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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well the truth is India has its norms.

She may have been a good mother, I am not indicating she is a bad mother. However, her theory on rejecting a divorce to Rajesh, has been that it is for her children. So she keeps Rajesh, tied at the knot, but pursues an affair with Sunny, does not even offer comfort to Rajesh. Frankly had she divorced, Rajesh would probably had married someone who had loved him, proposed to him.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lamhejaate

Well the truth is India has its norms.

She may have been a good mother, I am not indicating she is a bad mother. However, her theory on rejecting a divorce to Rajesh, has been that it is for her children. So she keeps Rajesh, tied at the knot, but pursues an affair with Sunny, does not even offer comfort to Rajesh. Frankly had she divorced, Rajesh would probably had married someone who had loved him, proposed to him. The magazines and the sources at that time, state this. While media today has changed the story, that Rajesh rejected Tina.


While she was gallivanting around with Sunny Deol, he was sharing tootbrush with Tina Munim. Nobody is a saint. However, Dimple married him at what... age 16? At that age, you've barely finished playing with dolls and here she was getting married to an older man. So of course that marriage wasn't gonna last. Why just blame her? They are both equally to blame but RK more because he practically married a child, forget the legalities for a second.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dimple did the right thing separating from Rajesh. Her life would hv been finished

living with a man who didnt love her and controlled her completely.
Her life flourished after she left him. And now she has two daughters who have
done so well and are well settled.
There are many praises lavished on Rajesh Khanna for his 'superstardom' but
really none can say 'he was a wonderful man' or recount his kindness. The
reason he never got back into mainstream movies is becuase he troubled producers
directors and colleagues so much, they were glad to see the back of him.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for the write-up but its highly biased against Dimple. According to his own words few months before his death he was happy with his patch up with Dimple. They were not on husband-wife terms but decided to remain friends. And his so called selfish family always let Anju Mahendro look after him too respecting their relationship. From the write up topic maker you sound like Ms. Advani!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: lamhejaate

While he was sharing a tooth brush with Tina, he was also requesting a divorce from Dimple. RK actually took Dimple with him to Tina's home, in 1982. Only in 1984, after Dimple left, did Tina and RK get closer, while tabloids then state that Dimple had already had an affair with Vijayendra.

You are right, I do not like the tabloids either. Yet RK's life has been tragic, the last few years, and it may have felt bit better, had he married someone kinder.

well dolls are good, but by Indian standards, and thats where she lived, Dimple had already done Bobby, that can easily be qualified as a movie for adults, back then. So she definitely had not been a child.



Dimple had to raise her kids by herself. Sunny provided the financial support and even launched Twinkle in Barsaat. RK was too busy drowning himself in alcohol to give two shits about anyone.

This is an
expert from a couple of years ago when Simple Kapadia, Dimple's sister passed away.

At Simple's prayer meeting, Sunny Deol threw his customary caution to the winds and stood rocklike at the head of Dimple's family line, along with Akshay, Twinkle, Rinke, Simple's son Bitti and Dimple, to accept condolences.
Strangely, Rajesh Khanna was nowhere around. At one time Rajesh had got along so fine with saali Simple that he had cajoled Shakti Samanta to launch her opposite him in Anurodh. The film had wonderful music by R.D. Burman but flopped with an aseptic, chemistry-less romance between the lead pair. Rajesh had been too aware that the audience would see Simple as his sister-in-law and therefore had avoided any kind of physical intimacy with her on screen. It had resulted in a drab film with far too many inhibitions and compromises.
Dimple hasn't had much luck with her siblings. Her youngest sister, Reem, died of an overdose of drugs early in life. Her only brother who was also an addict cleaned up his act and now works for drug rehabilitation. Sister Simple was the one full of joy and spirit.
With her passing away, several chapters of the past flitted across the hall. Rishi Kapoor came to condole with wife Neetu by his side. Neetu and Dimple have long ago bridged the many differences they had. Also spotted at the condolence meet was Ranjeet, the villain with whom Simple had such an intimate relationship that it had annoyed Rajesh Khanna and had led to a cold war between the two men during the shooting of Shomu Mukherji's Chhaila Babu.
It is believed that Akshay Kumar and Twinkle have taken Simple Kapadia's teenage son under their wing. It is Twinkle who is supervising her cousin's studies and taking care of him after his mother's fight with cancer ended last week.


