely blamed a few disgruntled families in New Jersey, America, (Ena and her family) for stubbing his marriage into shreds.

"Suddenly an upstart like Ena crops up from nowhere and stakes her claim in the relationship. Neetu was present at (Ena's sister) Richa's funeral and Ena stays with the Kapoors when in India. There is also a rumour that when Rishi was shooting in America, Neetu joined Ena in London. These stories have really upset Rishi immeasurably," says a family friend. Rishi's own reaction in Savvy was: "Which marriage doesn't go through its share of tiffs and arguments? But we are not on the verge of a divorce."

For a while, Rishi's directorial venture Aa Ab Laut Chalein actually drew attention from his marital problems; till Ena and the corresponding spousal spats surfaced again. Though Rishi insisted that Ena was as much a friend of his as of Neetu's, friends feel that the industry's most exemplary marriage might face the axe. "Rishi is trying to hold the marriage together but it seems like Neetu might want out. If that happens, Krishna will have all of her three sons living in their Chembur house once again," speculates an industry wag.

Which would be a pity.

Wasn't a thread on this closed the last time it was discussed? Won't be surprised if the same thing happens with this thread.

Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly

That’s when the affair isn’t just physical but an emotional attachment forms as well. What Alia said was basically what Neetu had said in this old interview. She doesn’t care if Ranbir goes out there and has one night stands but if he develops any feelings for these people then it’s a deal breaker for her.

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Pretty sure that's a different kettle of fish...

The whole swinger thing is for people who actually find the idea of their partner sleeping with other people sexy (when I say it takes all sorts lol 😆) as opposed to *tolerating* it, as far as I know at least...

Very sad.

Wish they were more courageous and independent to remove such toxicity from their life, instead they are accepting and normalizing this BS 👎🏼

Originally posted by: DushtKanya

No shit, he is? :v Au contraire, he's smart enough to choose someone who's accepting all his baggage over conventional good looks. I don't exactly care much about RK but his decision of marrying Alia makes sense

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Pretty sure that's a different kettle of fish...

The whole swinger thing is for people who actually find the idea of their partner sleeping with other people sexy (when I say it takes all sorts lol 😆) as opposed to *tolerating* it, as far as I know at least...

Oh yeah it is, what I meant by mentioning those is that people are open to all kinds of stuff nowadays x)

Who knows, maybe Alia does like the supposed thing between Ayan and Ranbir 🤷‍♀️