Originally posted by: shellily
Just noting your points:
"I am sorry I think you got your logic worng, at least that is what I infer from your post. People do not like Raja for his temper. Also people do not hate Rahul or Zulfi because they can control it. As far as Raja is considered most people give this reason of him being his self just to justify Raja's behavior, but people actually like him for his entertainment value." " If Raja could have controled his temper, he would have been favorites of everybody by miles and that is the logic what all Raja bashers bring against him and rightfully so."
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People here all seem to be making the excuse that since he is showing anger so he is true...which is what I am pointing out... he is by no long shot a winner and ifs and buts can be plenty ...... that way we can give so many ifs and buts for Rahul's behaviour and anybody else's behaviour also...
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Also you say:
"As far as Rahul and Zulfi are concerned, people is hating Zulfi not for remaining cool, but because he is putting wrong things into Debo's mind about Diana and breaking their friendship, do you think that is a great quality? I don't think so. About Rahul people are hating him for projecting himself as too innocent and naive which he surely is not and also going about any female available first Ma, Ma then Pa, Pa and then again Ma, Ma. In our society, two timing is always seen wrong weather you are married or not, and if he claims that with Payal it was nothing and only for TRP still that does not justify his doings with Payal."
As somebody on this forum pointed out ... they both seem to be willing participants in whatever relationship they have -- so why should we bother.... even Payal was a willing participant in whatever game they were playing --- so he wasnt forcing himself on anyone. same with Monica -- she never sys no to him-- its always she will go outside and see what happens --- so she is giving him full permission as well. And in that sense he is openly flirting with everyone and not hurting anyone....as even Monica that way knows what he is when she asked Diana whetheer he tried with her also.... and by the way as you rightly say all this behaviour is not a good quality...adn it is rumored he is the same in real life as well.... so then why dont you say he is real???
And what is wrong with Zulfi manipulating as well? Everyone is doing it...it is part of the game... raja is number one at this anyway... but even that I dont hold against Raja becoz as I said it is the game and if you are here --play it well.... for that part even though I hated Sam I have to give her credit for playing the game and hanging on for so long... she was cunningly able to manipulate and create an illusion of "groupism" which was never there...adn keep rotating between teams and create misconceptions among everyone.
The only thing which was really irritating was that crass, fighter-cock, violent behaviour of Raja or for that matter even Sam seems to be glorified saying their heart is good. People can be angry in different ways and everyone has a right to be annoyed and really angry...but how you express it in a civilized society is what is important....and givign credit to a person who expresses it in the wrong way was just not understandable... which is the point I made....
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