RK was a great superstar but I can't get myself to sympathize with him for his last few years. Nobody cared for him, because he didn't care for anyone.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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RK was no saint but plz dimple was equally non saintly, her affair with sunny for the last 20 yrs is baffling.
dharam's son, Sunny dont attend their step sisters wedding but stands like a rock for his mstress dimple in her trying times...
IF rk Cheated so did dimple. ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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When a person dies, suddenly everyone starts seeing him or her as a saint! It is a natural thing...a dead person can not harm anyone and you instantly feel sympathetic to the fact that he is not anymore in the world...hence, try and speak only good about him.
But that is not reality. Every person...every single human being in the world, has a good and bad side to him.
Same was with Rajesh Khanna. Just like you (the original poster of this thread) I too have done a bit of research on Rajesh Khanna. (Primarily sourced a lot of information from my mom, who was his ardent fan and was a witness to his super-stardom era!)
Rajesh Khanna, while undoubtedly an extremely charming man and a talented actor and ofcourse, the undisputed numero uno of his times, was also a very complex and flawed person...he was notorious for being surrounded by a coterie of people who were there to just agree with him on everything. He was known to have a super-colossal ego (which ultimately led to his professional decline and financial ruin) and mostly he was infamous for having ill-treated many, many of his colleagues and friends while on his success-run.
There was an article about how Rajesh Khanna used to insult Amitabh infront of the entire set of Bawarchi, when Amitabh used to drop by to meet Jaya. (They were courting at that time)
RK made the life of his producers and directors miserable with a capital M. Read any article you want to on his life, everyone will talk about his talent and charm and his sway on the masses, but not one will talk about his professionalism. Rajesh was known to walk midway out of film shoots ,turn up late and keep everyone including his co-stars waiting endlessly and throwing unaccountable tantrums on the sets! This was one of the biggest reason why he exploded like a supernova and then fizzled out just as quickly...when his audience got bored of him, no film-maker wanted to cast him anymore and put up with his attitude.
Coming to his personal life, I think, by now, everyone knows, how he not only unceremoniously dumped Anju Mahendru for Dimple, but just to spite her, actually took his wedding procession infront of Anju's house. And instead of accusing the woman of being 'too modern' and 'cynical' one must admire the fact that she put all rancour behind her and not only befriended him back but actually was with him in his last days. And kudos to Dimple for being understanding enough to let Anju be with the rest of the family during Rajesh Khanna's last moments. Being the wife, she could have hogged all the 'personal glory' of being the only person to have taken care of her estranged husband, but she did not do that.
Regarding his marriage to Dimple, how can she be accused of breaking up the marriage, when she was just 16 years old at that time? She celebrated her 16th birthday after her wedding to Rajesh and had given birth to Twinkle even before her 17th birthday! He was 15 years her senior, a superstar and a man of the world!
Dimple might have married him for his superstar status, but he too married her on rebound...only to get back at Anju.
So if the marriage went kaput, I think it is most likely, that Rajesh being the older of the two, would have been more responsible for the same! Just because a man is ready to give you marital stability does not mean that he can buy your freedom and own you for life. Some women might prefer this kind of arrangment, but if Dimple did not, it doesn't make her a vamp!
Also, it is well-documented by several magazine articles and newspieces, that it was Rajesh who did not want to divorce Dimple and hence, he broke up with Tina, because she wanted to marry him. Rajesh, who as you say, was essentially a traditional man at heart, did not want the tag of divorce, yet he chose to stay in a live-in-relationship with a girl half his age...and then later refused to marry her. (There is an old article in screen magazine where Tina Ambani talks about her relationship with Rajesh Khanna, perhaps the only time she did. Will post it when I can find it online somewhere! Nowhere in the article did Tina blame Dimple for her relationship with Rajesh going kaput.)
Dimple has been ostracised for her relationship with Sunny only because she was a woman and a single mother.
Just because a man drowns himself in alchohol does not make him a tragic figure. Rajesh Khanna was an adult and if he chose to drink away his problems, then it is his problem and no one else's. He wasn't the first actor and he certainly won't be the last to have battled personal crisis in his life...do all of them become Alcoholics?
Rajesh Khanna will always be remembered as a great artist...the first bonafide superstar of Indian Cinema, a gifted actor and an extremely charismatic man...but that does not make him a perfect human being too. He had his flaws and he had lots of them...and while his death might sweep away his past mistakes in nostalgia, they don't erase it all-together.
Edited by poppy2009 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree, Once a person dies people only during that time remember him/her as a good person. The topic is clearly very biased and puts anju mahendra and Dimple Kapadia in a bad light. all humans have their shortcomings and rumors cannot always be true. I have heard that RK tried to sabotage amitabh's career, but if that was true dont think Amitabh would had been at his funeral. He surely respects Rajesh Khanna.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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http://zeenews.india.com/entertainment/celebrity/rajesh-khanna-and-the-darker-shades-of-his-life_115753.htm

An interesting article on RK

Rajesh Khanna and the darker shades of his life

It is considered discourteous to write in negative tones after any person's demise. Never speak ill of the dead, the saying goes. Journalists and writers, however, must remain faithful to their calling and document the truth about Rajesh Khanna before it is drowned in a crescendo of blandishments from publicity-hungry cronies.

Rajesh Khanna's worst enemies were the sycophants in his lifetime. They created the destructive genie which lurks within but is kept in leash by most of us. Not so with 'Kaka', as the actor was popularly known. He allowed his ego full play and, at a later date, even rued his lifestyle; but, by then, it was too late. He had alienated his well-meaning lady friends, his old schoolmates, his aides, servants and relatives.

In hindsight, the only similar example from the world of cinema I can recall was the famed Howard Hughes, inventor, industrialist, film producer, director and a psychotic. Hughes is also credited with a film which is a media favourite, a veritable study guide for young film directors. For film historians it is the greatest film ever made: 'Citizen Kane'.

Howard Hughes introduced half a dozen girls to Hollywood, but he claimed that his best discovery was Jane Russel. After acting in a couple of films, Russell actually dumped Hughes, causing Hughes to withdraw into a private world of his own with very strict rules for all who had access to it. One former actress, Jean Peters, decided to stay with him until he died, sacrificing a promising career in Hollywood.

The only thing that separates Rajesh Khanna from Hughes is that the former contributed nothing to the industry he served while Hughes founded an entire empire of companies under the Howard Hughes Corporation which included the Trans World Airlines, Texas Equipment Co. and an armament manufacturing company. On top of everything, Hughes made stars out of ordinary men and women.

Kaka had a mean streak. He used his star power to demolish any opposition. Actress Anju Mahendroo could have much to add to my own story which I wish to share.

The time was when Rajesh Khanna was about to get married to Dimple Kapadia after a long-drawn romance with Anju Mahendroo. The latter and her mother had a royal tiff with Khanna before Mahendroo walked out of the home in which she had been a regular. The film industry was with her. What made Kaka furious was the reaction from even his well-wishers. He blamed Mahendroo and her friends for all the negative publicity.

My close friend Basu Bhattacharya had just completed his latest film 'Daku' featuring Kabir Bedi and Anju Mahendroo. One working print was sent to Delhi by the producer for private screenings. The film came to me for tax exemption as I was the film expert on board the official committee of the Excise Department in the Delhi Administration.

'Daku' was based on a novelette written by the famed Punjabi writer Amrita Pritam. The writer did not charge any royalty because she had tremendous regard for Basuda as a film director. The film was issued a tax exemption for a period of one month after its first week's commercial run in Delhi. I had found the film worthy of the exemption.

The film, however, was never released.

Rajesh Khanna's fierce battle with Mahendroo led him to order the private confiscation of all films in the country featuring her. He even went so far as to declare that he would pay double the cost incurred to all filmmakers with rights over their films in which Anju Mahendroo had a role. He demanded that even lobby prints, posters, trailers and advertisement films et al featuring Mahendroo be handed to him or his representative. He paid for all the material seized.

The entire record of Mahendroo's film career to date virtually disappeared. Films already released, like 'Road to Sikkim', were withdrawn. The advertisement for a well-known brand of talcum powder endorsed by Mahendroo also disappeared and, of course, there remained no trace of the film 'Daku'.

Basu Bhattacharya was furious at the turn of events. 'Daku' had already got full tax exemption in Punjab and more credit would be forthcoming. Kaka had other ideas. He probably had all the material destroyed. At one time Bhattacharya even contemplated re-shooting 'Daku' with a new star cast, but funds were his insurmountable problem.

I think 'Road To Sikkim' might still be in some private possession as a 16-mm print in eastern India. If it is still around, I would wish for it to re-surface now and its print be sent to the National Film Archives for preservation. Anju Mahendroo deserves to be resurrected.

Rajesh Khanna came to Delhi for a charity premiere I had organized for the film 'Shakti' in which he played the role of a policeman. At the press meet I asked Kaka about the release of the film 'Daku'. His reply was that he had not heard of any such film. I told him about the Anju Mahendroo story. Khanna simply stared at me transfixed and expressed the desire to meet me separately, but I decided not to oblige him.

From time to time I am asked: Could Rajesh Khanna have been rescued?

I do think that Kaka could have been saved from himself. In 1984, Rajesh Khanna's last big hit film 'Maqsad' became successful and he was in good spirits. At this time, one of his physician friends could have prevailed upon Kaka to move out of Bombay for an extended period of detoxification and recovery from his problems.

Khanna nearly succeeded in 1991. He was asked (by the Congress) to stand in a by-election for the Lok Sabha seat from New Delhi against (the Bharatiya Janata Party's) L.K. Advani . He lost by a whisker. He stood again (because Advani vacated the seat, having also won from Gandhinagar in Gujarat) against Shatrughan Sinha (also of the BJP), and won. But he wasted away his gains due to his wayward behaviour.

Rajesh Khanna's worst enemies were his arrogance and self-indulgence. He was a poor listener, always bent upon dominating the lives of his dear and loved ones. He had mood swings and could be very generous to someone at one moment and an utter miser in the next moment. The constant refrain around him touting his superstar image had turned his head and he could no longer lead a proper private life. He became consumed by an overpowering need to be surrounded by fawning flatterers at all times.

The entire machination could well have been filmdom's clever strategy to create a counter point against the camps of Dev Anand, the aging Dilip Kumar and Raj Kapoor. The phantom created by vested interests for public consumption ultimately consumed him.

Kaka remained a lonely man. He had numerous affairs with women whom he could not marry. Dimple, foreseeing the ultimate fate of her husband, had left him to himself in his big house Ashirwad, refusing to grant him a divorce. The public never knew much about all this.

Rajesh Khanna's last supposed romance was with Devyani Chaubal, a gossip columnist cast in the mould of Hollywood's Hedda Hopper. The Khanna-Chaubal romance ended with her untimely death.

In later life Kaka also became a frequent visitor at hospitals for his many ailments caused by his erratic lifestyle. Something had to give and, in his case, it was his weak and thinning body.

Aware of Kaka's declining health, Kapadia knew that she would inherit some of his wealth as his surviving widow and share it with her daughters. Her return to Kaka in his last days could be an indication of her foresight. Many like me must feel that she rightfully deserves to inherit Rajesh Khanna's wealth after all the physical abuse she suffered from her superstar egoistic husband during the ten years of their married life.

Like Howard Hughes, Kaka did not want his illness to be made public. Both died of the same disease. Even on his deathbed, Kaka reigned over his body, come what may. The dark side of his life could eventually come to light, just as it did in the case of Howard Hughes.

IANS

Edited by poppy2009 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dimple's marriage was legal. The child marriage restraint act of 1929 fixes the marriageable age of girls at 14 and boys at 18.

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